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So, I never went to clubs or partied much in my life. That was because my friends didn't either and I felt like I wouldn't get treated too well and it would just be a pretty blackpilling event as a whole.
About 1 month ago that changed I'm going out more now.
Random advice (not sure if ideal but it's what I've been doing):
- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
- wear wide pants you can dance ain comfortably + a tight slim fit T-shirt (if you're built/ lean)
- wear boots / something that makes you look taller
- move. Don't autistically stand in the corner. Just dance. I'm always completely sober and dancing.
- if you get an IOI, shoot your shot if you think she's gl. Don't wait for confirmation. Don't overthink it. You wait for confirmation and an other guy is on it already.
- homegirls of yours are your best wingman. They can go up to girls and ask what they think about you and set you up.
Reflection on where I'm standing:
I want to save you the cringy stories no one wants to hear anyways.
- I'm at a point where every time I'm out, I get approached and IOIs.
- I also never approach or make moves myself. I only engage with women when they actually come up to me and talk to me.
- This is a result of me not being 100% sure yet if my read of situations is accurate. Also I just recently learned that I'm apparently attractive to many women.
- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most potential action.
- Also you can just negatively and not positively select that way. Guys who are decently GL and approach win more often than not. Never witnessed any hard rejections yet.
- on a victim weight cut rn. Glycogen storages depleted. Looking smaller. I'd rather look a bit bigger at the club. Didn't eat many carbs regardless to not get bloated. Maybe this isn't the best option though. Can you get fuller muscles without filling your face up with water as well?
Tagging people who might be more experienced and have useful input:
@chadisbeingmade @Dr. Mog @edodalic29 @Tyov
About 1 month ago that changed I'm going out more now.
Random advice (not sure if ideal but it's what I've been doing):
- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
- wear wide pants you can dance ain comfortably + a tight slim fit T-shirt (if you're built/ lean)
- wear boots / something that makes you look taller
- move. Don't autistically stand in the corner. Just dance. I'm always completely sober and dancing.
- if you get an IOI, shoot your shot if you think she's gl. Don't wait for confirmation. Don't overthink it. You wait for confirmation and an other guy is on it already.
- homegirls of yours are your best wingman. They can go up to girls and ask what they think about you and set you up.
Reflection on where I'm standing:
I want to save you the cringy stories no one wants to hear anyways.
- I'm at a point where every time I'm out, I get approached and IOIs.
- I also never approach or make moves myself. I only engage with women when they actually come up to me and talk to me.
- This is a result of me not being 100% sure yet if my read of situations is accurate. Also I just recently learned that I'm apparently attractive to many women.
- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most potential action.
- Also you can just negatively and not positively select that way. Guys who are decently GL and approach win more often than not. Never witnessed any hard rejections yet.
- on a victim weight cut rn. Glycogen storages depleted. Looking smaller. I'd rather look a bit bigger at the club. Didn't eat many carbs regardless to not get bloated. Maybe this isn't the best option though. Can you get fuller muscles without filling your face up with water as well?
Tagging people who might be more experienced and have useful input:
@chadisbeingmade @Dr. Mog @edodalic29 @Tyov



