SOME GIRLS AVOID ME CAUSE THEY THINK IM A FUCKBOY

[Deleted member 8608]

LIKE WTF IS WRONG? WHAT IM SUPPOSED TO DO? FUCKING CLOWN WORLD

 

[Deleted member 12002]

What is a fuckboy?

 

[Ronnie Kray]

What is a fuckboy?

a fuck boy is someone who says “i’m bad at relationships” as if it’s nearly an absolute truth. a fuck boy is also someone who is just sooo emotional that he cannot deal with it:

“i can’t even.” “i just can’t.” “this is too much for me.”
he, the fuck boy, is fundamentally confused and is unsure of what he wants. however, he will seemingly sincerely play like he is more involved or enamored than he actually is in interest of getting romantic attention and scratching the romantic/sex itch. he is superficially intimate, as if acting from a script he knows all too well. fuck boy operates from a superficial level of consciousness and although he will seem like he is connected time will show you that he never was.
he does not care about the details of your day, your friends or family, the beautiful complexity of your essence. fuck boy is unable to truly respect and be present with any woman he is with. he has a hard time respecting women as whole human beings and furthermore he lacks self-awareness about this.
“fuckboy” continued: he thinks quite highly of himself and how he operates in the world but he continues to inevitably and regrettably lament, with remarkable futility, just how bad he is at relationships.

fuck boys are usually idealizing something or someone from the past — likely another woman that he undervalued or disrespected in a former relationship. and the fuck boy is just so emotional about it.
he will live in the past or idealize the future — but the fuck boy will never embrace the joy of what is in front of him. the complexity of the present is just too much to bare…
but that’s neither here nor there because the fuck boy basically does not like thinking about his feelings right now.
so, he’ll go on dreaming of a past that’s long gone or of a future that will never come. he will always disappoint. beware. fuck boys often seem special and endearing at first…until you find out that he’s a fucking fuck boy. and, by the time you find out you’ve already fallen for him and bought into a persona he effortlessly projects. you like that he didn’t come on too strong but came on strong enough. fuck boys are often superficially very enjoyable people so you have a sense that he’s great company. when his coldness and distance emerges you will feel shock and heartache. endure it. remember, you’ve been fooled. be grateful upon realizing the fuckery of the fuck boy because, my sister, you just dodged a bullet. run and don’t look back.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

do they actually say that to you?

 

[Deleted member 13094]

do they actually say that to you?

^

 

[Deleted member 13094]

yeah her friends

key word "her friends" not the girl

 

[one job away]

a fuck boy is someone who says “i’m bad at relationships” as if it’s nearly an absolute truth. a fuck boy is also someone who is just sooo emotional that he cannot deal with it:

“i can’t even.” “i just can’t.” “this is too much for me.”
he, the fuck boy, is fundamentally confused and is unsure of what he wants. however, he will seemingly sincerely play like he is more involved or enamored than he actually is in interest of getting romantic attention and scratching the romantic/sex itch. he is superficially intimate, as if acting from a script he knows all too well. fuck boy operates from a superficial level of consciousness and although he will seem like he is connected time will show you that he never was.
he does not care about the details of your day, your friends or family, the beautiful complexity of your essence. fuck boy is unable to truly respect and be present with any woman he is with. he has a hard time respecting women as whole human beings and furthermore he lacks self-awareness about this.
“fuckboy” continued: he thinks quite highly of himself and how he operates in the world but he continues to inevitably and regrettably lament, with remarkable futility, just how bad he is at relationships.

fuck boys are usually idealizing something or someone from the past — likely another woman that he undervalued or disrespected in a former relationship. and the fuck boy is just so emotional about it.
he will live in the past or idealize the future — but the fuck boy will never embrace the joy of what is in front of him. the complexity of the present is just too much to bare…
but that’s neither here nor there because the fuck boy basically does not like thinking about his feelings right now.
so, he’ll go on dreaming of a past that’s long gone or of a future that will never come. he will always disappoint. beware. fuck boys often seem special and endearing at first…until you find out that he’s a fucking fuck boy. and, by the time you find out you’ve already fallen for him and bought into a persona he effortlessly projects. you like that he didn’t come on too strong but came on strong enough. fuck boys are often superficially very enjoyable people so you have a sense that he’s great company. when his coldness and distance emerges you will feel shock and heartache. endure it. remember, you’ve been fooled. be grateful upon realizing the fuckery of the fuck boy because, my sister, you just dodged a bullet. run and don’t look back.

Why the fck is this so damn accurate ????

goddamn I might gonna look into zodiac signs after all. Girls have it figured out man

 

[TITUS]

Maybe get some glasses and become a nerd, so you look more like a beta provider.

 

[one job away]

a fuck boy is someone who says “i’m bad at relationships” as if it’s nearly an absolute truth. a fuck boy is also someone who is just sooo emotional that he cannot deal with it:

“i can’t even.” “i just can’t.” “this is too much for me.”
he, the fuck boy, is fundamentally confused and is unsure of what he wants. however, he will seemingly sincerely play like he is more involved or enamored than he actually is in interest of getting romantic attention and scratching the romantic/sex itch. he is superficially intimate, as if acting from a script he knows all too well. fuck boy operates from a superficial level of consciousness and although he will seem like he is connected time will show you that he never was.
he does not care about the details of your day, your friends or family, the beautiful complexity of your essence. fuck boy is unable to truly respect and be present with any woman he is with. he has a hard time respecting women as whole human beings and furthermore he lacks self-awareness about this.
“fuckboy” continued: he thinks quite highly of himself and how he operates in the world but he continues to inevitably and regrettably lament, with remarkable futility, just how bad he is at relationships.

fuck boys are usually idealizing something or someone from the past — likely another woman that he undervalued or disrespected in a former relationship. and the fuck boy is just so emotional about it.
he will live in the past or idealize the future — but the fuck boy will never embrace the joy of what is in front of him. the complexity of the present is just too much to bare…
but that’s neither here nor there because the fuck boy basically does not like thinking about his feelings right now.
so, he’ll go on dreaming of a past that’s long gone or of a future that will never come. he will always disappoint. beware. fuck boys often seem special and endearing at first…until you find out that he’s a fucking fuck boy. and, by the time you find out you’ve already fallen for him and bought into a persona he effortlessly projects. you like that he didn’t come on too strong but came on strong enough. fuck boys are often superficially very enjoyable people so you have a sense that he’s great company. when his coldness and distance emerges you will feel shock and heartache. endure it. remember, you’ve been fooled. be grateful upon realizing the fuckery of the fuck boy because, my sister, you just dodged a bullet. run and don’t look back.

Explain to me tho. Is it bad or good ? I always thought girls somehow admire fuck boys. And fucboys are usually gl and shit but just won’t settle down. But they wish they would settle down for them. Some girls told me as well that they think I’m a fuclboy and player jfl. Even oneitis. I thought it’s a compliment but doesn’t sound like it now.

 

[Lasko123]

 

[Amnesia]

do they actually say that to you?

i had a girl say that to me today

"u look like a fuckboy or ur just really into urself, so i dunno if i wanna chill tbh"

over snap

 

[Doober]

In my experience anytime the fuckboi slur is issued its from a girl that wants obedience from square one. These types are mentally fucking ill and it's a great reason to ignore them