Stopped Blowjobs and handjobs to my husband. Men’s/husband’s sexual happiness is not our job ladies

[ryuken]

Stopped Blowjobs and handjobs to my husband. Men’s/husband’s sexual happiness is not our job ladies

Found feminism later and life and now I find these things that only bring my husband joy something I never care to do. He loves them more than sex. He has flaws from childhood and is working on addressing them in therapy. Great father, the kids love him. I only do things when my body feels like doing them now. Maybe I do a blowjob once every two years now. I’m still working through the what is right. I don’t feel we should perform sex for our husbands. He wants sex way more than I do. Kinkier/ Eye contact dirty talk. More erotic connectedness. I just have other priorities and don’t really care about this one. Maybe once he’s rounded out his emotional side i would be into it more. This disconnect probably blows up our marriage though. Most of my female friends are the same towards their husbands now so don’t feel like I am deviating from the norm. That was for when we were much younger. Really struggling and need advice. I feel like I’ve lost the thought that men and women with perfectly matched libidos will ever work because women should never “put out” when they don’t feel like their body is in the mood and is naturally feeling like it. Honestly feel like modern marriage is doomed. Perform to meet the man halfway or divorce? Divorce is where this shit is going. Vent vent vent. Fuck fuck fuck. Most of us are doomed and probably never should have gotten married. Help, what advice, thoughts am I missing

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[ihatefoids88]

for a second i was filled with primal rage until i realised it was not you who originally typed this

 

[tarkdriad33]

low t husband , just take it by force, you own her

 

[ChrisFletcher]

Fell for bait generated by ai award

 

[sick kunt31]

I wont ever have a wife
mostly due to my looks

 

[idealistsynth]

Stopped Blowjobs and handjobs to my husband. Men’s/husband’s sexual happiness is not our job ladies

Found feminism later and life and now I find these things that only bring my husband joy something I never care to do. He loves them more than sex. He has flaws from childhood and is working on addressing them in therapy. Great father, the kids love him. I only do things when my body feels like doing them now. Maybe I do a blowjob once every two years now. I’m still working through the what is right. I don’t feel we should perform sex for our husbands. He wants sex way more than I do. Kinkier/ Eye contact dirty talk. More erotic connectedness. I just have other priorities and don’t really care about this one. Maybe once he’s rounded out his emotional side i would be into it more. This disconnect probably blows up our marriage though. Most of my female friends are the same towards their husbands now so don’t feel like I am deviating from the norm. That was for when we were much younger. Really struggling and need advice. I feel like I’ve lost the thought that men and women with perfectly matched libidos will ever work because women should never “put out” when they don’t feel like their body is in the mood and is naturally feeling like it. Honestly feel like modern marriage is doomed. Perform to meet the man halfway or divorce? Divorce is where this shit is going. Vent vent vent. Fuck fuck fuck. Most of us are doomed and probably never should have gotten married. Help, what advice, thoughts am I missing

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yeah reading reddit is cagefuel

keep in mind redditors don’t reflect the normal population

 

[ryuken]

Only one rep

 

[ryuken]

yeah reading reddit is cagefuel

keep in mind redditors don’t reflect the normal population

i find r/marriage the funniest also r/vegans when they talk about people who eat meat