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This is due to people who possess mental illnesses, and also to the faggots who don't have them but use them as an excuse to the point of dishonoring themselves by lying to their own hearts about such condition.
-The first thing and most important element a person with a mental disorder must UNDERSTAND AND INSTALL DEEPLY HIS BRAIN is the complete embracement of the idea of free will, making himself believe that whatever happens he has the complete control over everyone of his actions. The one who does not start from that premise, is defeated before the beggining and there is no hope nor need to help such a weak, gullible person as long as he doesn’t embrace his own willpower as something that exists as much as the water of the sea. The worse kind of people that exists is the victim, for he always needs to have a victimizer and if he doesn’t find one, he will create one. The one who shifts blame and avoids truth does not deserve respect, time nor effort, he doesn’t even deserve to be humilliated because that would take effort, rather, he deserves to dissapear and not even be mixed with the respected dust of the vaste land of Allah.
-The second thing a person with such mental disorders must understand and put into complete, unrelented and unequivocal practice is the creation of a routine that befits his needs and filled with activities that honor the blessing of the time that passes and he is rewarded with living. We are told the lie of "Make everyday different" and "Look for special moments", however, this is a lie that could only come from either the most gullible of cowards and ignorants, or the most venomous and thoughtful snakes that want to destroy the well being of others deliberadetly. If you spend your entire life searching and begging for "Special moments", you would merely and barely spend 1% or that which is even less on such activities since the brain has a limit of what it can take. You know who is addicted to "special moments and occassions"??? Drug addicts, alcoholics, drunkards, the most despicable of society gather to reject that which compromises 99% of life which is a proper routine and the day to day life that is the event repeated OVER and OVER and OVER again. Many reject such reality of life and decide to not THINK, DEVELOP and ultimately PERFECT that which makes up the absolute vast majority of their lifetimes, that which not only determines everything but is EVERYTHING. Start a routine, eat at specified hours while being completely CONSCIOUS of every single act you do, whether to switch it to a different time, whether you feel better sleeping at this or that hour, whether you need a 20 minute nap everyday, what exercise routine should you choose, etc, until you perfect and master your day to day life to a point that going through your daily adversity will be easier than breaking a spider's web. And NEVER disrespect your routine.
-This leads us to the third point, ULTIMATE RIDDANCE of emotion dictating any of your behaviours and attitudes. It is very well known, studied and researched that our neocortex, a part of our brain which is responsible for reasoning, thinking and speech does not encompass emotions. Every emotion and feeling has a function which is to SUBMIT to the neocortex, meaning that every emotion is undisputably a MERE TOOL, something that is used to reach an end but NOT TO DICTATE WHAT THE END SHOULD OR MUST BE. For example, anxiety is there to put you on alert in front of a danger before it happens, so that you can minimize if not neutralize it. However, anxiety can start to be triggered during irrational situations like when you are sourrounded with a crowd, or because you heard a sound and you identify it subconsciously as a menace. You need to correct such deviances by identifying them and erasing them, and that is achieved by giving your neocortex the command and putting your emotions aside in the act of decision making.
It doesn’t matter how hurtful, sad or happy a moment is, DO NOT EVER MAKE A SINGLE DECISION BASED ON EMOTION, but rather, use emotion as a motivation and tool to reach a rationally thought goal. Do not forgive people, or insult someone, or do an act of good out of pure emotion but rather get out of emotion's way, think and then use it in your favour and that of your social sorroundings. You will realise that the biggest mistakes in your lifetime were due to acting on emotions and giving them power, as when you forgot a person due to feeling sad after watching them during a difficult moment instead of respecting yourself and your own boundaries, and then they betrayed you again due to that. Or for example a person was sad and instead of stopping and thinking like a man he decided to "lift yhis spirits up" and take that pill, SHAME AND COWARDICE!
A world run by emotions is ridiculous to even envision. Imagine that your most important things in life were dominated by emotion... Imagine that the mother does not feed the infant that day just because she is "Depressed", imagine yourself not paying the rent or going to work just because you feel "sad" that day... Those people all end up being homeless, disowmed, in jail and that which is even worse, which is exactly what happens with what was exposed above, drug addicts, drunkards and gambling addicts, we seek the refuge of Allah from such undecencies.
However, when you reach the limits like starvation, oh boy, your body suddenly strats to beg you food, suddenly your emotions match your needs and you start thinking 24/7 about the real priorities. Right now, you are in a state of such weakness that you would never put emotions in their proper place unless you were in a prolonged deprivation of a need, and this is exactly one of the purposes of such text... to expose how you should be calling a spade a spade and putting emotions where it belongs and actions where it belongs when your body still hasn't alerted you, now that you still have resources and possibilities, before it's too late and your body alarms you but you are very weak then to be something you want. By putting emotions aside and just using them as a tool, you are merely returning to your original state, restoring yourself, becoming what you are suppossed to be.
-The fourth thing is acceptance. Life is a struggle irremediably of what you want or desire, a succession of events and receiving punches until the last definitive and unbeatable punch. Accept that things are going to get in ways that you don't like and don't expect, that loved beings are going to die, that you are going to get sick, that you are not always eating what you want, that your routine will be broken now and then because of this and that. Be at peace with yourself, absorb such hits the best way you can and that is achieved via acceptance and prior envisioning.
The people who know their loved beings are going to die and spend with them some time at the hospital seem to absorb the hit better than those whose loved beings pass through sudden and unexpected deaths, since they spread the duel and the emotional pain in time, they have a bigger opportunity to compartmentalize their pain. Who is more prepared to receive a punch, the one who knew he was going to receive it one day inevitably and prepared a mask in his face to absorb it, or the one who didn't expect it from anywere??? The answer is evident
Yet, at the same time, know and be certain that difficulties will happen inevitably the other way around, that they will suddenly occur and you won't have any margin to act or avoid them be it the death of a loved being, a sudden sickness, an injury, an economical crisis, and be at peace with yourself accepting it rather than worrying about it. Stop believing that this life of the world is just or that you are special, that you are a chosen one. YOU ARE MOST DEFINETLY NOT. If you keep thinking that way, the hit is just going to be worse and worse and worse, since you had a higher expectative and the fall was bigger. You need to mentalize yourself, THE FALL IS INEVITABLE, AND ANOTHER IS GOING TO COME, AND ANOTHER! Now let's try to make it as easy as it can be, let's try to absorb the hits as a man and not as a victimized lifeless crying bag.
-The first thing and most important element a person with a mental disorder must UNDERSTAND AND INSTALL DEEPLY HIS BRAIN is the complete embracement of the idea of free will, making himself believe that whatever happens he has the complete control over everyone of his actions. The one who does not start from that premise, is defeated before the beggining and there is no hope nor need to help such a weak, gullible person as long as he doesn’t embrace his own willpower as something that exists as much as the water of the sea. The worse kind of people that exists is the victim, for he always needs to have a victimizer and if he doesn’t find one, he will create one. The one who shifts blame and avoids truth does not deserve respect, time nor effort, he doesn’t even deserve to be humilliated because that would take effort, rather, he deserves to dissapear and not even be mixed with the respected dust of the vaste land of Allah.
-The second thing a person with such mental disorders must understand and put into complete, unrelented and unequivocal practice is the creation of a routine that befits his needs and filled with activities that honor the blessing of the time that passes and he is rewarded with living. We are told the lie of "Make everyday different" and "Look for special moments", however, this is a lie that could only come from either the most gullible of cowards and ignorants, or the most venomous and thoughtful snakes that want to destroy the well being of others deliberadetly. If you spend your entire life searching and begging for "Special moments", you would merely and barely spend 1% or that which is even less on such activities since the brain has a limit of what it can take. You know who is addicted to "special moments and occassions"??? Drug addicts, alcoholics, drunkards, the most despicable of society gather to reject that which compromises 99% of life which is a proper routine and the day to day life that is the event repeated OVER and OVER and OVER again. Many reject such reality of life and decide to not THINK, DEVELOP and ultimately PERFECT that which makes up the absolute vast majority of their lifetimes, that which not only determines everything but is EVERYTHING. Start a routine, eat at specified hours while being completely CONSCIOUS of every single act you do, whether to switch it to a different time, whether you feel better sleeping at this or that hour, whether you need a 20 minute nap everyday, what exercise routine should you choose, etc, until you perfect and master your day to day life to a point that going through your daily adversity will be easier than breaking a spider's web. And NEVER disrespect your routine.
-This leads us to the third point, ULTIMATE RIDDANCE of emotion dictating any of your behaviours and attitudes. It is very well known, studied and researched that our neocortex, a part of our brain which is responsible for reasoning, thinking and speech does not encompass emotions. Every emotion and feeling has a function which is to SUBMIT to the neocortex, meaning that every emotion is undisputably a MERE TOOL, something that is used to reach an end but NOT TO DICTATE WHAT THE END SHOULD OR MUST BE. For example, anxiety is there to put you on alert in front of a danger before it happens, so that you can minimize if not neutralize it. However, anxiety can start to be triggered during irrational situations like when you are sourrounded with a crowd, or because you heard a sound and you identify it subconsciously as a menace. You need to correct such deviances by identifying them and erasing them, and that is achieved by giving your neocortex the command and putting your emotions aside in the act of decision making.
It doesn’t matter how hurtful, sad or happy a moment is, DO NOT EVER MAKE A SINGLE DECISION BASED ON EMOTION, but rather, use emotion as a motivation and tool to reach a rationally thought goal. Do not forgive people, or insult someone, or do an act of good out of pure emotion but rather get out of emotion's way, think and then use it in your favour and that of your social sorroundings. You will realise that the biggest mistakes in your lifetime were due to acting on emotions and giving them power, as when you forgot a person due to feeling sad after watching them during a difficult moment instead of respecting yourself and your own boundaries, and then they betrayed you again due to that. Or for example a person was sad and instead of stopping and thinking like a man he decided to "lift yhis spirits up" and take that pill, SHAME AND COWARDICE!
A world run by emotions is ridiculous to even envision. Imagine that your most important things in life were dominated by emotion... Imagine that the mother does not feed the infant that day just because she is "Depressed", imagine yourself not paying the rent or going to work just because you feel "sad" that day... Those people all end up being homeless, disowmed, in jail and that which is even worse, which is exactly what happens with what was exposed above, drug addicts, drunkards and gambling addicts, we seek the refuge of Allah from such undecencies.
However, when you reach the limits like starvation, oh boy, your body suddenly strats to beg you food, suddenly your emotions match your needs and you start thinking 24/7 about the real priorities. Right now, you are in a state of such weakness that you would never put emotions in their proper place unless you were in a prolonged deprivation of a need, and this is exactly one of the purposes of such text... to expose how you should be calling a spade a spade and putting emotions where it belongs and actions where it belongs when your body still hasn't alerted you, now that you still have resources and possibilities, before it's too late and your body alarms you but you are very weak then to be something you want. By putting emotions aside and just using them as a tool, you are merely returning to your original state, restoring yourself, becoming what you are suppossed to be.
-The fourth thing is acceptance. Life is a struggle irremediably of what you want or desire, a succession of events and receiving punches until the last definitive and unbeatable punch. Accept that things are going to get in ways that you don't like and don't expect, that loved beings are going to die, that you are going to get sick, that you are not always eating what you want, that your routine will be broken now and then because of this and that. Be at peace with yourself, absorb such hits the best way you can and that is achieved via acceptance and prior envisioning.
The people who know their loved beings are going to die and spend with them some time at the hospital seem to absorb the hit better than those whose loved beings pass through sudden and unexpected deaths, since they spread the duel and the emotional pain in time, they have a bigger opportunity to compartmentalize their pain. Who is more prepared to receive a punch, the one who knew he was going to receive it one day inevitably and prepared a mask in his face to absorb it, or the one who didn't expect it from anywere??? The answer is evident
Yet, at the same time, know and be certain that difficulties will happen inevitably the other way around, that they will suddenly occur and you won't have any margin to act or avoid them be it the death of a loved being, a sudden sickness, an injury, an economical crisis, and be at peace with yourself accepting it rather than worrying about it. Stop believing that this life of the world is just or that you are special, that you are a chosen one. YOU ARE MOST DEFINETLY NOT. If you keep thinking that way, the hit is just going to be worse and worse and worse, since you had a higher expectative and the fall was bigger. You need to mentalize yourself, THE FALL IS INEVITABLE, AND ANOTHER IS GOING TO COME, AND ANOTHER! Now let's try to make it as easy as it can be, let's try to absorb the hits as a man and not as a victimized lifeless crying bag.
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