zygobase
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Social interactions work off four main things (at least the ones I focus on day-to-day to socialize with other humans easily): comfort, how good the conversation is flowing (the topic doesn’t matter), joy, and interaction. Number one—if there is no interaction, there is no connection between you and the other person.
Make sure to kinda be up their ass *only* if they give you the same energy. If not, read the room and back off. When you guys are talking and, for example, she/he says, “Yeah, my day was good, the weather was pretty nice, I enjoyed it,” this is how an IQcel would respond: “Yeah, mine was pretty nice as well. So where do you work?” NO. NO. NO.
Relate to them. Ask, “Ohh, what did you like about the weather?” or something like, “What did you do today that made it enjoyable?” Don’t topic-jump. Ground yourself. Stay centered around what they are talking about until you see some kind of exit from the conversation as a whole—or just that topic. If the topic gets dry, don’t try to revive it. Switch it. Change it to something different.
I can’t say this enough: if you’re a “mista smart” man, please fucking stop. I can assure you, you look like a fucking retard sitting with a girl at lunch saying “exuberance, brother.” Stop embarrassing yourself. Use words you think the IQcel female would use.
To fully understand conversation, you need to understand human nature in the most primitive/primal way—and the softest way. People are sick creatures, and most of them have a burning hatred for you as soon as they see you. If you feel it, just walk off, bro. Not worth it.
Conversations are way easier than you autists make them seem. You sit there like a pig next to a nice grandma at a thrift store “waiting for an opportunity to talk.” Just like with foids, you don’t wait—you force it. No, but seriously, eventually there will be an opportunity, but it will leave both of you still thinking about why you were sitting there completely silent for 30 minutes. Just talk. Keep your conversation flowing like water in a river.
If you have anxiety and you’re too lazy/scared to go out and train your mind to not be scared of it, just get on some meds or nootropics like Selank or something. U genuinely have to just *be there* for that person through the conversation and make them feel somewhat special. Make them feel happy. When they feel happy around you, they associate you with that happy feeling—they will keep coming back if they feel that way.
Pulling foids is easy. Social interactions are easy—even with millionaires.
Make sure to kinda be up their ass *only* if they give you the same energy. If not, read the room and back off. When you guys are talking and, for example, she/he says, “Yeah, my day was good, the weather was pretty nice, I enjoyed it,” this is how an IQcel would respond: “Yeah, mine was pretty nice as well. So where do you work?” NO. NO. NO.
Relate to them. Ask, “Ohh, what did you like about the weather?” or something like, “What did you do today that made it enjoyable?” Don’t topic-jump. Ground yourself. Stay centered around what they are talking about until you see some kind of exit from the conversation as a whole—or just that topic. If the topic gets dry, don’t try to revive it. Switch it. Change it to something different.
I can’t say this enough: if you’re a “mista smart” man, please fucking stop. I can assure you, you look like a fucking retard sitting with a girl at lunch saying “exuberance, brother.” Stop embarrassing yourself. Use words you think the IQcel female would use.
To fully understand conversation, you need to understand human nature in the most primitive/primal way—and the softest way. People are sick creatures, and most of them have a burning hatred for you as soon as they see you. If you feel it, just walk off, bro. Not worth it.
Conversations are way easier than you autists make them seem. You sit there like a pig next to a nice grandma at a thrift store “waiting for an opportunity to talk.” Just like with foids, you don’t wait—you force it. No, but seriously, eventually there will be an opportunity, but it will leave both of you still thinking about why you were sitting there completely silent for 30 minutes. Just talk. Keep your conversation flowing like water in a river.
If you have anxiety and you’re too lazy/scared to go out and train your mind to not be scared of it, just get on some meds or nootropics like Selank or something. U genuinely have to just *be there* for that person through the conversation and make them feel somewhat special. Make them feel happy. When they feel happy around you, they associate you with that happy feeling—they will keep coming back if they feel that way.
Pulling foids is easy. Social interactions are easy—even with millionaires.
