something I noticed after I lost weight/improving looks

[Deleted member 7901]

after I lost 37kg-38kg and putting on contact lenses instead of glasses
People who I know long-term (family, friends, even barber)
ask why I don't talk with them much or start conversions, they look even being a bit offended, before that I could be quite and nobody would really care

I still need to lose like extra 10kg-11kg to be in the ideal territory and on accutane for acne, but it still interesting to see the benefits I have so far, some others include having friends and even strangers treat me better and take me more seriously, especially an old friend I have who after I lost weight, he immidietally became more friendly and respects me much more, especially after him himself gained like 25kg during the corona and has acne now, before that he treated me like trash and like I am a naive retard

 

[Deleted member 11053]

They see that you're doing better and they don't entirely like it, they think you're becoming arrogant and are trying to let you know this without telling you directly cause they are pussy and they don't want to appear crazy and insecure cause deep down they know you did nothing wrong .

 

[Deleted member 7901]

They see that you're doing better and they don't entirely like it, they think you're becoming arrogant and are trying to let you know this without telling you directly cause they are pussy and they don't want to appear crazy and insecure cause deep down they know they know you did nothing wrong .

Its annoying as fuck, I am still 83kg and need to lose extra 10kg for ideal weight at my frame and height and I still look a chubby, and my parents say (and even said that when I was around 95kg) "don't you think that you become too skinny? you need to eat some food", fucking gaslighting

its really funny to see how things flipped, my parents who feed me with shit that made me fat and were skinny, are now morbidly obese, and I have 2 friends gained a lot of weight during the lockdown (and were skinny before) and now respect me more

This is like the 3rd major blackpill in my life, I used to look like an actor when I was a child, everyone wanted to play with me and smiled just by looking at me, even now when I show pictures of when I was a child people can't believe it and they get some kind of a smile in their face, and at age 10-11 I became very fat and put on glasses, and got treated like complete trash, on top of that my nose looked big on my skull and other shit, now my skull grew some features became more fixed, lost weight, now I feel like I am going back to looking normal again and see how its like in the other side of the spectrum

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Its annoying as fuck, I am still 83kg and need to lose extra 10kg for ideal weight at my frame and height and I still look a chubby, and my parents say (and even said that when I was around 95kg) "don't you think that you become too skinny? you need to eat some food", fucking gaslighting

its really funny to see how things flipped, my parents who feed me with shit that made me fat and were skinny, are now morbidly obese, and I have 2 friends gained a lot of weight during the lockdown (and were skinny before) and now respect me more

This is like the 3rd major blackpill in my life, I used to look like an actor when I was a child, everyone wanted to play with me and smiled just by looking at me, even now when I show pictures of when I was a child people can't believe it and they get some kind of a smile in their face, and at age 10-11 I became very fat and put on glasses, and got treated like complete trash, on top of that my nose looked big on my skull and other shit, now my skull grew some features became more fixed, lost weight, now I feel like I am going back to looking normal again and see how its like in the other side of the spectrum

Nice to see you ascend. The issue with changing yourself is people don't want to see you change. My parents constantly gaslight me for going ot the gym. I have been rotting inside but I think any friends/accqauntances would do the same thing. They are going to gaslight me when I get my bimax. And JFL at what normies will say if they found out I got surgery.

I remember my friends gaslighted me when I told them I was going to the gym. This was a few years ago and I quit because of it. People get jealous easily.

You have to have an idea of what you want to achieve, then stick to this goal.

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

this should motivate the hell out of u considering ur already being treated better while having a lot more weight to lose

 

[Yellowskies]

Only chad can go to the gym and act cocky without being ostracized.

Folks dont like incels trying to better themselves, act confident or stepping out of their percieved role in society.