Social life

[Buck_veragad2026]

I have such problems with maintaining friendships/friendships groups. I have no problem making friends but always after a few months I start to slowly get put to one side. I always end up as a side piece of my friend groups. Never invited to social gatherings after a few weeks of being in a new friend group. I get too comfortable with my friends and end up losing the connection. I still remain friends with these people but to them I’m not a valuable friend. I have one good friend that truly understands me and we have an amazing relationship. But even with him he’s reluctant to invite me places because I’m not as close with his friends. I’m moving to this guys school soon not due to lack of friends or bullying solely due to academic potential and I am friendly with a lot of the guys there but I want to break my way into their friend group. I meet with them often as my job is in their town but I obviously don’t included because I’m not close with them. They all know I’m moving to their school and are aware I’m trying to become friends with them. What should I do to maintain this friendship to have a social life in this new school

 

[Asoka]

me too bro

me too

 

[Buck_veragad2026]

me too bro

me too

Do you have similar experience

 

[xan!]

looks are everything

if your getting bullied at your old school = bottom 80% of looks

guarantee nothing will happen if your top 20% of looks study LM community and fucking ascend G

(assuming your 15+ and somewhat developed )

But to be fair, I relate to this a lot but I am also a freshmen in highschool and a chud and under developed af. It is a fresh start for you though, the first one week will be your social status for the rest of your school years at the school. Deadass just larp a personality or make yourself different then how they think of you, just be the opposite of what they think like just fucking push the gas yo

 

[Buck_veragad2026]

looks are everything

if your getting bullied at your old school = bottom 80% of looks

guarantee nothing will happen if your top 20% of looks study LM community and fucking ascend G

(assuming your 15+ and somewhat developed )

But to be fair, I relate to this a lot but I am also a freshmen in highschool and a chud and under developed af. It is a fresh start for you though, the first one week will be your social status for the rest of your school years at the school. Deadass just larp a personality or make yourself different then how they think of you, just be the opposite of what they think like just fucking push the gas yo

I’m not leaving because of bullying. Due to academics my school I’m in is horrendous. And no I’m not chopped at all I have high success with foids it’s just my personality that fucks me up. I get too comfortable and fuck up relationships… I don’t know how to fix it

 

[xan!]

duuuuude u just told on urself

foids dont care if your personality is bad, if your HTN life is on easy mode they just take over and THEY do all the work because they are evil. just be fucking confident your just overthinking

 

[Asoka]

Do you have similar experience

yes

 

[overrated]

I have such problems with maintaining friendships/friendships groups. I have no problem making friends but always after a few months I start to slowly get put to one side. I always end up as a side piece of my friend groups. Never invited to social gatherings after a few weeks of being in a new friend group. I get too comfortable with my friends and end up losing the connection. I still remain friends with these people but to them I’m not a valuable friend. I have one good friend that truly understands me and we have an amazing relationship. But even with him he’s reluctant to invite me places because I’m not as close with his friends. I’m moving to this guys school soon not due to lack of friends or bullying solely due to academic potential and I am friendly with a lot of the guys there but I want to break my way into their friend group. I meet with them often as my job is in their town but I obviously don’t included because I’m not close with them. They all know I’m moving to their school and are aware I’m trying to become friends with them. What should I do to maintain this friendship to have a social life in this new school

Be confident and don’t be ugly

 

[UtterFailureAnd5'5]

I have such problems with maintaining friendships/friendships groups. I have no problem making friends but always after a few months I start to slowly get put to one side. I always end up as a side piece of my friend groups. Never invited to social gatherings after a few weeks of being in a new friend group. I get too comfortable with my friends and end up losing the connection. I still remain friends with these people but to them I’m not a valuable friend. I have one good friend that truly understands me and we have an amazing relationship. But even with him he’s reluctant to invite me places because I’m not as close with his friends. I’m moving to this guys school soon not due to lack of friends or bullying solely due to academic potential and I am friendly with a lot of the guys there but I want to break my way into their friend group. I meet with them often as my job is in their town but I obviously don’t included because I’m not close with them. They all know I’m moving to their school and are aware I’m trying to become friends with them. What should I do to maintain this friendship to have a social life in this new school

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