Still no definitve Nice guy vs Asshole answer

[Deleted member 2352]

TLDR:nice gentle smiling guy or Rude asshole cussing dickhead

Lets see it like this
A guy whose 6 ft 1 with a normal frame and a decent above average face starts talking to a girl.
The girl already finds him somewhat attractive and gives him a shot.
Hes not Chad so Personality matters.(Anybody who says otherwise is coping)
What is he supposed to do?
Be a Rude asshole grabbing her Ass And Telling her to shut up.
Or should he be romeo?Be Nice and Gentle but still confident.Just not pushy.And Tell her shes beautiful and kiss her gently
Im myself And it works.But Im still wondering whats more ideal for LTR and fucking.
I want to have ideal behavior.Because Im no
Chad or even Chadlite it matters to me
How to act to get this?

 

[Amnesia]

U have a fundamental misunderstanding of what type of guy women describe as an "asshole"

 

[Deleted member 6538]

 

[Deleted member 2352]

U have a fundamental misunderstanding of what type of guy women describe as an "asshole"

Then you tell me.
I want to know From you since you have real life expierence.
I act like an asshole and everyone calls me that but I also have a charming nice side to me.So kinda mixed.
What is your opinion chad?

 

[jackthenerd]

Voted for badboy/asshole based on the title, because it's the correct answer. But he obviously doesn't behave the way you described it.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

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Doesnt matter .
I need opinions from the forum chads not the incels

 

[diggbicc]

who is this???

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Voted for badboy/asshole based on the title, because it's the correct answer. But he obviously doesn't behave the way you described it.

Well then tell me how he behaves?
Because thats how I behave and girls call me asshole

 

[Deleted member 6538]

Doesnt matter .
I need opinions from the forum chads not the incels

 

[Deleted member 4645]

By badboy they most likely mean mysterious, challenging, strong character, doesn't bend over like a bitch. Not someone who's gonna beat them.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

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[needsolution]

who is this???

My mom

 

[Deleted member 2352]

By badboy they most likely mean mysterious, challenging, strong character. Not someone who's gonna beat them.

Wtf does that mean bro
How does someone like this behave in a social situation with girls and guys?
Just sit there misteriously?Wtf

 

[Greeicy]

Asshole = Chad that makes her feel anxious and doesn’t give her a sense of security because he has so many options and she knows she’s one mistake away from being dumped or cheated on.

Nice guy = Decent looking guy but doesn’t make her feel anxious because she knows he can’t slay effortlessly and unlikely to cheat on her.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Asshole = Chad that makes her feel anxious and doesn’t give her a sense of security because he has so many options and she knows she’s one mistake away from being dumped or cheated on.

Nice guy = Decent looking guy but doesn’t make her feel anxious because she knows he can’t slay effortlessly and unlikely to cheat on her.

Doesnt make alot of sense bra.
I just said in the example above the guy is slightly above average
So hes no chad and doesnt have all options.

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Wtf does that mean bro
How does someone like this behave in a social situation with girls and guys?
Just sit there misteriously?Wtf

By mysterious I meant someone unpredictable, I guess. Someone who's not boring. Someone who keeps you intrigued.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

By mysterious I meant someone unpredictable, I guess. Someone who's not boring. Someone who keeps you intrigued.

Yeah that makes sense I guess

 

[Greeicy]

Doesnt make alot of sense bra.
I just said in the example above the guy is slightly above average
So hes no chad and doesnt have all options.

Your personality is perceived by your SMV level. An average guy who’s also an asshole is someone who’s physically abusive or verbally abusive (which won’t work since high tier normies can’t get away with being abusive). Just be yourself tbh, it really won’t make a change.

 

[Deleted member 6128]

Well then tell me how he behaves?
Because thats how I behave and girls call me asshole

Nigga being asshole doesn’t get u bitches unless ur actually attractive if u want to be a bad boy u first got to give of big dick energy do something balsy like be known for doing bad shit of be know as the guy who doesn’t really care for peoples affection to much badboys don’t show to much emotion

 

[Amnesia]

When girls call a guy an asshole it's not cause he's literally a mean person or treats people like shit. It's just cause he doesn't commit to her, is emotionally unavailable, doesn't return her texts quickly, will leave her on read, cancels plans on her occasionally,etc. Most guys that girls call assholes are probably charming nice guys cause they are charismatic Chads. They earn the asshole title simply cause they don't become beta providers for the girls they sleep with.

 

[TsarTsar444]

Asshole = Chad that makes her feel anxious and doesn’t give her a sense of security because he has so many options and she knows she’s one mistake away from being dumped or cheated on.

Nice guy = Decent looking guy but doesn’t make her feel anxious because she knows he can’t slay effortlessly and unlikely to cheat on her.

I will never be an asshole... it over

 

[Deleted member 773]

A rude, smiling guy

 

[dasani water]

to women being an asshole is just not giving validation and only receiving it during sex, thats why theyre able to do shit like tell them to shut up, but to be able to do this you have to be a chad in her eyes

 

[Deleted member 6475]

When girls call a guy an asshole it's not cause he's literally a mean person or treats people like shit. It's just cause he doesn't commit to her, is emotionally unavailable, doesn't return her texts quickly, will leave her on read, cancels plans on her occasionally,etc. Most guys that girls call assholes are probably charming nice guys cause they are charismatic Chads. They earn the asshole title simply cause they don't become beta providers for the girls they sleep with.

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