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I’m in a popular friend group in my high school because I took the social pill in middle school, but I feel as if they’re drifting away from me and we don’t hang out as much. At school I they kind of talk to each other and I just sit there. Maybe some addy? What can I do to get close to them again so I don’t become a reject?
 
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Get off org nigga, your nt if u can make friends without drugs, I needed nicotine to supress my anxiety enough to socialise at all. And still then it hardly worked. Tbh jus hang out with them & smoke cigs or drink alch to lower inhib
 
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I’m in a popular friend group in my high school because I took the social pill in middle school, but I feel as if they’re drifting away from me and we don’t hang out as much. At school I they kind of talk to each other and I just sit there. Maybe some addy? What can I do to get close to them again so I don’t become a reject?
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Get off org nigga, your nt if u can make friends without drugs, I needed nicotine to supress my anxiety enough to socialise at all. And still then it hardly worked. Tbh jus hang out with them & smoke cigs or drink alch to lower inhib
Well I was neurotypical in middle school but we all smoked too much and I became retarded so they kinda drifted away from me. Ik they’re not real friends but I need to be close to them until I finish high school at least for the status
 
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bro just speak to a lot of people and try to become friends w your friends friends, try to share the same interests(even if it's drugs) and you got it bhai. also never talk about looksmaxing to your friends.
 
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just go talk to them as simple as that, and if they deadass don't want you around don't go chasing them around like a dog
 
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I’m in a popular friend group in my high school because I took the social pill in middle school, but I feel as if they’re drifting away from me and we don’t hang out as much. At school I they kind of talk to each other and I just sit there. Maybe some addy? What can I do to get close to them again so I don’t become a reject?
Act Nt and be the jester irl, in org be yourself.
 
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I’m in a popular friend group in my high school because I took the social pill in middle school, What can I do so I don’t become a reject?
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What can I do to get close to them again so I don’t become a reject?
I’ve been where you been at your age and much older multiple times.

Tbrh honest with yeah popular group is fun, this might sound very cliche but be yourself, what I mean by that is - do NOT go out of your way to conduct favours for them. Do NOT simp those men, remember they are just as flawed as you.

Remember at the end of the day, if anything were to happen at all you would still be fine alone. This kind of deep internal confidence takes time but normies will respect it.

Take a small test and see for yourself, who initiated the last 5 convos you can remember? Was it one word answers to
You or nah? Do you tell you insider jokes looking right at your face or nah?

You’ll understand whether you’d wanna hang with them or not.
 
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I’ve been where you been at your age and much older multiple times.

Tbrh honest with yeah popular group is fun, this might sound very cliche but be yourself, what I mean by that is - do NOT go out of your way to conduct favours for them. Do NOT simp those men, remember they are just as flawed as you.

Remember at the end of the day, if anything were to happen at all you would still be fine alone. This kind of deep internal confidence takes time but normies will respect it.

Take a small test and see for yourself, who initiated the last 5 convos you can remember? Was it one word answers to
You or nah? Do you tell you insider jokes looking right at your face or nah?

You’ll understand whether you’d wanna hang with them or not.
One thing I disagree with is that it’s fun, in my experience it sucks and I can’t see why people wanna be popular. Yeah you get attention, yeah you get invited to things. But you’re most likely not gonna like them, they’re only good for social life. I like them a bit as friends but they can chose to dislike you in a second and I have to live on the edge my whole high school year. But I’m gonna keep being friends with them for the attention and social life because I don’t think I can live as an everyday normie. :feelswhy:
 
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I’m in a popular friend group in my high school because I took the social pill in middle school, but I feel as if they’re drifting away from me and we don’t hang out as much. At school I they kind of talk to each other and I just sit there. Maybe some addy? What can I do to get close to them again so I don’t become a reject?
i think is because u use terms like social pill, thats how life works, get over it and live your life youll find new friends and the cycle will start again
 
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Get off org nigga, your nt if u can make friends without drugs, I needed nicotine to supress my anxiety enough to socialise at all. And still then it hardly worked. Tbh jus hang out with them & smoke cigs or drink alch to lower inhib
how do i lower inhib without drugs that will lower my iq
 
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