Socialmaxxing

[Jesus_ist_König]

Imma keep it short.

Sometimes I have the desire of wanting a friend -> Online friends are cope and a jewish system, it doesnt work nigga i tried it 849 ppl nigga its useless

Next option would be irl friends-> everytime i meet ppl i get nervous and exhausted of hanging out, i get tired, bored and its mentally very draining and takes a lot of energy and makes my next weeks absolute shit-> makes that i dont want to have friends from the past experience

Last time i met a nigga:
- We went gym 1 hour
- Played a cards 15 Minutes
- I had to send that nigga home i was fucking exhausted

I dont know what to do. This was 5 months ago. Or more i have lost count. I dont know what to do. I think im lacking of a hobby (Chess, gym) but those 2 dont take all the time up of ur day. I wanna stop being on .org for 8 hours daily (90% offtopic/ 10% looksmaxxing related) so i kinda have the desire to socialize i think but then when ppl wanna met me i think they will leave me due to my personality and they will make me nervous and despise me i dont know what to do

@catastropy @Sandriguez @2s2f

 

[catastropy]

U need to be somehwta neurotypical to have a social life i guess u can observe ur surroundings and see what people like and try to fit in forcefully

 

[moid_user271k]

i feel friendships are gay like wdym u do everything with a certain nigger , u should have people in each of ur circuits , like work mates , gym mates , chess mates , looksmaxing mates and other shit u dont have to have a certain person do everything with u
so u shouldn't stress out a friendship or socializing every time
idk if this has any coloration with what u just said

 

[Rhinomaxed]

U need to be somehwta neurotypical to have a social life i guess u can observe ur surroundings and see what people like and try to fit in forcefully

Yeah that is exactly what i had to do to larp with the normies.

 

[Rhinomaxed]

i feel friendships are gay like wdym u do everything with a certain nigger , u should have people in each of ur circuits , like work mates , gym mates , chess mates , looksmaxing mates and other shit u dont have to have a certain person do everything with u
so u shouldn't stress out a friendship or socializing every time
idk if this has any coloration with what u just said

Yeah it’s always annoying when you mix up terms you’d only use with a certain mate though

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

i feel friendships are gay like wdym u do everything with a certain nigger , u should have people in each of ur circuits , like work mates , gym mates , chess mates , looksmaxing mates and other shit u dont have to have a certain person do everything with u
so u shouldn't stress out a friendship or socializing every time
idk if this has any coloration with what u just said

Wow that makes sense. Yes i could try that out. But sadly then those persons will never become a bff

 

[catastropy]

Yeah that is exactly what i had to do to larp with the normies.

Same here

 

[moid_user271k]

Yeah it’s always annoying when you mix up terms you’d only use with a certain mate though

yeah esp when u have to act diff in every environment and thats not a bad thing thats normal actually

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Yeah that is exactly what i had to do to larp with the normies.

But how can i larp? I got meds prescribed since im fucking 5 i cant really larp, u will notice that im weird when i dont take my meds. and even with meds im not "normal"

 

[moid_user271k]

Wow that makes sense. Yes i could try that out. But sadly then those persons will never become a bff

bffs are gay

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

bffs are gay

So what do i do?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

bffs are gay

so what do i do???

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

bffs are gay

what do i do????

 

[Rhinomaxed]

But how can i larp? I got meds prescribed since im fucking 5 i cant really larp, u will notice that im weird when i dont take my meds. and even with meds im not "normal"

Just do the exact opposite of what you’d normally do.

 

[moid_user271k]

So what do i do?

have good connections with people u are close with or have the same interests

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

Just do the exact opposite of what you’d normally do.

NO i cant bro i wanna do my retard stuff. Trying to sit and not talk about jews or smth is like ughhhh its so boring i can i cant i dont want to i dont want tooo

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

have good connections with people u are close with or have the same interests

I dont have hobbies, i dont have ppl im close with

What do i do?

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

have good connections with people u are close with or have the same interests

One guy in class asked me to go gym with him
1. Gym is full of ppl
2. Its loud there
3. So many ppl staring at u
4. It seems boring and pointless to work together. I just dont get the point it doesnt seem fun.
5. Hanging out just doesnt seem appealing i dont know its just boring

What do i do?

 

[moid_user271k]

I dont have hobbies, i dont have ppl im close with

What do i do?

get hobbies , go to the gym make gym mates there , try partying once in a while with a group of people stuff like that
in general put yourself out there thats the solution its tiring at first tho

 

[moid_user271k]

One guy in class asked me to go gym with him
1. Gym is full of ppl
2. Its loud there
3. So many ppl staring at u
4. It seems boring and pointless to work together. I just dont get the point it doesnt seem fun.
5. Hanging out just doesnt seem appealing i dont know its just boring

What do i do?

try hiking maybe or sm with less people around , everything seems hard at first btw its just u

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

get hobbies , go to the gym make gym mates there , try partying once in a while with a group of people stuff like that
in general put yourself out there thats the solution its tiring at first tho

Did nigga just mention "party" no never ever they are so full of ppl i will get a panic attack so many ppl nigga never ever. Its just all my classmates do sinful stuff and i dont wanna b a part of that. Or if i would go to a friends house i would need to greet his parents wtf, no. i dont want to its not fun.
I made a "friend" at church invited him but he declined the day after and he i clearly not interested in me since he never writes me from his own and didnt make a new date to meet us.
Besides him there is a other guy in my church, he is my age and i got his number, but i think he despises me. He stares at me sometimes and i barely know him and after church that nigga goes to the liturgy of another church and greets all ppl there i saw him doing it once. He is super duper social, if i were to be his friend i would have to greet all the ppl he sees. Besides what activities could i even be doing with him? Eating ice cream? I asked 2 niggas from my school but they ghosted me and didnt answer. What should i do vroskito? help me dont leave no come back dont goooooo

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

try hiking maybe or sm with less people around , everything seems hard at first btw its just u

Hiking is actually tuff but the thing is i have osteocondrosis dissecans i cant really do much walking activities i can walk like 10 km but then not much more i dont know man. i used to do a lot of sports before my injury

 

[moid_user271k]

Did nigga just mention "party" no never ever they are so full of ppl i will get a panic attack so many ppl nigga never ever. Its just all my classmates do sinful stuff and i dont wanna b a part of that. Or if i would go to a friends house i would need to greet his parents wtf, no. i dont want to its not fun.
I made a "friend" at church invited him but he declined the day after and he i clearly not interested in me since he never writes me from his own and didnt make a new date to meet us.
Besides him there is a other guy in my church, he is my age and i got his number, but i think he despises me. He stares at me sometimes and i barely know him and after church that nigga goes to the liturgy of another church and greets all ppl there i saw him doing it once. He is super duper social, if i were to be his friend i would have to greet all the ppl he sees. Besides what activities could i even be doing with him? Eating ice cream? I asked 2 niggas from my school but they ghosted me and didnt answer. What should i do vroskito? help me dont leave no come back dont goooooo

yeah there no majic solution for this like i said the only thing u could do
put yourself out there even if its parties

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

yeah there no majic solution for this like i said the only thing u could do
put yourself out there even if its parties

UGH WTF thanks though

 

[moid_user271k]

UGH WTF thanks though

am sorry bro

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

am sorry bro

the last i tried was in school breaks it was uhm it was like 8 ppl including me and then after 2 months, 5 of those ppl started to go away everytime i came and then the other 2 guys (1 ghosts me and is in another country now and the other one i dont like him really) told me that the others ones dont like me and since then i dont talk to ppl anymore. I asked 2 ppl lately to meet me but they ghosted me. I dont really know what to do