Struggling to get the courage to talk to a girl I like at my school, need advice

[FutureExoticChad]

Shes cute in my opinion, High MTB, but a very appealing high E feminine face. She's also slightly chubby, and has a nice chubster build (which I am into), shes (I believe) Mulatto, though not the ghetto type what so ever.

I don't really think she likes me, but I don't think the prospect of her liking me is impossible since I've caught her staring at me when I was sitting in front of her in my ELA class twice, though it could have been very random since she doesn't really talk to too many people and just sits on her phone (with the exception of a white girl occasionally who she talks to).

I really am trying to muster up the courage to go talk to her, but my brain is already rotted with the black-pill, and I know if I try and talk to her but get blown away, thats gonna end up being absolutely nuclear for my self esteem for the last few years of my teens.

BUT, I also feel like I am gonna hate myself if I don't go for it. It would be easy for my future-self to look back at in retrospect and think am a pussy, but fuck man, I don't know what to do. If I try to talk to her and she brushes me off, she will just chat shit about me to her friends and it will be GGs for my already non existent status in the school I go to since I am new.

I feel completely handicapped honestly, some advice would be appreciated.

@Lars2 @AverageMoroccan @97baHater

 

[Swarthy Knight]

Stop being a bihh and just hit her up nigga

 

[ItsSoGymMaxx]

Dnr, take stimulants and talk to her.

 

[GynoGladiator]

Start with following her socials and little by little ease into it also look at enchanted_elixir's signs of attraction thread

 

[ogur4ek]

Start with following her socials and little by little ease into it also look at enchanted_elixir's signs of attraction thread

yes just go easy little by little while shes getting used by chads lol cuck mentality

 

[GynoGladiator]

yes just go easy little by little while shes getting used by chads lol cuck mentality

Read the last line of what u just said and tell me that’s not ironic

 

[elkkkk]

Shes cute in my opinion, High MTB, but a very appealing high E feminine face. She's also slightly chubby, and has a nice chubster build (which I am into), shes (I believe) Mulatto, though not the ghetto type what so ever.

I don't really think she likes me, but I don't think the prospect of her liking me is impossible since I've caught her staring at me when I was sitting in front of her in my ELA class twice, though it could have been very random since she doesn't really talk to too many people and just sits on her phone (with the exception of a white girl occasionally who she talks to).

I really am trying to muster up the courage to go talk to her, but my brain is already rotted with the black-pill, and I know if I try and talk to her but get blown away, thats gonna end up being absolutely nuclear for my self esteem for the last few years of my teens.

BUT, I also feel like I am gonna hate myself if I don't go for it. It would be easy for my future-self to look back at in retrospect and think am a pussy, but fuck man, I don't know what to do. If I try to talk to her and she brushes me off, she will just chat shit about me to her friends and it will be GGs for my already non existent status in the school I go to since I am new.

I feel completely handicapped honestly, some advice would be appreciated.

@Lars2 @AverageMoroccan @97baHater

just take propanolol and be low inhi

 

[acm]

dude please, just talk to her or you'll be sitting in a void of "what if" possibilities forever. there's been so many times where I wanted to talk to this girl i liked but fumbled the chance by me not getting the courage too and I lowk hate myself for it. I'm 100% sure there is commom ground/ context you can use to start small talk like "hey u did homework?" or something. (and what i mean by common context is an excuse to talk to her and not blurt out conversation out of nowhere so it seems natural)

as for mentality and courage, just don't overthink it. just say what you're gonna say and then let the conversation flow. don't try to map out what ur gonna say and just let the convo ride (like i said) otherwise you'll overthink it and end up awkward. if it helps, take deep breaths before you speak to her and calm yourself down. try to remember that she's human too. she isn't some hyperjudgmental alien who's gonna analyse every word you say and decide

"FutureExoticChad is an awkward fucker i hate him and will never ever date him"

its just two humans talking, dont overthink nor stress it. please don't ever put her on a pedestal or project any type of fantasies you believe you have around her. (watch 500 days of summer for that) because it never ends well. at the end of the day: you're both human with flesh, blood and a brain. So just remember not to be scared or overthink (i get it, easier said than done) but you eventually need to just break down the barrier of fear and like Shia lebeouf said "JUST DO IT!!".

Btw if you do continue on this with trying to get with her. u gotta be persistent. don't be clingy, overly attached and spam her but u gotta actively put effort to try and bridge the gate from classmates>friends>dating

Deep breaths and you got this bro

 

[acm]

why'd you tag @Lars2 btw?, is he good with stuff like this?

I may need some advice too

 

[Lars2]

why'd you tag @Lars2 btw?, is he good with stuff like this?

I may need some advice too

My secret to social max is just treat them like friends already even strangers

Listen to them aswell

 

[acm]

My secret to social max is just treat them like friends already even strangers

Listen to them aswell

nah I got a weird situation out lol I think i fucked it with my chances with a girl.u mind if I pm it? and also thoguhts and any add ons to my advice to our friend over here?

dude please, just talk to her or you'll be sitting in a void of "what if" possibilities forever. there's been so many times where I wanted to talk to this girl i liked but fumbled the chance by me not getting the courage too and I lowk hate myself for it. I'm 100% sure there is commom ground/ context you can use to start small talk like "hey u did homework?" or something. (and what i mean by common context is an excuse to talk to her and not blurt out conversation out of nowhere so it seems natural)

as for mentality and courage, just don't overthink it. just say what you're gonna say and then let the conversation flow. don't try to map out what ur gonna say and just let the convo ride (like i said) otherwise you'll overthink it and end up awkward. if it helps, take deep breaths before you speak to her and calm yourself down. try to remember that she's human too. she isn't some hyperjudgmental alien who's gonna analyse every word you say and decide

"FutureExoticChad is an awkward fucker i hate him and will never ever date him"

its just two humans talking, dont overthink nor stress it. please don't ever put her on a pedestal or project any type of fantasies you believe you have around her. (watch 500 days of summer for that) because it never ends well. at the end of the day: you're both human with flesh, blood and a brain. So just remember not to be scared or overthink (i get it, easier said than done) but you eventually need to just break down the barrier of fear and like Shia lebeouf said "JUST DO IT!!".

Btw if you do continue on this with trying to get with her. u gotta be persistent. don't be clingy, overly attached and spam her but u gotta actively put effort to try and bridge the gate from classmates>friends>dating

Deep breaths and you got this bro

 

[takethewhitepill]

Take a shit ton of preworkout and make sure to shake her hand and tell her you are nervous because she is so pretty you just want her to take a bite of you. Yum! Tell her you have been learning Morse code and when she asks more about it like a stupid bitch start farting out her name. It's personalised so it has more appeal, she will feel special and start sucking your dick in class