solution to extreme loneliness?

[sub5179]

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[Deleted member 105544]

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How old are you? Go to social gatherings. For example you have organisations that let students meet eachother

 

[kisuke]

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no easy way out you have to force yourself to socialize , no one will come save you

 

[Paul7]

money

 

[kisuke]

money

money is not going to give him friends and girls out of nowhere lol

 

[sub5179]

How old are you? Go to social gatherings. For example you have organisations that let students meet eachotheralmost

almost 17, i am always around people but it feels like no one cares about me. ive been in the same class for 11 monts and still no friends at all. im not a weirdo either, their mostly girls aswell

 

[sub5179]

money

i have money, i spend on mostly stupid shit. was inlove with money and now when im so lonely i would do anything to have friends

 

[Deleted member 107430]

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roping

 

[Deleted member 105544]

almost 17, i am always around people but it feels like no one cares about me. ive been in the same class for 11 monts and still no friends at all. im not a weirdo either, their mostly girls aswell

Id give you advice aswell but im also 17 and alone. Haven't interacted with somebody outside of family for a good while

 

[kisuke]

almost 17, i am always around people but it feels like no one cares about me. ive been in the same class for 11 monts and still no friends at all. im not a weirdo either, their mostly girls aswell

is there any team sport you like ? going to a football pitch or a basketball court is the easiest way to make friends as a guy and it's cool hangouts

 

[Deleted member 145276]

money is not going to give him friends and girls out of nowhere lol

fake ones will appear, so it's not so lonely

 

[sub5179]

is there any team sport you like ? going to a football pitch or a basketball court is the easiest way to make friends as a guy and it's cool hangouts

i go to the basketball court sometimes, i play for maybe 10 minutes and then try to talk to them, works grate but never see them again lol

 

[sub5179]

Id give you advice aswell but im also 17 and alone. Haven't interacted with somebody outside of family for a good while

same, almost dont even talk to my parents. and my brothers are embarrassing, like using drugs to fit in and be "cool"

 

[kisuke]

i go to the basketball court sometimes, i play for maybe 10 minutes and then try to talk to them, works grate but never see them again lol

this where you gotta make more effort to socialize , stay for longer maybe and start asking them to play again some other day and get their socials / number , once you start seeing them regurlarly it will naturally become a friendship , but you have to make the first step

 

[kisuke]

fake ones will appear, so it's not so lonely

having fake friends is more depressing than having none in my opinion

 

[sub5179]

this where you gotta make more effort to socialize , stay for longer maybe and start asking them to play again some other day and get their socials / number , once you start seeing them regurlarly it will naturally become a friendship , but you have to make the first step

i understand what u mean, been a while since but ill try next time, thank you

 

[Deleted member 145276]

i go to the basketball court sometimes, i play for maybe 10 minutes and then try to talk to them, works grate but never see them again lol

make them approach u, not u to them. They will think that u r skilled nigga or smth

 

[Deleted member 145276]

having fake friends is more depressing than having none in my opinion

wcyd

 

[sub5179]

having fake friends is more depressing than having none in my opinion

i have "school friends". only see them in school and when its not school i see them on snap/insta posting while they outside doing stuff but i never get invited, only "come if you want" but almost never

 

[sub5179]

make them approach u, not u to them. They will think that u r skilled nigga or smth

done that before, i went 2 days in a row and some girls started talking to me, like last week but havent seen them since

 

[kisuke]

i understand what u mean, been a while since but ill try next time, thank you

for sure bro bonding through sports is really good and it's outside of school so it's more genuine

 

[Deleted member 145276]

done that before, i went 2 days in a row and some girls started talking to me, like last week but havent seen them since

nigga fuck u, what the fuck r u doing here then? keep aura farming

 

[kisuke]

i have "school friends". only see them in school and when its not school i see them on snap/insta posting while they outside doing stuff but i never get invited, only "come if you want" but almost never

school "friends" are just situational acquaintances , you talk to each other only because of the context of school theres no actual desire to become friends your real friends will be made outside of school

 

[kisuke]

nigga fuck u, what the fuck r u doing here then? keep aura farming

you're giving him horrible autistic advice lmao

 

[The Grinch]

You just don’t fit in, some people are meant to get sorted out by society, same with animals. It’s just how it is.

 

[sub5179]

nigga fuck u, what the fuck r u doing here then? keep aura farming

lol. felt forced the secound day. if that doesnt count i dont do anything, feels like there is no point in life, i feel like life is to spend time with people that you love and people that love you, im chasing a feeling that is fake. i have noone to talk to

 

[sub5179]

You just don’t fit in, some people are meant to get sorted out by society, same with animals. It’s just how it is.

i never "fit in" lol. ive only felt special with two people and they were the only one that cared abvout me

 

[Deleted member 145276]

you're giving him horrible autistic advice lmao

lol. felt forced the secound day. if that doesnt count i dont do anything, feels like there is no point in life, i feel like life is to spend time with people that you love and people that love you, im chasing a feeling that is fake. i have noone to talk to

Farming aura and being nonchalant is the best feeling. Making those NTs come approach to you.

but u r right, it's not the best advice

 

[kisuke]

lol. felt forced the secound day. if that doesnt count i dont do anything, feels like there is no point in life, i feel like life is to spend time with people that you love and people that love you, im chasing a feeling that is fake. i have noone to talk to

if you actually like basketball get into playing it in a club bro that's how i made my really good friends

 

[sub5179]

if you actually like basketball get into playing it in a club bro that's how i made my really good friends

imma try mentally lol. feels like im livin in a hole

 

[The Grinch]

i never "fit in" lol. ive only felt special with two people and they were the only one that cared abvout me

You just have to be more likable. You’re probably boring and never have anything to say, people think you are useless. It’s not your looks. As long as your face isn’t a jump scare there will always be someone who likes you. Introverts who are likable get "adopted“ by extroverts and integrated into their social circle most of the times

 

[kisuke]

imma try mentally lol. feels like im livin in a hole

if you don't do anything nothing will change lol , social skills are called skills for a reason it's natural to some , but others have to make effort to become interesting , if you don't do anything , people will always see you as a boring uninteresting guy

 

[sub5179]

You just have to be more likable. You’re probably boring and never have anything to say, people think you are useless. It’s not your looks. As long as your face isn’t a jump scare there will always be someone who likes you. Introverts who are likable get "adopted“ by extroverts and integrated into their social circle most of the times

im not scary ugly, im 179cm 80kg, ive tried talking much but always get called annoying. ive tried many "acts" im not weird or stupid

 

[sub5179]

if you don't do anything nothing will change lol , social skills are called skills for a reason it's natural to some , but others have to make effort to become interesting , if you don't do anything , people will always see you as a boring uninteresting guy

ive never seen it like that, damn lol

 

[The Grinch]

im not scary ugly, im 179cm 80kg, ive tried talking much but always get called annoying. ive tried many "acts" im not weird or stupid

I don’t mean scary, i meant jump scare as a metaphor for ugly

 

[The Grinch]

ive tried talking much but always get called annoying

Annoying usually means saying inappropriate shit or trying to be funny when it‘s the wrong time to crack a joke. You have to learn how to be a normal human, you didn’t learn it because you probably spend too much time alone.

 

[sub5179]

I don’t mean scary, i meant jump scare as a metaphor for ugly

i understand you, i would say im not ugly but im not good looking, just "a regualar guy at the grocery store". as ive said not really ugly, not weird, no weird intressts, not stupid. dk what to do lol

 

[sub5179]

Annoying usually means saying inappropriate shit or trying to be funny when it‘s the wrong time to crack a joke. You have to learn how to be a normal human, you didn’t learn it because you probably spend too much time alone.

it feels like sometimes i forget how to be social when im alone for too long, feels weird. im not saying any stupid shit or trying to be funny either

 

[kisuke]

ive never seen it like that, damn lol

took me a long time to realize it . people don't owe you love or friendship , so there's no shame in taking the first step , and if they're not receptive so be it life goes on .

 

[sub5179]

took me a long time to realize it . people don't owe you love or friendship , so there's no shame in taking the first step , and if they're not receptive so be it life goes on .

im going to the buss now for school, wish me good luck

 

[Vincent Freeman]

money is not going to give him friends and girls out of nowhere lol

no, but people will want to associate with you more. The reality is that everyone wants something from someone and is only willing to talk to you if you have it.

 

[The Grinch]

i understand you, i would say im not ugly but im not good looking, just "a regualar guy at the grocery store". as ive said not really ugly, not weird, no weird intressts, not stupid. dk what to do lol

All You have to do is be more social but you have to be social with people who also signal you that they at least are a little bit interested in talking to you. If you try to socialize with someone who doesn’t like you to begin with, you will just annoy them, can’t befriend someone by force, it happens naturally without forcing it like everything in life

 

[The Grinch]

All You have to do is be more social but you have to be social with people who also signal you that they at least are a little bit interested in talking to you. If you try to socialize with someone who doesn’t like you to begin with, you will just annoy them, can’t befriend someone by force, it happens naturally without forcing it like everything in life

And I don’t mean strangers, talk to people from school, work… pretend you’re just doing some small talk out of boredom, Not because you‘re looking to befriend them, don’t approach a stranger, that‘s weird in 99% of the time and people will think you are creepy

 

[kisuke]

no, but people will want to associate with you more. The reality is that everyone wants something from someone and is only willing to talk to you if you have it.

i agree , i was saying that in the sense that having money won't spawn people out of nowhere you still need to interact with people socially for them to even want to take advantage of your money

 

[kisuke]

im going to the buss now for school, wish me good luck

have a good day man

 

[tit]

Go to social gatherings

What does that mean? Do you just expect us to show up to social gatherings completely un-invited? Can you give examples. Also people who go to social gatherings don't go alone so it would be weird.

 

[Deleted member 105544]

What does that mean? Do you just expect us to show up to social gatherings completely un-invited? Can you give examples. Also people who go to social gatherings don't go alone so it would be weird.

Like i said the next setence you habe literall organisations for students to meet

 

[tit]

Like i said the next setence you habe literall organisations for students to meet

Not a student anymore because the incel hating gods decided to put me in hospital all year.

 

[sub5179]

have a good day man

home now again. went good only talked to like 5 people 4 girls and 1 teacher lol. lucky day

 

[sub5179]

What does that mean? Do you just expect us to show up to social gatherings completely un-invited? Can you give examples. Also people who go to social gatherings don't go alone so it would be weird.

ur a real one