social life and looks

[Layd]

From your personal experience, did improving your looks make it easier to maintain/ make new social relationships?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I've never liked people. They're interested but I don't like them. I don't know about being social.

 

[Layd]

I always struggled with keeping/making new friends and im not even that socially akward(most people i meet usually like me/have a good impression of me but i always have periods in which i isolate myself and lose everything.
Im hoping improving ts would make it easier to find new ppl

 

[Layd]

I've never liked people. They're interested but I don't like them. I don't know about being social.

doesnt lonliness bother you?
cause i actually dont like people in general either but it sucks when i become completly lonely

 

[swaggers]

From your personal experience, did improving your looks make it easier to maintain/ make new social relationships?

1. personally yes it did
2. i have obeserved it

A while back i was absolutely cooked, rope-level looks. I had maybe 4 friends and i used to get bullied and sh*t. i started looking better a year ago and ive found i make alot more friends now and i go out every week - that doesn''t mean im not still socially inept and overthink everything - but people are alot more tolerant of it and seem interested and want my presence.

I have also observed it, alot of the ""weird"" kids who get made fun of and called creepy in my experience, are all LTN and below. I have never seen a girl talk to them who isnt in their circle - however, i DO see girls talking to guys who are above MTN all the time. All my friends above MTN have atleast 2-3 female friends and its genuinely not even fucking funny.

I have started to dislike certain women and guys in my grade because they treat ugly looking people like shit.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

doesnt lonliness bother you?
cause i actually dont like people in general either but it sucks when i become completly lonely

Never really did. I moved around a lot. I had lots of acquaintances that I'd have drinks with after work and whatnot but I wouldn't call them friends. I lived overseas. In the expat community people come and go all the time.

 

[Miki]

Yes 100%, people said I've gotten funnier and more outgoing. Maybe it's also a confidence thing since I know I look better now