Sprezzatura - The Art of Making Things Look Effortless

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Sprezzatura - the art of making difficult tasks, behaviors, or, famously, fashion choices look completely effortless and natural. It involves hiding the effort behind a polished, yet slightly imperfect, appearance, emphasizing confidence and cultivated ease.

Never tell anyone that you looksmax, gymcel, or anything else that will better your life

The whole point of this is to seem like you have better genetics than you already do

If you have a good physique, just say that you do push-ups (obviously if you have a REALLY good physique this won't work & you'll just have to come up with a different excuse)

If you noticeably improve your face, just say that you started eating better or sum bs like that

Obviously this is all water, but I think most people (including myself) need a reminder to not be telling people you know about what you're doing

People will only use your hard work against you
 
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People will only use your hard work against you
So true, it also makes you seem more NT to say something along the lines of "I just do 50 pushups a day", instead of going into extreme depth about your workout regimen, diet, sleep, supplements, and compounds that you use. It really is a negative to disclose that to just anyone, showing how hard you work to compete with people who make it seem effortless. You can only lose by saying what you do(unless, of course, you're speaking about it to a person who is trusted and does similar things). By disclosing, you're really showing how ND you are and how obsessive you are.
 
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there was already a thread on this but yeah dnr
 
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So true, it also makes you seem more NT to say something along the lines of "I just do 50 pushups a day", instead of going into extreme depth about your workout regimen, diet, sleep, supplements, and compounds that you use. It really is a negative to disclose that to just anyone, showing how hard you work to compete with people who make it seem effortless. You can only lose by saying what you do(unless, of course, you're speaking about it to a person who is trusted and does similar things). By disclosing, you're really showing how ND you are and how obsessive you are.
It can also make getting mogged even worse

If you tell someone how into the gym u are and then u get physique mogged, ur gonna look stupid

But if they just think that you do pushups, it won’t be a big deal

Even if the visual isn’t any different
there was already a thread on this but yeah dnr
If you read the thread saying dnr makes ZERO sense :lul::lul:
 
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