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Is it me or is it a really bad idea to have a kid with a woman you are dating/married to.
Dont like 50% of marriages end in divorce and i guarantee 90% are unhappy
Basically your gonna have a kid and then shes gonna cheat on you and ruin the family.
Then u have to share ur kid. you cant move away from ur ex. u have to drop ur kid off at ur ex's house every other weekend and see her new bfs Range rover parked on the front drive knowing he mogs you to death and hes banging ur girl while ur kid is in the next room.
Basically 50+% chance of the worst possible situation in life happening.
Woudlnt it just be a better idea to get a surrogate mother. That way your kid gets the best genes + its your kid, your kid is only yours, you dont have to share.
Lets say you do this at about 30. By then everyone will be single moms anyways, so you can just merge families with another single mom. you can be the dad to their kid and she can be the mom to your kid
and if u break up u just bring ur kid with you and no sharing and u never have to see ur ex again?
Is it me or is this a much better idea?
Dont like 50% of marriages end in divorce and i guarantee 90% are unhappy
Basically your gonna have a kid and then shes gonna cheat on you and ruin the family.
Then u have to share ur kid. you cant move away from ur ex. u have to drop ur kid off at ur ex's house every other weekend and see her new bfs Range rover parked on the front drive knowing he mogs you to death and hes banging ur girl while ur kid is in the next room.
Basically 50+% chance of the worst possible situation in life happening.
Woudlnt it just be a better idea to get a surrogate mother. That way your kid gets the best genes + its your kid, your kid is only yours, you dont have to share.
Lets say you do this at about 30. By then everyone will be single moms anyways, so you can just merge families with another single mom. you can be the dad to their kid and she can be the mom to your kid
and if u break up u just bring ur kid with you and no sharing and u never have to see ur ex again?
Is it me or is this a much better idea?