Social skills are the 2nd most important after looks

[jm17]

This is the complete truth, and if really are curious and u want me to explain, message me. It’s a hard pill to swallow even for me, but it’s the truth. Sad thing is that u can’t really build them out of thin air, especially if you didn’t in middle school and high school, that is where u build the social skills, latest is high school, if u didn’t in middle school. If u don’t have those you have to makeup for it BIG time, and would be able to get away with certain shit. And once again every situation is different, it’s not black and white. Now obviously if u are a 2-3/10, then nothing matters.

 

[Deleted member 7465]

Looks = social skills. Ugly = bad social skill. Good looking = good social skills.

 

[whiteissuperior]

greycel moment. He forgot status. Although I will agree social skills > money.

 

[jm17]

Looks = social skills. Ugly = bad social skill. Good looking = good social skills.

Yea, it has to do with how well u are treated in middle school and high school also(this is what some people don’t understand) cuz there are 4/10 5/10 6/10s with normal social skills , and have a social circle or w.e not saying that that will get them any girls, but social skills matter a lot

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

didnt you make a goodbye thread

 

[jm17]

greycel moment. He forgot status. Although I will agree social skills > money.

Yeah it’s all packed in there together, social skills are packed in with game,personality, and status, like u got guys in college frats who are not good looking at all, just average. So it’s not an greycel moment I could give other scenarios and examples , if u want to discuss in private message it’s up to u

 

[jm17]

didnt you make a goodbye thread

Relax

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

Relax

why are you being defensive?

 

[jm17]

why are you being defensive?

I’m not, idk what offended u about this post.

 

[TheAnomaly]

If you are 4-7/10.

 

[shrek]

This is the complete truth, and if really are curious and u want me to explain, message me. It’s a hard pill to swallow even for me, but it’s the truth. Sad thing is that u can’t really build them out of thin air, especially if you didn’t in middle school and high school, that is where u build the social skills, latest is high school, if u didn’t in middle school. If u don’t have those you have to makeup for it BIG time, and would be able to get away with certain shit. And once again every situation is different, it’s not black and white. Now obviously if u are a 2-3/10, then nothing matters.

So let’s say I’m already a hih tier normie and continue to gymaxx and then get a gf. If she has a big social circle and then invites me to all the stuff they do wouldn’t that be a good way to fix this?

 

[shrek]

Looks = social skills. Ugly = bad social skill. Good looking = good social skills.

I get what you’re saying but I’ve seen good looking ppl with shit social skills and ugly ppl with phenomenal social skills and they were popular

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Didn't know Sherlock Holmes was signed up on here

 

[jm17]

I get what you’re saying but I’ve seen good looking ppl with shit social skills and ugly ppl with phenomenal social skills and they were popular

Right

 

[jm17]

So let’s say I’m already a hih tier normie and continue to gymaxx and then get a gf. If she has a big social circle and then invites me to all the stuff they do wouldn’t that be a good way to fix this?

Yes and it might be kind of nerve” wrecking depending on you, but that’s why social skills are extremely important. Not having social skills stacks the odds against you sometimes in a lot of situations. It’s a lot, honestly social skills are more than just talking to someone it’s like deciphering when to make a move on a girl, setting up a conversation, etc most normal guys try to act like it’s not hard so they can sound cool, but truth is it’s hard, like imagine going up to a girl in the mall and trying to “ pull her” without even knowing if she’s interested, or if she might embarrass you. It’s guys in frats in college who’d be on .co or 4chan, if it wasn’t for their social skills that were built during middle school, and or high school

 

[Hozay]

Good looking = good social skills.

You're an idiot if you believe this.

 

[Deleted member 8853]

This is the complete truth, and if really are curious and u want me to explain, message me. It’s a hard pill to swallow even for me, but it’s the truth. Sad thing is that u can’t really build them out of thin air, especially if you didn’t in middle school and high school, that is where u build the social skills, latest is high school, if u didn’t in middle school. If u don’t have those you have to makeup for it BIG time, and would be able to get away with certain shit. And once again every situation is different, it’s not black and white. Now obviously if u are a 2-3/10, then nothing matters.

This is true.
Also add that if you're 4/10 nothing matters.
Social skills only work for 5-7
8 and up don't even need social skills anymore

 

[Deleted member 7465]

You're an idiot if you believe this.

I am an idiot

 

[Hekt0r]

status>social skills>looks

no one here wants to accept this but it's fact. the only time where its not is when you are truly deformed ugly subhuman, but i doubt anyone in this forum is. in fact, many of the people who posted face are quite handsome, they're just legit autists

 

[Deleted member 12002]

This is the complete truth, and if really are curious and u want me to explain, message me. It’s a hard pill to swallow even for me, but it’s the truth. Sad thing is that u can’t really build them out of thin air, especially if you didn’t in middle school and high school, that is where u build the social skills, latest is high school, if u didn’t in middle school. If u don’t have those you have to makeup for it BIG time, and would be able to get away with certain shit. And once again every situation is different, it’s not black and white. Now obviously if u are a 2-3/10, then nothing matters.

You're absolutely right. In fact, I'd say looks are second to social skills (I like to rever to it as "character" though). Of course there are monsters out there who are exceptional.

If a man's got a basic minimum level of physical attractiveness then the skys the limit for him. It all depends on his social skills. If he's extremely adept he probably won't be able to become a model or an actor, but he might be able to steal a model or an actor's girlfriend if he wants. There's just way too many examples of this in everyday life to ignore.

Anybody who says looks = social skills is either very inexperienced in life in general, or they're just highly inhibited and easily cowed.

 

[Almost Chadlite]

OP

 

[HumidVent]

Buddy boy. Blackpill 101 is the halo effect. People will attribute good traits like having good social skills to good looking people and negative traits to ugly people. Your looks are literally your social skills.

 

[jm17]

Buddy boy. Blackpill 101 is the halo effect. People will attribute good traits like having good social skills to good looking people and negative traits to ugly people. Your looks are literally your social skills.

That is right, I know when people describe a ugly man as creepy, and a good looking one as flirting, I already know all of that, y’all just think of every post or everything as black and white, y’all need to think more critically, did u not see in my op, that I said you’d be able to get away with certain shit, if u are attractive.

 

[jm17]

OP

how?

 

[Deleted member 8576]

 

[jm17]

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Y’all really can’t think CRITICALLY can y’all? And like I said this take isn’t black and white it’s a lot more to it, idk how this is a “ cope” I think some of you need a 1 v 1 conversation with me to understand and think more critically, I’m not saying social skills will make a girls pussy wet,

 

[Deleted member 8576]

Y’all really can’t think critically can y’all? And like I said this take isn’t black and white it’s a lot more to it, idk how this is a “ cope”

Hi.

 

[jm17]

Hi.

It’s over for y’all bro, if u can’t think critical enough to understand the op and what I’m trying to say I don’t know what to tell y’all. And I literally gave a valid point on how u can’t build social skills out of thin air and how they are built in middle school and high school, which means I obviously understand. Y’all most not know what social skills mean or are.

 

[shrek]

Yes and it might be kind of nerve” wrecking depending on you, but that’s why social skills are extremely important. Not having social skills stacks the odds against you sometimes in a lot of situations. It’s a lot, honestly social skills are more than just talking to someone it’s like deciphering when to make a move on a girl, setting up a conversation, etc most normal guys try to act like it’s not hard so they can sound cool, but truth is it’s hard, like imagine going up to a girl in the mall and trying to “ pull her” without even knowing if she’s interested, or if she might embarrass you. It’s guys in frats in college who’d be on .co or 4chan, if it wasn’t for their social skills that were built during middle school, and or high school

Okok. What advice would you give for socializing in a group setting? I can do ok one on one but I have no clue wtf to do in a group so I just stay quiet lol

 

[recessed]

greycel moment. He forgot status. Although I will agree social skills > money.

Money >>> social skills

 

[whiteissuperior]

Money >>> social skills

Money is god for sex from whores but useless for love from good women and prime virginal JBs

 

[recessed]

Money is god for sex from whores but useless for love from good women and prime virginal JBs

Social skills wont get you that either jfl and with money you can at least get plastic surgery + Travel around the world if you want exotic pussy

 

[jm17]

Okok. What advice would you give for socializing in a group setting? I can do ok one on one but I have no clue wtf to do in a group so I just stay quiet lol

My social skills are shot, so I couldn’t give advice , and I don’t really like talking to people cuz people are fake as fuck.

 

[whiteissuperior]

Social skills wont get you that either jfl and with money you can at least get plastic surgery + Travel around the world if you want exotic pussy

Social skills will get you up to a full psl above your looks level. A 3 psl could pull a 4 psl Ltr if NT

 

[Enfant terrible]

Just be normal
you dont need extraordinary social skills