something changed after 2022

[NoExit]

after i completed my military service things were like before. my parents became more distant, the world felt more distant in general and whatever optimism i had was gone.

up until 2022, i would go out with both my parents for dinner. but from 2023 and onwards, i would go only with my father, my mom wasnt coming and that always bothered me tbh tbh.

it felt like my parents didnt care about me as much as they did before and it got even worse after i got a job. some call it growing up but it sucks in all honesty.

whats the point of this when the people you cared for are gone from your life? whats all this effort for in the end? it seems meaningless

 

[witcher78]

yeah i’m sorry bro, i really don’t feel like “growing up” would be a valid reason for your parents to do that

 

[isis_Bleach]

in the military did little dick low t guys get picked on ?

 

[Whatever]

I’ve been through something similar with both my parents although it was with my dad much earlier than with my mom. Basically they can’t handle watching their children become adults. The parent-child dynamic comes to an end and new roles are assigned and they can’t get with those new roles. The behavioral, psychological, etc. scripts and playbooks that they’ve used to deal with you your whole life become outdated and they don’t know or care how to update it. The not caring is the hard part because I was patient, generous, happy to work with them as the adult that can handle things that I am. But instead they just shat on me and now we can’t really talk anymore.

 

[NoExit]

yeah i’m sorry bro, i really don’t feel like “growing up” would be a valid reason for your parents to do that

there is a disconnection with people in general, even people on my looks level

 

[NoExit]

in the military did little dick low t guys get picked on ?

being an incel in the military is death sentece

 

[NoExit]

. The parent-child dynamic comes to an end and new roles are assigned and they can’t get with those new roles. The behavioral, psychological, etc. scripts and playbooks that they’ve used to deal with you your whole life become outdated and they don’t know or care how to update it. The not caring is the hard part because I was patient, generous, happy to work with them as the adult that can handle things that I am. But instead they just shat on me and now we can’t really talk anymore.

they expect you to be an adult and deal with problems that you shouldnt be dealing with