some more eye contact with oneitis

[AutisticBeaner]

she's probably the cutest girl i've seen irl to this day. life is good boyos, enjoying the attention but something has to be done. but i also dont want to make it any harder on me than it already is by talking to her with the additional pressure of her friends being next to her. however, that leads to the problem that me spotting her alone, without any friends near, seems to be a very rare occurence and i dont have an infinite amount of time; school ends in june.

how is my current status on this forum by the way, am i already considered one of the major oneitiscels?

 

[auboutduprecipice]

if you're absolutely sure that she likes you, ask her out in front of her friends. you'll look alpha

 

[Deleted member 3902]

You gotta Chat her up doe
Ain’t got no other choice

 

[AutisticBeaner]

if you're absolutely sure that she likes you, ask her out in front of her friends. you'll look alpha

christ no i can't do that lol, waay too high inhib

You gotta Chat her up doe
Ain’t got no other choice

i know there's no way around it

i should just stay in my basement and never look at girls again tbh

 

[Deleted member 3902]

christ no i can't do that lol, waay too high inhib

i know there's no way around it

i should just stay in my basement and never look at girls again tbh

Low T

 

[auboutduprecipice]

christ no i can't do that lol, waay too high inhib

i know there's no way around it

i should just stay in my basement and never look at girls again tbh

pull her aside and say you want to talk to her then

 

[IWantToMax]

You gotta Chat her up doe
Ain’t got no other choice

How tf are you supposed to chat up someone you don't know?

 

[Deleted member 2661]

Don't approach a HS girl if you don't look like this

 

[AutisticBeaner]

How tf are you supposed to chat up someone you don't know?

Right? This is too hard for my high inhib mind. But I'll say hi to her once an opportunity provides itself

 

[IWantToMax]

Right? This is too hard for my high inhib mind. But I'll say hi to her once an opportunity provides itself

I'm going to give my phone to some nt classmate and have him open up tbh.
I just can't do it jfl

 

[AutisticBeaner]

I'm going to give my phone to some nt classmate and have him open up tbh.
I just can't do it jfl

Open up a convo?

 

[IWantToMax]

Open up a convo?

Slide in her DMs.
I don't see her anywhere, and have no mutual friends

 

[gymislife]

dnr

 

[AutisticBeaner]

Slide in her DMs.
I don't see her anywhere, and have no mutual friends

Well I don't have her social media and no mutual friends but see her every now and then. Idk which situation I'd rather be in

 

[IWantToMax]

Well I don't have her social media and no mutual friends but see her every now and then. Idk which situation I'd rather be in

Approaching her irl would be even more embarrassing, ngl

 

[AutisticBeaner]

Approaching her irl would be even more embarrassing, ngl

i'll just say hi to her when walking toward her and just continue walking like it's the most normal thing on earth. if she's truly attracted to me, which i'm pretty sure she is, then there's a high chance she'll say hi back and just happily go on.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

ask her for date

maybe u have a chance with her (unlike me with my oneitis)

 

[AutisticBeaner]

ask her for date

maybe u have a chance with her (unlike me with my oneitis)

is that a usual thing where you live? i couldn't even imagine straight up asking out someone you don't know

 

[Swolepenisman]

slap her ass tickle her and grapple her to tha ground bitches love that and it always leads to good stuff thts what i do tbh tho ive never really flirted with a girl they always initiate then i escalate

 

[Deleted member 4209]

is that a usual thing where you live? i couldn't even imagine straight up asking out someone you don't know

u are pretty mentalcel then

edit: well chat her up first obviously but dont waste weeks waiting for the right moment

 

[AutisticBeaner]

u are pretty mentalcel then

edit: well chat her up first obviously but dont waste weeks waiting for the right moment

i know, dilemma like i said