Yliaster
Your real rating is your dating life
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A woman's expectation is what they see in romance novels, movies, shows. Men are competing with fantasy characters. Face first. Body second. Status third. Money fourth. Personality last. This is the hierarchy of attraction that everyone follows. People, mainly women, who have a huge self-worth/ego choose the top first and then go down the hierarchy. What you value first depends on your self-esteem/ego. Most people who choose personality first have the lowest self-esteem. This could be the result of bad breakups, bad childhoods, or a mental/physical disability. Women who say they had a good life might tell you that they weren't attracted to their friend, until 3 years later. That should set up some red flags by itself. At the end of the day, who doesn't have a personality? You make the effort to get to know someone and they might surprise you. Personality only matters for a relationship. Not the initial greeting.
