"Stop having oneitis, acquire abundance mentality instead"

[Deleted member 21735]

This piece of advice, is on the same level of stupiity with the shit you read on reddit like socializing, law of attraction, self improvent etc. The guys who have an oneitis do so because they have no other choice. When you meet 1 girl every 5 fucking years htf are you supposed to have "abundance mentality"???

Oneitis happens to guys who have problem meeting girls in the first place. And then you tell these guys to magically meet multiple women lmao. I wouldnt have an oneitis if i didnt have 5 tinder matches flake on me. Not 1, FIVE, all mtbs and 1 htb. I wouldnt have oneitis if i had sex with that redhead ltb i went out with in Semptember. But this shit doesnt fucking work.

Incels struggle to meet women. They cant have abundance metnality because they dont have any foids to mentalize over. Thats why they get stuck on the same girl for ages till a new one comes. In my case, it took NINE years to meeta new girl.

 

[Saggitarian]

Abundance mentality is not a cope though. There's plenty of women on this planet. At some point you gotta realize that yes, you do gotta work out, get hobbies, and meet new people. Don't worry, I'm fucked in the head like people here to but jfc man it is true.

 

[Deleted member 27857]

Rotter cope

 

[Suimaxxer]

Hate to say it but just go outside bro