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Most people on this website don't get girls because they try way to hard. Genuinely just don't be a cynical loser. Be yourself and be happy or fun, if you're not either happy or fun just fake it til you make it. You don't even have to be that good looking. You probably don't get girls because you're a quiet sad bum who tells themself they can't get girls, if you tell yourself you can't do something it won't happen, if you tell yourself you can you will. If chad does what chad wants then do what you want and people will just think you're a chad.
 
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shut up nigger
 
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Be yourself is not easy when you are a sub5 or have clinically diagnosed aspergers syndrome.
 
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Be yourself is not easy when you are a sub5 or have clinically diagnosed aspergers syndrome.
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Changed your framelet avi
 
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Be yourself is not easy when you are a sub5 or have clinically diagnosed aspergers syndrome.
I can see where you're coming from, when I would be at school I wouldn't really say anything to anyone, but outside of school (in the gym, with my friends, whatever) I would be myself, I wouldn't call myself a good or fun person, I would say I'm honestly annoying asf but if you rock it ppl will fw u for accepting who you are
 
Most people on this website don't get girls because they try way to hard. Genuinely just don't be a cynical loser. Be yourself and be happy or fun, if you're not either happy or fun just fake it til you make it. You don't even have to be that good looking. You probably don't get girls because you're a quiet sad bum who tells themself they can't get girls, if you tell yourself you can't do something it won't happen, if you tell yourself you can you will. If chad does what chad wants then do what you want and people will just think you're a chad.
this forums full of mentally retarded victims. yes autism is something that they can struggle with and its a wide spectrum in how it effects people but if they are above 5'7 and hltn+ its possible to get a gal. one thing ive done is focus more on the present rather than the future and past with people i conversate with and its leaded to closer relationships with both guys and a girl im talking to! if they are willing to date anyone its so hard to be single. especially in the education system. yes dating websites are harder bc of how superficial they are but cold approaching on some red pill shit MIGHT work. ive not personally tried it
 
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this forums full of mentally retarded victims. yes autism is something that they can struggle with and its a wide spectrum in how it effects people but if they are above 5'7 and hltn+ its possible to get a gal. one thing ive done is focus more on the present rather than the future and past with people i conversate with and its leaded to closer relationships with both guys and a girl im talking to! if they are willing to date anyone its so hard to be single. especially in the education system. yes dating websites are harder bc of how superficial they are but cold approaching on some red pill shit MIGHT work. ive not personally tried it
I agree and I'm happy for you bro. The past is a memory, the future is imagination, the only thing that matters and exists is this moment.
 
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I can see where you're coming from, when I would be at school I wouldn't really say anything to anyone, but outside of school (in the gym, with my friends, whatever) I would be myself, I wouldn't call myself a good or fun person, I would say I'm honestly annoying asf but if you rock it ppl will fw u for accepting who you are
What if you transferred to a new place, and now for some reason all that ability is gone? You simply cant engage with others, you cant even be annoying.
 
What if you transferred to a new place, and now for some reason all that ability is gone? You simply cant engage with others, you cant even be annoying.
If you're describing numbness or depression I have felt and had them both. You can't keep making excuses. If you can't engage just be happy with yourself. You and God are the only people who will stick with you your entire life no matter what. So focus on making yourself happy, not entertaining others.
 
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What if you transferred to a new place, and now for some reason all that ability is gone? You simply cant engage with others, you cant even be annoying.
"what if". like in the education system its forced friendships but some can definently become real friends you want to experience life with. same with the gym. a lot of people have common interests man its just about how much youre willing to put in
 
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"what if". like in the education system its forced friendships but some can definently become real friends you want to experience life with. same with the gym. a lot of people have common interests man its just about how much youre willing to put in
I fw ur mentality bro (y)
 
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"Change your framelet avi" you made him go from subhuman to sub3, I prefer truecel > fakecels
am i missing the joke? sub3 is subhuman
 
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"what if". like in the education system its forced friendships but some can definently become real friends you want to experience life with. same with the gym. a lot of people have common interests man its just about how much youre willing to put in
Sometimes you lose the ability to communicate. That's what happened with me when transfering, I simply didn't know what topics I could talk with others.
 
If you're describing numbness or depression I have felt and had them both. You can't keep making excuses.
Your anecdote is not sufficient proof
If you can't engage just be happy with yourself. You and God are the only people who will stick with you your entire life no matter what.
Impossible to be happy with yourself and not engage yourself with others, and if you are happy, it would be more with peers
 
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:heart: ty man. i just dont understand people who dont actively try to change. mentally or physically
Accepting "defeat" is the worst thing you can do (y)(y)(y), everything is a choice even if someone puts a gun to my head and tells me to do something, I choose wether or not I do it.
 
Your anecdote is not sufficient proof

Impossible to be happy with yourself and not engage yourself with others, and if you are happy, it would be more with peers
Not true, God is all good and the source of all Good, he is all you need. Also if I and many others can do it why can't you? I'll tell you why you can't... it's because you tell yourself you can't
 
Sometimes you lose the ability to communicate. That's what happened with me when transfering, I simply didn't know what topics I could talk with others.
what ive noticed and done is people just randomly spit shit out. e.g. anime/gym/cars. hell ive seen people relate just off their addictions and what they smoke. they are great conversation starters, yeah its quite awkward at start but once u get at it the conversation can flow naturally. especially with a more extroverted person
 
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Not true, God is all good and the source of all Good, he is all you need. Also if I and many others can do it why can't you? I'll tell you why you can't... it's because you tell yourself you can't
i feel like mentioning god has no value. now youre getting into a religious debate which isnt what this is about
 
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what ive noticed and done is people just randomly spit shit out. e.g. anime/gym/cars. hell ive seen people relate just off their addictions and what they smoke. they are great conversation starters, yeah its quite awkward at start but once u get at it the conversation can flow naturally. especially with a more extroverted person
Impossible with me. People here could not care less, the only reason why my old school I was an extrovert was because those people actually approach you as well and gaf about what you say. Here, you're a spec of dust until you get good grades and then they dont even become friends they just use you
 
Impossible with me. People here could not care less, the only reason why my old school I was an extrovert was because those people actually approach you as well and gaf about what you say. Here, you're a spec of dust until you get good grades and then they dont even become friends they just use you
iqcels? damn. i go to the best college in my city and im arguably the worst in my course and im friends with a fair chunk of people. it is pretty luck based man sorry to hear it.
 
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i feel like mentioning god has no value. now youre getting into a religious debate which isnt what this is about
I try to avoid God on this website of anywhere because the moment I bring it up everyone disregards what I say, but when talking about happiness it's kind of unavoidable
 
Impossible with me. People here could not care less, the only reason why my old school I was an extrovert was because those people actually approach you as well and gaf about what you say. Here, you're a spec of dust until you get good grades and then they dont even become friends they just use you
talk to people outside of school? Take control of your life you're just rolling over and dying
 
Not true, God is all good and the source of all Good, he is all you need.
I cannot believe in God. In Islam, there is something called "Imaan" which stands for "belief in god" hence my Imaan is weak and I simply don't have a connection to him. Worse still, my attention issues make it impossible to keep up with his demands.
so if I and many others can do it why can't you? I
Nuance is crucial.

Many people can slay.

But will you tell the kid with crouzon syndrome it's not over and he can slay?
I'll tell you why you can't... it's because you tell yourself you can't
I've come to that conclusion.

If I tell myself I cant, that's yet another barrier to break. If I cant beat my mind, is there anything I can even do?
 
I try to avoid God on this website of anywhere because the moment I bring it up everyone disregards what I say, but when talking about happiness it's kind of unavoidable
im a non religious person. for a small moment in my child hood i was partially roman catholic and yes it was forced but i believe mentioning religion and how it correlates with happiness has no reason. there are so many external factors that relate into it, i wont disrespect you for your beliefs however yea just avoiding it here is the best thing to do ❤️
 
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I cannot believe in God. In Islam, there is something called "Imaan" which stands for "belief in god" hence my Imaan is weak and I simply don't have a connection to him. Worse still, my attention issues make it impossible to keep up with his demands.

Nuance is crucial.

Many people can slay.

But will you tell the kid with crouzon syndrome it's not over and he can slay?

I've come to that conclusion.

If I tell myself I cant, that's yet another barrier to break. If I cant beat my mind, is there anything I can even do?
Yes you choose to think and act this way as hard as it is to believe that, also then get off this forsaken website and go read the bible or go to church, this place is a fucking wasteland. God doesn't demand, He has things such as commandments because He loves you and they are what's best for you, He's not trying to be cosmic buzzkill. He loves you more than you can comprehend, choosing Him and trying your best is more than enough for Him.
 
talk to people outside of school? Take control of your life you're just rolling over and dying
its definently harder. ive struggled myself personally. depends on what he does. picking up a sport could possibly help it just depends. so could the gym its just such a luck based thing its difficult
 
its definently harder. ive struggled myself personally. depends on what he does. picking up a sport could possibly help it just depends. so could the gym its just such a luck based thing its difficult
Chances are never zero if it's luck keep rolling the dice. High reward no risk when trying to make friends, you could embarass yourself but does that really have any meaning? Who gaf if you look stupid to someone.
 
iqcels? damn. i go to the best college in my city and im arguably the worst in my course and im friends with a fair chunk of people. it is pretty luck based man sorry to hear it.
There is no way around it.

I'm not an iqcel either way. I'm not ugly too, nor am I short, framelet, fatcel. I'm good at every metric. Except personality. I can show a few reasons why.

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Most people on this website don't get girls because they try way too hard. Genuinely just don't be a cynical loser. Be yourself and be happy or fun, if you're not either happy or fun just fake it til you make it. You don't even have to be that good looking. You probably don't get girls because you're a quiet sad bum who tells themself they can't get girls, if you tell yourself you can't do something it won't happen, if you tell yourself you can you will. If chad does what chad wants then do what you want and people will just think you're a chad.
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There is no way around it.

I'm not an iqcel either way. I'm not ugly too, nor am I short, framelet, fatcel. I'm good at every metric. Except personality. I can show a few reasons why.

Peep my old signature
If you wanna improve personality get off social media ESPECIALLY this place and try meditating/praying. Maybe read some stuff like philosophy books.
 
Yes you choose to think and act this way as hard as it is to believe that,
Even if it was delusion, it is impossible to escape. Especially since mental health is not cared as much in this country. Additionally, you keep assuming as if i'm locking myself in a cage, you dont know if I actually am, which is impossible for me to prove, epistemologically.
Yes you choose to think and act this way as hard as it is to believe that, also then get off this forsaken website and go read the bible or go to church, this place is a fucking wasteland. God doesn't demand, He has things such as commandments because He loves you and they are what's best for you, He's not trying to be cosmic buzzkill. He loves you more than you can comprehend, choosing Him and trying your best is more than enough for Him.
This place has like-minded individuals, I can't abbandon it. I can't read anything. I am not a reader, and I cant read a bible. Neither can I comprehend his "love" which is infinite, which I feel apathy towards, I can't conceptualize infinity. His love does not make me feel special, as if he doesn't love 8 billion people, neither can I ever feel anything towards him.

I wish I was a theist, I cannot come by doing it. Biggest thing i've done is watch a few david wood videos of him shitting on islam. Since I was born muslim [in reality I wasnt, we were just calling ourselves muslim haha] and I learned that if you're born into something, you're gonna bias it till the rest of your life, which I tried to rid off by watching anti-islamic content to distance myself from that egrigious religion. That is irrelevant regarless
 
If you wanna improve personality get off social media ESPECIALLY this place and try meditating/praying. Maybe read some stuff like philosophy books.
Impossible for me, simple. Impossible, impossibly impossible
 
Even if it was delusion, it is impossible to escape. Especially since mental health is not cared as much in this country. Additionally, you keep assuming as if i'm locking myself in a cage, you dont know if I actually am, which is impossible for me to prove, epistemologically.

This place has like-minded individuals, I can't abbandon it. I can't read anything. I am not a reader, and I cant read a bible. Neither can I comprehend his "love" which is infinite, which I feel apathy towards, I can't conceptualize infinity. His love does not make me feel special, as if he doesn't love 8 billion people, neither can I ever feel anything towards him.

I wish I was a theist, I cannot come by doing it. Biggest thing i've done is watch a few david wood videos of him shitting on islam. Since I was born muslim [in reality I wasnt, we were just calling ourselves muslim haha] and I learned that if you're born into something, you're gonna bias it till the rest of your life, which I tried to rid off by watching anti-islamic content to distance myself from that egrigious religion. That is irrelevant regarless
I wasn't born into Catholicism, yet here I am
 
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