kenibba
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this is what ive learned after being with a girl with borderline so it might be different for a girl whos neurotypical i am not sure this is just my experience
1. they love when you act like you are indifferent/dont care, especially over text, that said they will pretend they hate it & will try to guilt trip you in some sort of way, ignore it & it will be as if nothing had even happened and she will most likely just become even more obsessed.
2. dont worry about losing her. at first it (might) be hard but not giving a fuck about what you say and not caring about if it offends her turns her on heavily. She should be the one worried about losing you, not the other way around and if she actually finds you attractive she wont leave you because you said something she didnt like, if she does leave you for that then she didnt like you in the first place.
3. if you post on social media, dont stop posting once you start dating her and let her know about your account, that way she'll stalk your account, reposts, and especially if you have girls in your comment section, it makes her feel like shes just another option furthering the idea in her mind that she could lose you.
this might be a water post but i was really retarded in the beginning acting kinda soy and shit trying to please her and when i did that it was like she didnt even care of my existence, but i noticed the more indifferent i was, the more obsessed she would become.
1. they love when you act like you are indifferent/dont care, especially over text, that said they will pretend they hate it & will try to guilt trip you in some sort of way, ignore it & it will be as if nothing had even happened and she will most likely just become even more obsessed.
2. dont worry about losing her. at first it (might) be hard but not giving a fuck about what you say and not caring about if it offends her turns her on heavily. She should be the one worried about losing you, not the other way around and if she actually finds you attractive she wont leave you because you said something she didnt like, if she does leave you for that then she didnt like you in the first place.
3. if you post on social media, dont stop posting once you start dating her and let her know about your account, that way she'll stalk your account, reposts, and especially if you have girls in your comment section, it makes her feel like shes just another option furthering the idea in her mind that she could lose you.
this might be a water post but i was really retarded in the beginning acting kinda soy and shit trying to please her and when i did that it was like she didnt even care of my existence, but i noticed the more indifferent i was, the more obsessed she would become.
