eduardkoopman
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2 things to have, and 2 things not to have:
1. be good looking r=.45
2. be extraverted r=0.42 (expressive and cheerful behaviour + a tendency to seek contact with other people)
3. Don't be very negatievely emotional, such as: nervous, anxious, mad, sad, etc.. r= -0.41
4. Don't be shy or introverted (in datng r= -0.23)
sauce: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/dacherkeltner/docs/anderson.status.jpsp.2001.pdf
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For dating it's almost the same actually, as building blocks are for starus.
except that in dating it also matters to be able to have some pratical dating smarts (r = 0.41): decept a woman that you are better than you are and that you want what she wants; plus that are able to read her "mind" as in read her emtional state, her thought and intentions figuring out.
sausage: https://akjournals.com/view/journals/2050/14/1/article-p1.xml
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graph of meaning or r values.
1. be good looking r=.45
2. be extraverted r=0.42 (expressive and cheerful behaviour + a tendency to seek contact with other people)
3. Don't be very negatievely emotional, such as: nervous, anxious, mad, sad, etc.. r= -0.41
4. Don't be shy or introverted (in datng r= -0.23)
sauce: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/dacherkeltner/docs/anderson.status.jpsp.2001.pdf
*****
For dating it's almost the same actually, as building blocks are for starus.
except that in dating it also matters to be able to have some pratical dating smarts (r = 0.41): decept a woman that you are better than you are and that you want what she wants; plus that are able to read her "mind" as in read her emtional state, her thought and intentions figuring out.
sausage: https://akjournals.com/view/journals/2050/14/1/article-p1.xml
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graph of meaning or r values.
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