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all my friends make excuses not to be with me and ill see them all with each other after ive asked to hang out, how do you get people to like you and not end up in situations like this?
 
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all my friends make excuses not to be with me and ill see them all with each other after ive asked to hang out, how do you get people to like you and not end up in situations like this?
Idk man this shit alr happened to me everytime I think I got a real friend they js turn to be fake js avoid all the normie jews
 
Idk man this shit alr happened to me everytime I think I got a real friend they js turn to be fake js avoid all the normie jews
i do ignore them, they ask me to hang out and i see yes, maybe 2 times and then when i ask them its just excuses and i look like a fan
 
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Get new friends
 
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i do ignore them, they ask me to hang out and i see yes, maybe 2 times and then when i ask them its just excuses and i look like a fan
Ditch them
 
You won't become part of the friend group anymore. Stop acting like a desperate loser. Look out for new people, and adapt.
 
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all my friends make excuses not to be with me and ill see them all with each other after ive asked to hang out, how do you get people to like you and not end up in situations like this?
for people to like you you need to be likeable. dont try to fit in, thats when you fit out the most. find your own interests, start hobbies and people with similar interests will simply come to you
 
i do ignore them, they ask me to hang out and i see yes, maybe 2 times and then when i ask them its just excuses and i look like a fan
when they ask to hangout deadass js say nah yall are fake and if they ask how js say they dickheads to u nothing else
 
all my friends make excuses not to be with me and ill see them all with each other after ive asked to hang out, how do you get people to like you and not end up in situations like this?
Idk bro I lost all my day ones Ina day:feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
 
for people to like you you need to be likeable. dont try to fit in, thats when you fit out the most. find your own interests, start hobbies and people with similar interests will simply come to you
thank yall for the help
 
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all my friends make excuses not to be with me and ill see them all with each other after ive asked to hang out, how do you get people to like you and not end up in situations like this
Happened to me brace yourself because it’s not going to get better you will only have to push yourself through improve on it maybe become a gymcel sooner or later you will have real friends only one or two though.
 
Idk I just didn’t “fit in” so they all ghosted me and HAVENT talked to me since saw them all hangout with out me to:feelshaha:
well sounds like typical teenagers to me
 
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Idk I just didn’t “fit in” so they all ghosted me and HAVENT talked to me since saw them all hangout with out me to:feelshaha:
same place as me lol. when im with them their all telling me that were going to hang out more and that im a great guy :hnghn:
 
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Happened to me brace yourself because it’s not going to get better you will only have to push yourself through improve on it maybe become a gymcel sooner or later you will have real friends only one or two though.
had a membership last in feb, thinking of starting again
 
They aren’t ur friends bro
 
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well sounds like typical teenagers to me
Ya bro It definitely flipped smth in me tho, I really found peace in being in a community like this, would’ve never found this if they didn’t ghost tbh:feelsyay:
 
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when they ask to hangout deadass js say nah yall are fake and if they ask how js say they dickheads to u nothing else
Or Once they message you ego them ghost them and they will be desperate it’s important to not fall into temptation and get back to them because once you let them in when they’re desperate one message is enough to keep them satisfied they will dump you again once it’s fulfilled so just dnr them and they will have this consciousness of them being inferior
 
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same place as me lol. when im with them their all telling me that were going to hang out more and that im a great guy :hnghn:
Ya I ascended tho and mog all those niggas and collected a group of my own now destiny or smth ig Js be patient and find your own plus u got ur org bros dude :feelsyay:
 
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Ya bro It definitely flipped smth in me tho, I really found peace in being in a community like this, would’ve never found this if they didn’t ghost tbh:feelsyay:
Happy for you it’s always better to have fewer friends who will stick with you no matter what but that’s very very rare
 
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Or Once they message you ego them ghost them and they will be desperate it’s important to not fall into temptation and get back to them because once you let them in when they’re desperate one message is enough to keep them satisfied they will dump you again once it’s fulfilled so just dnr them and they will have this consciousness of them being inferior
damn. imma try for sure
 
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Happy for you it’s always better to have fewer friends who will stick with you no matter what but that’s very very rare
i have one childhood freind that wants to hang out be he just be smoking weed and im tryina sober up, and he ditches me for his girl
 
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damn. imma try for sure
Yeah man once you give them no response they develop this concsciousness of needing to get your attention at least once to be even, it’s important if you text or not because if you do then he will ego you to have the feeling of superiority and you will end up being desperate for his attention so just try to dnr everyone you consider not trustworthy or fake cherish ones who you have already experienced trust with.
 
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i have one childhood freind that wants to hang out be he just be smoking weed and im tryina sober up, and he ditches me for his girl
Had a friend like that beat him up recently, it like we living he same life bro u got this Dw :feelsyay:
 
Had a friend like that beat him up recently, it like we living he same life bro u got this Dw :feelsyay:
:feelswhy: keep it up, finna keep smoking and hitting the gym instead of gettin munchies
 
Had a friend like that beat him up recently, it like we living he same life bro u got this Dw :feelsyay:
Yeah man don’t beat anyone up Try to not pay attention to them you don’t need enemies. Shits happened to me they said they would be two of them turns out 20 of his friends were near and when we got to the fighting point it was 3v20 jfl now I can’t walk on the streets where they might be for now
 
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Yeah man don’t beat anyone up Try to not pay attention to them you don’t need enemies. Shits happened to me they said they would be two of them turns out 20 of his friends were near and when we got to the fighting point it was 3v20 jfl now I can’t walk on the streets where they might be for now
one guy typing aws
 
typed to him 6 hours ago, deleted the text and now he typing wanting me to follow him on a trip... can he jus khs
 
one guy typing aws
mind you three of us were boxers and best I could do is pick up the biggest rock I found and throw as hard as I could to the nigger who jumped my friend to free him then we all fleed my friend ended up getting too much damage fucking cowards
 
all my friends make excuses not to be with me and ill see them all with each other after ive asked to hang out, how do you get people to like you and not end up in situations like this?
They’re probably just not your type of people. When was in high school I never got along with people except some really fucking weird kids
 

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