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You need to be minimum average looking for this to work
(thread took allot of inspo off another from a deleted member)
THIS IS OPTIMISED FOR UNKNOWN/UNPOPULAR PEOPLE
Welcome to my "dating" guide for teens, this is spread across three main platforms. TikTok (scouting), Instagram (bridge) and finally Snapchat (finisher). Let's begin.(thread took allot of inspo off another from a deleted member)
THIS IS OPTIMISED FOR UNKNOWN/UNPOPULAR PEOPLE
Profile and Presentation (READ)
Step one: Go onto each platform and make a decent and reasonable profile. Your profile picture shouldn't be a headshot (unless ur chad), but rather a group photo- something silly or like a picture of nature.
Step two: Add stories, TikTok's and highlights to each platform. This could be as simple as a photo dump for TikTok (literally any photos you've took), a holiday or trip or ANYWHERE you've been for insta, and a few photos of yourself in snap.
Make a public profile on snapchat to add ur snaps too it, this is REQUIRED.
Extra Notes:
Snapscore: You need a minimum of 5000. You can gain this by quick-adding people, sending a snap with a text or drawn on S (stands for streaks). no one will think badly of it as its very normal.
Photos: I recommend putting more photos of yourself or rather sneaking urself in on stories/dumps/highlights.
(if u need any help with making any of these pm me
)Add/follow a few of ur mates or just people you know
YOU MUST NOT ADD ANYTHING "WEIRD" OR NOT NORMAL ON ANY OF THESE PLATFORMS. THIS IS AND WILL BE THEIR FIRST IMPRESSION OF YOU.
Finding Girls & Adding Strategically
Step one: Using quick add.
Quick add is a feature on snapchat allowing users to add people near them or friends of friends.
Basically a free key to every girl in ur area. Just start by adding one of ur mates or mates of mates; this should expand ur quick add circle and then just start solely focusing on the girls. If they have public profiles the next recon steps are somewhat irrelevant.
Step two: Recon, using TikTok and Instagram- scout out for potential girls that you are attracted to. personally id lay it out like this
TikTok -> Insta -> snap
Here is an example
>Going thru a local very attractive girls following (most attractive people are freinds with attractive people)
>Find someone Ur attracted to
>Search for their Insta using their TikTok username/real name
>Once you find their Insta- go and follow and like a few of their posts sparingly (dont overlike bro) and send them a message.
Extra steps:
Avoid adding random guys. Keep feed lean and relevant (20-50 active girls).
If you cant find their Insta, maybe try just searching the name or try the same method but with snap.
MAKE SURE TO SOLELY FOCUS ON GIRLS YOUR AGE RANGE AND LOCAL AREA- OTHERWISE YOU WILL FUCK UR QUICKADD
Initiating Convo & Building Attraction.
Step one: First contact should be short and casual, mention a story/post- shared interest. Avoid "hi" alone. It should go like this
Quick intro -> Confirm age -> discuss hobby/lifestyle eg; "Do you play football?"
Avoid anything sexual (dpics) or weird, these girls will probably know each other because its local, that will TANK Ur rep.
Step two: If you have a halo- now its time to abuse it. Mention ur height, physique- or hobbies when context allows (if u just randomly blurt out "im 6.2" itd make u look like ur full of urself.)
Extra Notes: Engage enough but not too much eg: if they send a message dont respond instantly but not in 2 days time.
Ask light questions.
Quick intros: "Hey I'm from ------ wbu?" "hey do you go to -------?" "do you play for ------" fill it in with context.
If your saying hi on Insta or Tiktok, keep it short then ask for her snap (if its not already in her bio)
The "dating" part
By this point, you should have a roster of girls who you have been lightly talking to for the past few days. But how can we tell which one is being nice and is actually interested? Short answer; It's quite hard.
Ask yourself this about the girl that you think is interested in you
>Does she reply quick?
>Does she ask questions about you?
>Does she have playful fights/banter?
>Do yous have nicknames or flirt?
>Is she real?
If all of this correct- you should be good to go to ask to hangout/first date.
Ask to hangout after 1-2 days of convo (if she shows good interest in you ofc)
When you meet continue the casual convo- quality over quantity. avoid overexposure.
Keep it something low pressure and not costly so you don't waste any money at first. Make sure its also near Ur house. e.g. park walk, shopping centre walk etc.
Eventually while you are walking and talking ask if she wants to "chill" in your house for a bit; make an excuse of such to why you want to go to your house e.g. "It's getting cold wanna head in?"
DONT EXPECT TO SLAY ON THE FIRST DATE- BUT IT ISNT IMPOSSIBLE.
If you don't slay on the first- try second, then third, and then give up on the fourth because this girl is wasting Ur time.
Platform Optimization
Snapchat: Main Hub - conversation, attraction, escalation. Stories and Quick Add is essential.
Instagram: Bridge - gather context, photos, hobbies, low pressure engagement. move to snap once happy.
Tiktok: Recon/Research only - identity girls and locate Instagram/snap. Avoid direct messaging ofc
Common social killers
Avoid spamming
No dick pics whatsoever (it will kill Ur rep no matter what)
Pull back from disinterested girls
Patience is key
research;
Similarity of Friends Versus Nonfriends in Adolescence: Developmental Patterns and Ecological Influences (Osgood et al., 2022)
TLDR;
Snap = main hub, Insta = bridge, TikTok = recon.
Use casual/group pic + simple name.
Snap score 5k+.
Add local girls, move convo from Insta → Snap.
Start naturally (comment, joke, or local mention).
Keep convos short, fun, not thirsty.
Show social proof via stories/group pics.
Don’t spam, don’t act desperate.
Flow: TikTok → Insta → Snap → Slay
this was my first ever thread/guide on the topic- i hope to continue it with a how to climb the social ladder of highschool/secondary school.
plsplsplspls tell me what I need to improve- im guessing more detail.
to nt freinds yes ive done this before no it wasnt with spiers.
alexander is doing it rn thats why he left us all
PM ME FOR ANY HELP WITH THIS
I'm still gonna read tho
