Story of going out with my chad friend back when i was redpilled/pua

[lutte]

"Hmm so why dont you have hair

 

[Deusmaximus]

This is why I never got that real life is different than Online dating - 'advice'.

I have always noticed that club/bar environments have just as brutal hypergamy and standards on look as online dating does. There's no difference.

I've had girls straight up reject me in a club for 'not being tall enough' while I am 6'0 tall and this girl was like 5'6 jfl. Also in a similar spot where I was wingmanning for a friend, but got rejected lmao.

Online dating is a lot better, because you
1.know that the girl is single and ready to date
2.If you match with the girl, you already know that the girl does not have a problem with your face
3.You will not have brutal rejections or even girls dissing you/ignoring you heavy

Clubbing or street game:
1.You have no idea if she likes your face
2.maybe she is not even single, or looking for a guy to date
Also you can get a lot of numbers from approaching girls in club/street/bars, but most of these numbers waste your time, because they are not even interested in fucking you. Girls will give their number often to just make the guy go away and let them alone.
The only positive is that girls are often drunk in clubs, and maybe so you can get a ons if you are really lucky.

 

[lutte]

Online dating is a lot better, because you
1.know that the girl is single and ready to date
2.If you match with the girl, you already know that the girl does not have a problem with your face
3.You will not have brutal rejections or even girls dissing you/ignoring you heavy

Clubbing or street game:
1.You have no idea if she likes your face
2.maybe she is not even single, or looking for a guy to date
Also you can get a lot of numbers from approaching girls in club/street/bars, but most of these numbers waste your time, because they are not even interested in fucking you. Girls will give their number often to just make the guy go away and let them alone.
The only positive is that girls are often drunk in clubs, and maybe so you can get a ons if you are really lucky.

Post more stories

 

[wateriswet]

what's your psl? in how many of these stories are you bald/thinning?
i am drowning in atomic blackpills since i started reading this thread, maybe i can cope a little bit if you are below 4 psl

 

[Need2Ascend]

With lifts i am 182cm (178/179 without), and my friend is 186 or 188.
But his face is build like henry cavill. Huge square jaw, wide chin, warrior skull, still looks high class.

Thought so, RL chads are always in the 185-190cm range. How does someone even get bones like that fml

 

[Deusmaximus]

Thought so, RL chads are always in the 185-190cm range. How does someone even get bones like that fml

His father looks exactly like him. Huge mogging machine that looks like a gigachad at 50+
very gl with big jaw and mogger skull shape

 

[Deleted member 5634]

Keep the blackpills coming OP

 

[fogdart]

I have many many of them from clubbing.
There was also a phase where i was so desperate to morph my pictures to more robust/masculine, and really organize some dates with them.
This shit was the most stupid and traumatizing thing i ever done in my life.
One story:
I was matching with this 23year old psl5 girl at 9 in the evening, and she immediately pushed for a spontanous date. She also mentioned that her parents are not at home, and she has holidays. Very sexual conversation.

I then took a shower and drove 50 MINUTES to her town, and met her outside of her house.

As soon as i met her, she dropped some atomic blackpills on me.
"hmm you look different to your pictures." I asked "how?" and she answered "you just looked so dominant, and like more masculine. Almost like a bad boy". "You now more look like a...hmmm...hmm... nice guy". "Are you also like shorter or something??"

Her vibe was totally not interested, and when i tried to sexualize the conversation (talking about dating/sex), she just told me: "oh sorry thats to much private stuff for a first meeting. I am not that type of girl, sorry".
After 10-15minutes she told me that her cats must be hungry, and need some food. Then she left.

I drove back home for another 50 MINUTES like a totally destroyed person.

I want more morph stories. I thought morphing worked to some extent

 

[tyronelite]

I can’t wait to get back in the club and compete with chads again. It’s an adrenaline rush

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Online dating is a lot better, because you
1.know that the girl is single and ready to date
2.If you match with the girl, you already know that the girl does not have a problem with your face
3.You will not have brutal rejections or even girls dissing you/ignoring you heavy

Clubbing or street game:
1.You have no idea if she likes your face
2.maybe she is not even single, or looking for a guy to date
Also you can get a lot of numbers from approaching girls in club/street/bars, but most of these numbers waste your time, because they are not even interested in fucking you. Girls will give their number often to just make the guy go away and let them alone.
The only positive is that girls are often drunk in clubs, and maybe so you can get a ons if you are really lucky.

chad or death tbh

 

[Zyros]

Online dating is a lot better, because you
1.know that the girl is single and ready to date
2.If you match with the girl, you already know that the girl does not have a problem with your face
3.You will not have brutal rejections or even girls dissing you/ignoring you heavy

Clubbing or street game:
1.You have no idea if she likes your face
2.maybe she is not even single, or looking for a guy to date
Also you can get a lot of numbers from approaching girls in club/street/bars, but most of these numbers waste your time, because they are not even interested in fucking you. Girls will give their number often to just make the guy go away and let them alone.
The only positive is that girls are often drunk in clubs, and maybe so you can get a ons if you are really lucky.

clubbing at least for me is waaay easier.

In clubbing for me its usually just wait around the bar, while being enough visible until someone approaches or something. Lots of times things just flow in such an awesome way due to the warm environment and alcohol.

Meanwhile in online dating im already fucked because my age (32). Lying about my age while not being able to hide it (unless I pay like a cuck) so I don't get fucked by preference filters would mean a fucking social suicide if someone I know saw my profile. Meanwhile in clubs I got young girls insterest no problem, with 32 being actually a halo because of "how well I age". my age is a halo irl while its a huge handicap in online dating.

Also I seem to have very poor exposure online dating while irl in a bar i'm not subjected to some bullshit algorithm. All my hookups irl also came from being approached first, so the thing about "facing rejection" isn't even there, comapred to online which feels like ghost town.

And finally, irl the process is SO MUCH MORE FUN that sometimes its even more fun than the hookup itself. Sometimes irl approaches that don't end in hookup are even more memorable than any online hookup could be (that one time in which some girl paid me drinks and danced with me while her boyfriend was in the same group with us, and I spent the night in a mix of being amused and being afraid of the boyfriend getting mad and kicking my ass). I have lots of fun stories and memories irl which online simply woulnd't happen at all because that "middle part" is completely absent.

Some friends of me do better online than irl but somehow for me every online environment is utter shit. Strange because when irl with that friend group i'm usually the one to catch the attention yet they always are talking about their tinder and instagram conquests. I hate how covid left us with online as the only way to socialize. Clubs and nightlife are the best.

 

[RichardwillImprove]

WHats ur psl these are some rough experiences man.

 

[TheChosenChad]

make a story series and tag me
u gonna get lots of reacts

Tag me in your rope fuel storys pls

clubbing at least for me is waaay easier.

In clubbing for me its usually just wait around the bar, while being enough visible until someone approaches or something. Lots of times things just flow in such an awesome way due to the warm environment and alcohol.

Meanwhile in online dating im already fucked because my age (32). Lying about my age while not being able to hide it (unless I pay like a cuck) so I don't get fucked by preference filters would mean a fucking social suicide if someone I know saw my profile. Meanwhile in clubs I got young girls insterest no problem, with 32 being actually a halo because of "how well I age". my age is a halo irl while its a huge handicap in online dating.

Also I seem to have very poor exposure online dating while irl in a bar i'm not subjected to some bullshit algorithm. All my hookups irl also came from being approached first, so the thing about "facing rejection" isn't even there, comapred to online which feels like ghost town.

And finally, irl the process is SO MUCH MORE FUN that sometimes its even more fun than the hookup itself. Sometimes irl approaches that don't end in hookup are even more memorable than any online hookup could be (that one time in which some girl paid me drinks and danced with me while her boyfriend was in the same group with us, and I spent the night in a mix of being amused and being afraid of the boyfriend getting mad and kicking my ass). I have lots of fun stories and memories irl which online simply woulnd't happen at all because that "middle part" is completely absent.

Some friends of me do better online than irl but somehow for me every online environment is utter shit. Strange because when irl with that friend group i'm usually the one to catch the attention yet they always are talking about their tinder and instagram conquests. I hate how covid left us with online as the only way to socialize. Clubs and nightlife are the best.

What cucks me online is that its so much harder to be charismatic compared to real life, jokes flow more naturally IRL.