
zerotohero
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I’m stuck in a weird in-between phase after a breakup that wasn’t clearly defined. We stopped talking abruptly without agreeing on a real pause or closure which has left me feeling lost and confused. It’s like I’m waiting for something that’s never been promised.
She recently changed her social media. She unarchived old photos, updated her bio with a more confident and somewhat provocative vibe, and switched to a sexier profile picture. It feels like she’s moving on or at least signaling some kind of change which triggers intense jealousy and anxiety in me. I keep imagining that she might be with someone else already and it’s eating me alive.
I’m currently away from home and struggling to enjoy where I am because of these thoughts and insecurities. I want to break free from this mental trap and regain control of my emotions but it’s harder than I expected.
Has anyone dealt with a limbo like this? How do you process the lack of clear closure and handle jealousy over what ifs especially when the other person seems to be moving on publicly? Any advice on regaining mental peace and moving forward without obsessing?
Thanks in advance.
She recently changed her social media. She unarchived old photos, updated her bio with a more confident and somewhat provocative vibe, and switched to a sexier profile picture. It feels like she’s moving on or at least signaling some kind of change which triggers intense jealousy and anxiety in me. I keep imagining that she might be with someone else already and it’s eating me alive.
I’m currently away from home and struggling to enjoy where I am because of these thoughts and insecurities. I want to break free from this mental trap and regain control of my emotions but it’s harder than I expected.
Has anyone dealt with a limbo like this? How do you process the lack of clear closure and handle jealousy over what ifs especially when the other person seems to be moving on publicly? Any advice on regaining mental peace and moving forward without obsessing?
Thanks in advance.