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I think one of the strangest things about being human is that we spend so much of our lives trying to become someone, then one day we realise we were already someone.
A lot of people are waiting for the moment where they finally become confident, successful, interesting, happy. They imagine some future version of themselves will arrive and everything will make sense.
But that person never actually arrives.
You just slowly become them without noticing.
The person you are today would probably be everything your younger self was hoping to become, yet you rarely stop and appreciate that because your brain immediately creates a new problem to solve.
Maybe the hardest part of life isn’t becoming who you want to be.
Maybe it’s recognising when you already are.
A lot of people are waiting for the moment where they finally become confident, successful, interesting, happy. They imagine some future version of themselves will arrive and everything will make sense.
But that person never actually arrives.
You just slowly become them without noticing.
The person you are today would probably be everything your younger self was hoping to become, yet you rarely stop and appreciate that because your brain immediately creates a new problem to solve.
Maybe the hardest part of life isn’t becoming who you want to be.
Maybe it’s recognising when you already are.
