Soft, low dimo features superior to sharper features as a teenager

[Sub5jfl.]

Tons of recessed, puffy cheek cutecels get much more foids than intimidating high dimo guys because of approachability. I had soft features and puffy cheeks couple of years ago and girls were more friendly, now after gymcelling and getting leaner, growing girls are more intimidated and scared to approach/talk since i've grown to 6'1 and because of frame. I'm talking about the teenager age group (14-17). Thoughts on this?