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TrueNateJacobs
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Essentially I’ve been good friends with my oneitis for a while now
I didn’t have feelings for her until recently
Something clicked one day and I was in love with her
The thing is, she’s a stacy-lite blonde hair blue eye swedish girl, and I’m a mixed mtn with good halos and charisma
She’s kind of like a serial man-hater, feminist, resting bitch face, bisexual alt girl
As stated by her, I was one of her closest friends, even including her girl friends
She doesn’t really like people, and the fact that she liked me made me really happy
I would stalk her reposts and it would be a video of a fag and the caption would be like “this is my type of man”
Her current crush is a fag twink
Maybe I’m too robust, or maybe I’m just too ugly in general, but i dont think thats the case
We would flirt and all our friends were trying to get us together
So it’s not even like she’s disgusted by me or doesn’t like my appearance. if that were the case she would’ve never let us get as close as we did (if a girl inherently doesn’t like your appearance, you wont get near her)
i genuinely cant understand
Maybe she wanted me for attention, but i also dont think thats the case. Shes a mega popular stacy and guys thirst over her all the time.
LONG STORY SHORT
I confessed my feelings to her and she basically just gaslit me into thinking it was oneitis
IT WASNT.
Everyone said she was leading me on and it looked like we both had feelings for each other.
She has some issues; avoidant attachment, etc.
This leads me to my final conclusion:
She genuinely just wanted to be friends and I fucked it up and made it weird, now I’ve lost one of my closest friends.
I didn’t have feelings for her until recently
Something clicked one day and I was in love with her
The thing is, she’s a stacy-lite blonde hair blue eye swedish girl, and I’m a mixed mtn with good halos and charisma
She’s kind of like a serial man-hater, feminist, resting bitch face, bisexual alt girl
As stated by her, I was one of her closest friends, even including her girl friends
She doesn’t really like people, and the fact that she liked me made me really happy
I would stalk her reposts and it would be a video of a fag and the caption would be like “this is my type of man”
Her current crush is a fag twink
Maybe I’m too robust, or maybe I’m just too ugly in general, but i dont think thats the case
We would flirt and all our friends were trying to get us together
So it’s not even like she’s disgusted by me or doesn’t like my appearance. if that were the case she would’ve never let us get as close as we did (if a girl inherently doesn’t like your appearance, you wont get near her)
i genuinely cant understand
Maybe she wanted me for attention, but i also dont think thats the case. Shes a mega popular stacy and guys thirst over her all the time.
LONG STORY SHORT
I confessed my feelings to her and she basically just gaslit me into thinking it was oneitis
IT WASNT.
Everyone said she was leading me on and it looked like we both had feelings for each other.
She has some issues; avoidant attachment, etc.
This leads me to my final conclusion:
She genuinely just wanted to be friends and I fucked it up and made it weird, now I’ve lost one of my closest friends.
