surgery or basic lifestyle needs?

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When I was very young my parents set up a fund for me and invested quite a lot of money into it for the future. I gained access to it recently with ability to withdraw and add money into it. My parents don't want me to remove anything yet until I am living by myself. This is because they intend for the money in there to help me get started with rent, groceries, bills etc. and they will cover my necessities when I'm living with them. Over the years the investment in the funds grew and in total there is around 17K in US dollars and will probably go to around 20K by the time I move out. I could live a pretty shitty lifestyle and go without luxuries for a bit if I immediately get surgery (I'm not sure what yet but some is definitely needed). Or I could wait it out a bit and save up money to live comfortably and get surgery but for it to happen in my mid 20s. Instead of teens or 20s. I need start thinking about this soon because I'm thinking of ways to set up my future for my looks.

No TLDR sorry
 
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Bro ngl do smth smart with your money dont immediately blow it on surgery, you've got 20k you can do wtv with
 
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Also either way wait for early or mid 20s for surgery because before that and even a bit during that time your bones are still remodeling and growing and there's no way of knowing exactly how surgery will affect that
 
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if you need work done, id get a part time job to try finance at least a portion by your own income, and then you could consider taking a few grands from the fund (less than half, maybe a third or less)

Dont blow it all on surgeries, your parents would prob be very disappointed, not worth it
 
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surgery is basic life need
 
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Also either way wait for early or mid 20s for surgery because before that and even a bit during that time your bones are still remodeling and growing and there's no way of knowing exactly how surgery will affect that
Don't want to wait to long when I'm outta my prime tho
 
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if you need work done, id get a part time job to try finance at least a portion by your own income, and then you could consider taking a few grands from the fund (less than half, maybe a third or less)

Dont blow it all on surgeries, your parents would prob be very disappointed, not worth it
good idea just need to find time to work
 
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When I was very young my parents set up a fund for me and invested quite a lot of money into it for the future. I gained access to it recently with ability to withdraw and add money into it. My parents don't want me to remove anything yet until I am living by myself. This is because they intend for the money in there to help me get started with rent, groceries, bills etc. and they will cover my necessities when I'm living with them. Over the years the investment in the funds grew and in total there is around 17K in US dollars and will probably go to around 20K by the time I move out. I could live a pretty shitty lifestyle and go without luxuries for a bit if I immediately get surgery (I'm not sure what yet but some is definitely needed). Or I could wait it out a bit and save up money to live comfortably and get surgery but for it to happen in my mid 20s. Instead of teens or 20s. I need start thinking about this soon because I'm thinking of ways to set up my future for my looks.

No TLDR sorry
Shitt i meann
You got any cheap surgeries in mind? Id honestly get fillers until i get a stable job then id keep some for trust funds and get some surgeries
 
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@SvtvnTr14d @Saint @Fridx @Feuerwehr @nsk4ll
 
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When I was very young my parents set up a fund for me and invested quite a lot of money into it for the future. I gained access to it recently with ability to withdraw and add money into it. My parents don't want me to remove anything yet until I am living by myself. This is because they intend for the money in there to help me get started with rent, groceries, bills etc. and they will cover my necessities when I'm living with them. Over the years the investment in the funds grew and in total there is around 17K in US dollars and will probably go to around 20K by the time I move out. I could live a pretty shitty lifestyle and go without luxuries for a bit if I immediately get surgery (I'm not sure what yet but some is definitely needed). Or I could wait it out a bit and save up money to live comfortably and get surgery but for it to happen in my mid 20s. Instead of teens or 20s. I need start thinking about this soon because I'm thinking of ways to set up my future for my looks.

No TLDR sorry
surgery asap
 
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Shitt i meann
You got any cheap surgeries in mind? Id honestly get fillers until i get a stable job then id keep some for trust funds and get some surgeries
Fillers aren't a bad idea although Im not to aware of the risks of migration and shit. I don't know any surgeries yet I haven't done my research yet since I got 2 years until I will book + plan them if I do get them young
 
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When I was very young my parents set up a fund for me and invested quite a lot of money into it for the future. I gained access to it recently with ability to withdraw and add money into it. My parents don't want me to remove anything yet until I am living by myself. This is because they intend for the money in there to help me get started with rent, groceries, bills etc. and they will cover my necessities when I'm living with them. Over the years the investment in the funds grew and in total there is around 17K in US dollars and will probably go to around 20K by the time I move out. I could live a pretty shitty lifestyle and go without luxuries for a bit if I immediately get surgery (I'm not sure what yet but some is definitely needed). Or I could wait it out a bit and save up money to live comfortably and get surgery but for it to happen in my mid 20s. Instead of teens or 20s. I need start thinking about this soon because I'm thinking of ways to set up my future for my looks.

No TLDR sorry
i think divide it in half and become a wagecuck for the surgery, that way u wont have to start from zero for surgery but also u will not starve all day and chew on bread all day
 
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Double the money with investments and crypto shit:feelshah:
 
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When I was very young my parents set up a fund for me and invested quite a lot of money into it for the future. I gained access to it recently with ability to withdraw and add money into it. My parents don't want me to remove anything yet until I am living by myself. This is because they intend for the money in there to help me get started with rent, groceries, bills etc. and they will cover my necessities when I'm living with them. Over the years the investment in the funds grew and in total there is around 17K in US dollars and will probably go to around 20K by the time I move out. I could live a pretty shitty lifestyle and go without luxuries for a bit if I immediately get surgery (I'm not sure what yet but some is definitely needed). Or I could wait it out a bit and save up money to live comfortably and get surgery but for it to happen in my mid 20s. Instead of teens or 20s. I need start thinking about this soon because I'm thinking of ways to set up my future for my looks.

No TLDR sorry
what surgery u planning on getting? just make sure it's actually life changing and worth it
 
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if ur indian dont bother with surgeries
 
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Surgery 100% - I have a quarter of a million in investments and I’m still suicidal and directionless because of my incel face.

You need fix the foundation before you can start to build.
 

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