Someone REALLY needs to make a guide on how to talk with women

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Ok so, I'm going on a second date with a girl I met on valentines. First date went well, we got to know each other and she was nicest girl I've met so far. Now however I'm fucked. I have no idea what to say anymore, I've already asked all basic questions from her. Now you forum slayers need to help me. What kind of stuff should I speak with her? Can someone give me some great examples of good shit to talk if there will be awkward silence.
I really like her, and can't afford to lose this shot.
 
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Chad talks with his cock
 
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What do you know so far about her from that first date?
 
"if you ain't gonna talk then suck my cock dum bitch"
 
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Remember it’s not an interview so don’t come loaded with questions. Most conversation is just natural and thinking about what to say makes it harder to say anything. Make observation about surroundings or mention a film you watched recently or something like that
 
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open cloth bitch
 
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Its over the moment u need to question this tbh
Will never look natural
 
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Hey i missed u. * go in for hug*. Then compliment clothes, then tell her where ull take her. Grab her hands and and walk together. If ur in the city comment on things. Talking shouldn't matter much. Just let it flow
 
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LoL jfl at "talking with women" bullshit
If she is attracted to you she will have sex with you
Its that easy
 
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If they like you they’ll carry the conversation Cos girls can talk about stuff easily
 
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Britishlooksmaxxer

XD
 
what i always did was: first clear the personal stuff (that u already did), then talk about stuff that happened in recent days, at work or school for example and then talk about stuff that happened longer ago. crazy events that happened etc. also always ask what she has been doing, if she isnt a boring cunt she will also start asking questions.

talk about music, series, movies, hobbies. dont mention religion, family, money
 
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Try not to be a high inhib sperg
 
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Remember it’s not an interview so don’t come loaded with questions. Most conversation is just natural and thinking about what to say makes it harder to say anything. Make observation about surroundings or mention a film you watched recently or something like that
Yeah, I did that. I hope I can figure out something to say next time too.
 
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Try thrusting ur p in her v
 
Recent events, your surroundings
etc.
 
In my experience they usually talk 80% of the time and carry the conversation. I just make some casual remarks about things she said to be funny pretty much
 
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I'm sorry, but if you have nothing to talk about then you don't really like her. If there were genuine attraction between you two, then you could literally talk about anything, even about stuff like how often you poop or how good Hitler was. I've had this moment with a girl once. We were literally sitting down and talking shit about every stranger that passed us, making racist remarks, etc.
 
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flex your big biceps
 
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redpill her on jews unironically
 
If they like you they’ll carry the conversation Cos girls can talk about stuff easily
Yeah, she actually did carry the conversation. Atleast more than I did. What should I text her, she texts me once in a while asking all kinds of stuff, and it's always her texting first. What should I ask her?
 
redpill her on jews unironically
Nah, I don't want to bring politics on dating. Women don't care about redpills or blackpills.
 
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It's natural bro,you shouldn't think to that...
 
In my experience they usually talk 80% of the time and carry the conversation. I just make some casual remarks about things she said to be funny pretty much
Yes, same, but girls hate it. Some girls I was ''seeing'' were quite mad because I didn't talk all that much. One even started raging.
 
Nah, I don't want to bring politics on dating. Women don't care about redpills or blackpills.
my point is, if she's really into you she'll go along with any topic you bring.. if she doesn't, she ain't worth your time )
 
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Something I do to prevent awkward silences is going to places where your interacting by doing something.

Anyway I have no advice since I have this problem too. But since you know much about her then maybe you probably have an idea about what could be interesting for both.
 
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If they like you they’ll carry the conversation Cos girls can talk about stuff easily
Exactly. If you have to put on a performance and carry the conversation, the girl has no respect for you and you're just wasting your time.
 
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Exactly. If you have to put on a performance and carry the conversation, the girl has no respect for you and you're just wasting your time.
Palpatine6

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Exactly. If you have to put on a performance and carry the conversation, the girl has no respect for you and you're just wasting your time.
You know it brother
 
"how was your day/week"

then carry on the convo from there bro
 
"how was your day/week"

then carry on the convo from there bro
Yeah, that was the plan :D any tips what I should send her on snapchat? Snapping and sending girls texts is really my weakness tbh.
 
Hey i missed u. * go in for hug*. Then compliment clothes, then tell her where ull take her. Grab her hands and and walk together. If ur in the city comment on things. Talking shouldn't matter much. Just let it flow
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Just say basic daily stuff. If she likes you she’ll help you carry the conversation. If she doesn’t like you, no line can help you.
 
Yeah, that was the plan :D any tips what I should send her on snapchat? Snapping and sending girls texts is really my weakness tbh.

i dont have snapchat
Therefore i dont know

I only make convos tbh
 
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Its over the moment u need to question this tbh
Will never look natural
I think its okay to have the occassional awkward pause, or have a few pre planned things to say/ask your date, espeically within the first half an hour of meeting, after about half an hour and a small amount of alcohol the convo should flow more freely
LoL jfl at "talking with women" bullshit
If she is attracted to you she will have sex with you
Its that easy
while looks are clearly the single most important factor, one would still be foolish to ignore the social aspects of dating and sex
 
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LoL jfl at "talking with women" bullshit
If she is attracted to you she will have sex with you
Its that easy
I may not have much experience either, but judging by what you wrote, you have zero experience with women. She's no tinder hookup, and I'm not just looking for a quick pump&dump. Quit porn for good, in real life women will not usually just instantly jump on your dick when you say ''can we have sex?'', even if they thought u were good looking.
 
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if u hav 2 talk its ogre
 
Water is wet but I just realized if a girl isn't constantly talking to you or asking you questions you are trash in her eyes. If she responds only with yes/no it is over too.
"Maybe she is shy", bullshit, NT girls aren't shy.
Should have seen it sooner, so many useless daydreams and copes.
 
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Simple. Just be Chad and show up.
 
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