Social Pill

[cheetahan6136]

Girls are never going to give you a chance if they don't know you. If personality was purely cope, every mmtn+ would have a girlfriend right now (average height ofc). I feel like I am a hmtn-htn, decent height (5'10) and have good health indicators as well as money and a very high status friend group. The problem is I am incredibly neurodivergent and just stare down girls on the street instead of talking to them. Whenever I talk to a girl on snapchat, I always just end up sending snaps because I have no idea what to say or how to act somewhat NT. I have had expierence with girls before, but mostly attracted them due to my fluffy hair in the fluffy hair epidemic. Its so stupid that the more time guys spend around girls, the more girls seem to like them. This is how I assume all these stacys are with MTBs, because they are sociable and likeable and I cant spend a minute around a female these days without being awkward. My friends dont like to go out and party so i feel I never have a chance to socialize, even if I did what would I even say? I am so rotted

 

[kartergrey]

if youre good looking at social gatherings and can build somewhat of a status within ur com the girls will come to you. unless ur mega autist you will be fine. i didn't have to do any nt activities to get my gf simply just through snap and then hanging out w her at her house.

 

[cheetahan6136]

if youre good looking at social gatherings and can build somewhat of a status within ur com the girls will come to you. unless ur mega autist you will be fine. i didn't have to do any nt activities to get my gf simply just through snap and then hanging out w her at her house.

Yeah my guy friend group has a conjoining female friend group, ive already hooked up w 2 of them a while back so I dont rlly have oppurtunites with the others, and those are the only females i socialize w pretty much. I also jester so much infront of them. A lot of hot girls at my school show indiciation of interest but im too autusitic to go up to them and would just blabber some bs to them anyway. Havent hooked up w a girl since march and im dying

 

[Celto-Germanics]

Girls are never going to give you a chance if they don't know you. If personality was purely cope, every mmtn+ would have a girlfriend right now (average height ofc). I feel like I am a hmtn-htn, decent height (5'10) and have good health indicators as well as money and a very high status friend group. The problem is I am incredibly neurodivergent and just stare down girls on the street instead of talking to them. Whenever I talk to a girl on snapchat, I always just end up sending snaps because I have no idea what to say or how to act somewhat NT. I have had expierence with girls before, but mostly attracted them due to my fluffy hair in the fluffy hair epidemic. Its so stupid that the more time guys spend around girls, the more girls seem to like them. This is how I assume all these stacys are with MTBs, because they are sociable and likeable and I cant spend a minute around a female these days without being awkward. My friends dont like to go out and party so i feel I never have a chance to socialize, even if I did what would I even say? I am so rotted

I don’t think you’re actually super awkward you’re just low inhib. Pretend women are fictional characters that exist for your amusement and they will stop being intimidating.

 

[kartergrey]

Yeah my guy friend group has a conjoining female friend group, ive already hooked up w 2 of them a while back so I dont rlly have oppurtunites with the others, and those are the only females i socialize w pretty much. I also jester so much infront of them. A lot of hot girls at my school show indiciation of interest but im too autusitic to go up to them and would just blabber some bs to them anyway. Havent hooked up w a girl since march and im dying

method is just snapchat, compliment them via the snaps they send you somewhat frequently, and then figure out a way to setup a physical interaction with them saying they give you ioi over snap

 

[cheetahan6136]

I don’t think you’re actually super awkward you’re just low inhib. Pretend women are fictional characters that exist for your amusement and they will stop being intimidating.

wish it was that easy, im pretty ridden with insecurities myself and get in my head quite often. All of my past hookups have not been initated by me, so I feel like I am just waiting for a girl to want me, but too insecure to initiate anything. wasnt as insecure in the past, just when i started lifting and learned abt bp

 

[Celto-Germanics]

wish it was that easy, im pretty ridden with insecurities myself and get in my head quite often. All of my past hookups have not been initated by me, so I feel like I am just waiting for a girl to want me, but too insecure to initiate anything. wasnt as insecure in the past, just when i started lifting and learned abt bp

If you had a girl pursue you to fuck you chances are you’re insecure for no reason.