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Elias144
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I'm back from the other side and I have some critical information to share. Looksmaxxing is not going to solve your problems and will actually make them worse.
To understand this you have to understand what VALUE actually is. The truth is that every human being on earth values only one thing- the feeling of validation and safety. This is THE fundamental human desire, and all other desires are simply proxies for this. That being said, if you can provide validation and safety to others, you will be seen as immensely valuable. If you are seeking to receive safety or validation from others, you will come across as extremely unlikable.
This is the problem with looksmaxxing. The act of changing your appearance to please others or to gain some outcome is based on the implicit belief that your current life is not acceptable and that you need someone else to validate you. You are broadcasting to the world "I am a validation seeker, not giver". THAT is the problem. The material conditions of your life are actually completely irrelevant. All that matters is are you a validation seeker, or are you a validation giver.
Being a validation giver vs seeker is a night and day difference in every domain of life. Literally incel to slayer overnight if you can figure this out, it's no joke. Anyway if you wanna live a happy and fulfilling life and actually have women be genuinely attracted to YOU and not just your body, gtfo this forum immediately. Stop thinking about this blackpilll stuff, it's all a lie. Don't know how else to say it. I've lived both sides of the story and now looking back I can see that everything the blackpill told me was flat out wrong. Not only wrong, but the actual mirror opposite of what I should've been doing.
To understand this you have to understand what VALUE actually is. The truth is that every human being on earth values only one thing- the feeling of validation and safety. This is THE fundamental human desire, and all other desires are simply proxies for this. That being said, if you can provide validation and safety to others, you will be seen as immensely valuable. If you are seeking to receive safety or validation from others, you will come across as extremely unlikable.
This is the problem with looksmaxxing. The act of changing your appearance to please others or to gain some outcome is based on the implicit belief that your current life is not acceptable and that you need someone else to validate you. You are broadcasting to the world "I am a validation seeker, not giver". THAT is the problem. The material conditions of your life are actually completely irrelevant. All that matters is are you a validation seeker, or are you a validation giver.
Being a validation giver vs seeker is a night and day difference in every domain of life. Literally incel to slayer overnight if you can figure this out, it's no joke. Anyway if you wanna live a happy and fulfilling life and actually have women be genuinely attracted to YOU and not just your body, gtfo this forum immediately. Stop thinking about this blackpilll stuff, it's all a lie. Don't know how else to say it. I've lived both sides of the story and now looking back I can see that everything the blackpill told me was flat out wrong. Not only wrong, but the actual mirror opposite of what I should've been doing.
