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6ft8InTheNetherlands
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Compared to other guys, you are not any more or less insecure about most issues. You just CARE more while normal guys have quietly thrown in the towel many years ago.
No matter how hard you try, if you truly aren't NT, people and especially young birds WILL sense something is up with you socially.
You can teach a guy how to looksmaxx but if an adult male is socially inept he can't suddenly become hyper NT. I have tried toastmasters and there was this autistic guy there for 4 years and he STILL was socially inept.
For years I have tried to be NT and be part of some group and to achieve a sense of belonging and you know what? I completely failed.I was in groups of people, introduced by girls I dated and they all went on without me. If you are extremely socially uncalibrated you can become slightly better though through therapy.
Girls I date call me weird all the time. But you know what? I still fuck their pussy at the end of the night and they come back for more. At some point you need to focus at what you are good at and just improve that and find your niche. Like for me, Girls 188cm and taller have trouble finding a guy, so there I am at 2.04m. Same goes for you, are you into some weird shit? Find girls in that scene.
If you are not NT just maxx out your looks, money and lying/acting/game abilities, go for the numbers game and you will be just fine. If you are good at languages but suck horribly at numbers, why the hell would you focus on math?
Me personally I have zero social life, literally zero social interaction except my parents (who live abroad btw) and girls I date. I go days without even opening my mouth and I never have a shortage of girls from tinder or on occasion the gym and I am not even a chad. I have a set routine I use on dates to get them into my home and I go from there. I lie all the time during the dating process, when birds ask me what I am doing I say I am with friends etc while I am just sitting down home alone playing COD mobile.
No matter how hard you try, if you truly aren't NT, people and especially young birds WILL sense something is up with you socially.
You can teach a guy how to looksmaxx but if an adult male is socially inept he can't suddenly become hyper NT. I have tried toastmasters and there was this autistic guy there for 4 years and he STILL was socially inept.
For years I have tried to be NT and be part of some group and to achieve a sense of belonging and you know what? I completely failed.I was in groups of people, introduced by girls I dated and they all went on without me. If you are extremely socially uncalibrated you can become slightly better though through therapy.
Girls I date call me weird all the time. But you know what? I still fuck their pussy at the end of the night and they come back for more. At some point you need to focus at what you are good at and just improve that and find your niche. Like for me, Girls 188cm and taller have trouble finding a guy, so there I am at 2.04m. Same goes for you, are you into some weird shit? Find girls in that scene.
If you are not NT just maxx out your looks, money and lying/acting/game abilities, go for the numbers game and you will be just fine. If you are good at languages but suck horribly at numbers, why the hell would you focus on math?
Me personally I have zero social life, literally zero social interaction except my parents (who live abroad btw) and girls I date. I go days without even opening my mouth and I never have a shortage of girls from tinder or on occasion the gym and I am not even a chad. I have a set routine I use on dates to get them into my home and I go from there. I lie all the time during the dating process, when birds ask me what I am doing I say I am with friends etc while I am just sitting down home alone playing COD mobile.