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So, I never went to clubs or partied much in my life. That was because my friends didn't either and I felt like I wouldn't get treated too well and it would just be a pretty blackpilling event as a whole.

About 1 month ago that changed I'm going out more now.

Random advice (not sure if ideal but it's what I've been doing):
- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
- wear wide pants you can dance ain comfortably + a tight slim fit T-shirt (if you're built/ lean)
- wear boots / something that makes you look taller
- move. Don't autistically stand in the corner. Just dance. I'm always completely sober and dancing.
- if you get an IOI, shoot your shot if you think she's gl. Don't wait for confirmation. Don't overthink it. You wait for confirmation and an other guy is on it already.
- homegirls of yours are your best wingman. They can go up to girls and ask what they think about you and set you up.

Reflection on where I'm standing:
I want to save you the cringy stories no one wants to hear anyways.

- I'm at a point where every time I'm out, I get approached and IOIs.
- I also never approach or make moves myself. I only engage with women when they actually come up to me and talk to me.
- This is a result of me not being 100% sure yet if my read of situations is accurate. Also I just recently learned that I'm apparently attractive to many women.
- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most potential action.
- Also you can just negatively and not positively select that way. Guys who are decently GL and approach win more often than not. Never witnessed any hard rejections yet.
- on a victim weight cut rn. Glycogen storages depleted. Looking smaller. I'd rather look a bit bigger at the club. Didn't eat many carbs regardless to not get bloated. Maybe this isn't the best option though. Can you get fuller muscles without filling your face up with water as well?


Tagging people who might be more experienced and have useful input:
@chadisbeingmade @Dr. Mog @edodalic29 @Tyov
 
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So, I never went to clubs or partied much in my life. That was because my friends didn't either and I felt like I wouldn't get treated too well and it would just be a pretty blackpilling event as a whole.

About 1 month ago that changed I'm going out more now.

Random advice (not sure if ideal but it's what I've been doing):
- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
- wear wide pants you can dance ain comfortably + a tight slim fit T-shirt (if you're built/ lean)
- wear boots / something that makes you look taller
- move. Don't autistically stand in the corner. Just dance. I'm always completely sober and dancing.
- if you get an IOI, shoot your shot if you think she's gl. Don't wait for confirmation. Don't overthink it. You wait for confirmation and an other guy is on it already.
- homegirls of yours are your best wingman. They can go up to girls and ask what they think about you and set you up.

Reflection on where I'm standing:
I want to save you the cringy stories no one wants to hear anyways.

- I'm at a point where every time I'm out, I get approached and IOIs.
- I also never approach or make moves myself. I only engage with women when they actually come up to me and talk to me.
- This is a result of me not being 100% sure yet if my read of situations is accurate. Also I just recently learned that I'm apparently attractive to many women.
- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most potential action.
- Also you can just negatively and not positively select that way. Guys who are decently GL and approach win more often than not. Never witnessed any hard rejections yet.
- on a victim weight cut rn. Glycogen storages depleted. Looking smaller. I'd rather look a bit bigger at the club. Didn't eat many carbs regardless to not get bloated. Maybe this isn't the best option though. Can you get fuller muscles without filling your face up with water as well?


Tagging people who might be more experienced and have useful input:
@chadisbeingmade @Dr. Mog @edodalic29 @Tyov
All decent advice, wide pants and a slim wife beater is the best combo IMO.
 
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Keep writing essays
 
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Keep writing essays
Myself and other users on our way to a party
Lookism pua
 
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I've stopped going to those kind of parties and prefer short gathering. I'm over that phase now
 
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All decent advice, wide pants and a slim wife beater is the best combo IMO.
Imo slim fit T-shirt mogs wife beater because it's more universal.
In a wife beater you'll never look high class and depending on the setting, you'll negatively stick out.
A form fitting T-shirt with some silver jewelry is better for that reason. I like the one from cos.
 
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So, I never went to clubs or partied much in my life. That was because my friends didn't either and I felt like I wouldn't get treated too well and it would just be a pretty blackpilling event as a whole.

About 1 month ago that changed I'm going out more now.

Random advice (not sure if ideal but it's what I've been doing):
- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
- wear wide pants you can dance ain comfortably + a tight slim fit T-shirt (if you're built/ lean)
- wear boots / something that makes you look taller
- move. Don't autistically stand in the corner. Just dance. I'm always completely sober and dancing.
- if you get an IOI, shoot your shot if you think she's gl. Don't wait for confirmation. Don't overthink it. You wait for confirmation and an other guy is on it already.
- homegirls of yours are your best wingman. They can go up to girls and ask what they think about you and set you up.

Reflection on where I'm standing:
I want to save you the cringy stories no one wants to hear anyways.

- I'm at a point where every time I'm out, I get approached and IOIs.
- I also never approach or make moves myself. I only engage with women when they actually come up to me and talk to me.
- This is a result of me not being 100% sure yet if my read of situations is accurate. Also I just recently learned that I'm apparently attractive to many women.
- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most potential action.
- Also you can just negatively and not positively select that way. Guys who are decently GL and approach win more often than not. Never witnessed any hard rejections yet.
- on a victim weight cut rn. Glycogen storages depleted. Looking smaller. I'd rather look a bit bigger at the club. Didn't eat many carbs regardless to not get bloated. Maybe this isn't the best option though. Can you get fuller muscles without filling your face up with water as well?


Tagging people who might be more experienced and have useful input:
@chadisbeingmade @Dr. Mog @edodalic29 @Tyov
what if im a fat fuck incel who gets invited no where
 
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what if im a fat fuck incel who gets invited no where
Then lose weight and change your life bro. It's in your hands. Reta, cagrilintid leave you with no excuses.


@@Tyov tagged you incorrectly in the OP.

@SlayerJonas
 
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what if im a fat fuck incel who gets invited no where
Bro I was in your exact shoes when I first found the BP back in 2023.

If youโ€™re not lean, nothing else matters. Thatโ€™s the whole secret everyone dances around.

I was 94kg of pure fat in high school. By uni I got to 94kg lean running whatever it took โ€” test, var, mast, winstrol, RAD-140, clen, cardarine, even Reta. Literally everything in my power.

Life doesnโ€™t change until your bodyfat drops. No methods or advice here will change that get lean asap.

When I was fat, girls wouldnโ€™t even follow me back when I asked for lecture notes.
Now theyโ€™re the ones DMโ€™ing me
Get lean first. Everything else comes after brah ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ
 

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All decent advice, wide pants and a slim wife beater is the best combo IMO.
baggy pants so i can hide the 12 inch shoe lifts then slutty tank ๐Ÿ”ฑ
 
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Bro I was in your exact shoes when I first found the BP back in 2023.

If youโ€™re not lean, nothing else matters. Thatโ€™s the whole secret everyone dances around.

I was 94kg of pure fat in high school. By uni I got to 94kg lean running whatever it took โ€” test, var, mast, winstrol, RAD-140, clen, cardarine, even Reta. Literally everything in my power.

Life doesnโ€™t change until your bodyfat drops. No methods or advice here will change that get lean asap.

When I was fat, girls wouldnโ€™t even follow me back when I asked for lecture notes.
Now theyโ€™re the ones DMโ€™ing me
Get lean first. Everything else comes after brah ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ
I live in the UK so it's hard to source this stuff but thank you for the advice
 
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I live in the UK so it's hard to source this stuff but thank you for the advice
pm me for source if you need. btw thatโ€™s just what I did personally you can easily get lean with safe things like calorie deficit and reta. you donโ€™t need the roids or clen
 
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Bro I was in your exact shoes when I first found the BP back in 2023.

If youโ€™re not lean, nothing else matters. Thatโ€™s the whole secret everyone dances around.

I was 94kg of pure fat in high school. By uni I got to 94kg lean running whatever it took โ€” test, var, mast, winstrol, RAD-140, clen, cardarine, even Reta. Literally everything in my power.

Life doesnโ€™t change until your bodyfat drops. No methods or advice here will change that get lean asap.

When I was fat, girls wouldnโ€™t even follow me back when I asked for lecture notes.
Now theyโ€™re the ones DMโ€™ing me
Get lean first. Everything else comes after brah ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ
I used to be around 16 or 17% bf.
I've been on Reta for 2 weeks now.
I look a lot leaner already, especially facially. I assume a lot of it is water and glycogen loss, some of it surely fat as well.
My face looks quite a lot better, but my body probably a bit worse. Flatter, a bit less vascular in the arms.
I have an ectomorph type frame, so while I'm lucky to have relatively nice proportion, a narrow waist and decent insertions, I look small and skinny pretty easily.

Now I'm wondering if I should push through the cut (I'll do it anyways), get to 10-12% bf and then eat more again. I assume my body will look fuller, but won't my face bloat up again with it? Or will the lower fat percentage be enough to compensate?

I'm ~185cm and probably now in the cut in the low to mid 70kg range. 78kg before. Narrow waist, relatively skinny legs contribute to that. I'm still pretty strong at the gym. But I will obviously not look big in any way like that.

I took RAD140 before as well, now I'm thinking about going on test. But that's a bigger commitment, at least mentally, than SARMS.
Face > body all the way. But I don't want to look like a victim either.

What's your bf%? And are you currently on roids or completely off?
 
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Bro I was in your exact shoes when I first found the BP back in 2023.

If youโ€™re not lean, nothing else matters. Thatโ€™s the whole secret everyone dances around.

I was 94kg of pure fat in high school. By uni I got to 94kg lean running whatever it took โ€” test, var, mast, winstrol, RAD-140, clen, cardarine, even Reta. Literally everything in my power.

Life doesnโ€™t change until your bodyfat drops. No methods or advice here will change that get lean asap.

When I was fat, girls wouldnโ€™t even follow me back when I asked for lecture notes.
Now theyโ€™re the ones DMโ€™ing me
Get lean first. Everything else comes after brah ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ๐Ÿ”ฑ
you're a fucking cornball for including that screenshot ngl
 
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you're a fucking cornball for including that screenshot ngl
when i donโ€™t upload evidence ppl just say larp when i show pics ppl say im a corn ball you canโ€™t catch a break ๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿ˜”
 
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I used to be around 16 or 17% bf.
I've been on Reta for 2 weeks now.
I look a lot leaner already, especially facially. I assume a lot of it is water and glycogen loss, some of it surely fat as well.
My face looks quite a lot better, but my body probably a bit worse. Flatter, a bit less vascular in the arms.
I have an ectomorph type frame, so while I'm lucky to have relatively nice proportion, a narrow waist and decent insertions, I look small and skinny pretty easily.

Now I'm wondering if I should push through the cut (I'll do it anyways), get to 10-12% bf and then eat more again. I assume my body will look fuller, but won't my face bloat up again with it? Or will the lower fat percentage be enough to compensate?

I'm ~185cm and probably now in the cut in the low to mid 70kg range. 78kg before. Narrow waist, relatively skinny legs contribute to that. I'm still pretty strong at the gym. But I will obviously not look big in any way like that.

I took RAD140 before as well, now I'm thinking about going on test. But that's a bigger commitment, at least mentally, than SARMS.
Face > body all the way. But I don't want to look like a victim either.

What's your bf%? And are you currently on roids or completely off?
iโ€™m tweaking of pregab rn iโ€™ll reopened later cant formulate sentence rn ๐Ÿ™
 
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- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most
agree
 
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when i donโ€™t upload evidence ppl just say larp when i show pics ppl say im a corn ball you canโ€™t catch a break ๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿ˜”
its the sped up lana del rey song that makes you a ball of corn and you know that
 
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Bro thinks i give a fuck about fuarking a random diseased hole
 
I took RAD140 before as well, now I'm thinking about going on test. But that's a bigger commitment, at least mentally, than SARMS.
Face > body all the way. But I don't want to look like a victim either.
I blasted all the different samrs in high school, rad lgd, and s4. Ive noticed that since they don't convert to e2, you keep your lean face.

But I believe they were a complete waste of time and actually hindered my process. What's the point of completely shutting down your hpta axis just to restart it and shut it off again? Another thing is the plate closure with pcts like Nolva or clomid. Thankfully, I had a high enough IQ to take aromasin throughout puberty to keep my plates open.

Start test asap.
What's your bf%? And are you currently on roids or completely off?
I would say 15% But I always get more puffy on the blasts because of the higher test dosage. Im curently just on trt 150mg and never plan to hop off other than for kids.
 
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- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
98% of the people here don't talk any women at all u can take ts out tbh
 
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So, I never went to clubs or partied much in my life. That was because my friends didn't either and I felt like I wouldn't get treated too well and it would just be a pretty blackpilling event as a whole.

About 1 month ago that changed I'm going out more now.

Random advice (not sure if ideal but it's what I've been doing):
- go with mixed groups, ideally more women than men
- wear wide pants you can dance ain comfortably + a tight slim fit T-shirt (if you're built/ lean)
- wear boots / something that makes you look taller
- move. Don't autistically stand in the corner. Just dance. I'm always completely sober and dancing.
- if you get an IOI, shoot your shot if you think she's gl. Don't wait for confirmation. Don't overthink it. You wait for confirmation and an other guy is on it already.
- homegirls of yours are your best wingman. They can go up to girls and ask what they think about you and set you up.

Reflection on where I'm standing:
I want to save you the cringy stories no one wants to hear anyways.

- I'm at a point where every time I'm out, I get approached and IOIs.
- I also never approach or make moves myself. I only engage with women when they actually come up to me and talk to me.
- This is a result of me not being 100% sure yet if my read of situations is accurate. Also I just recently learned that I'm apparently attractive to many women.
- The problem with waiting to get approached as a man is, that most women give IOIs at most and don't approach. So you'll miss out on most potential action.
- Also you can just negatively and not positively select that way. Guys who are decently GL and approach win more often than not. Never witnessed any hard rejections yet.
- on a victim weight cut rn. Glycogen storages depleted. Looking smaller. I'd rather look a bit bigger at the club. Didn't eat many carbs regardless to not get bloated. Maybe this isn't the best option though. Can you get fuller muscles without filling your face up with water as well?


Tagging people who might be more experienced and have useful input:
@chadisbeingmade @Dr. Mog @edodalic29 @Tyov
Good thread, this should be water but the forum is full of autists lol
 
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I blasted all the different samrs in high school, rad lgd, and s4. Ive noticed that since they don't convert to e2, you keep your lean face.

But I believe they were a complete waste of time and actually hindered my process. What's the point of completely shutting down your hpta axis just to restart it and shut it off again? Another thing is the plate closure with pcts like Nolva or clomid. Thankfully, I had a high enough IQ to take aromasin throughout puberty to keep my plates open.

Start test asap.

I would say 15% But I always get more puffy on the blasts because of the higher test dosage. Im curently just on trt 150mg and never plan to hop off other than for kids.
higher injection frequency, adjusted AI usage or a different ester might help you.
At what dosage does the bloat start coming in and what ester + frequency do you use? Also are you getting blood work done?
 
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higher injection frequency, adjusted AI usage or a different ester might help you.
At what dosage does the bloat start coming in and what ester + frequency do you use? Also are you getting blood work done?
I do test e mon morning thursday night maybe when i blast again i can try pinning everyday and see if that changes things. i would say after 300mg i start to bloat even when i up the ai.

And yes both of my doctors know im on roids but we are waiting for the mono to go away to access bloodwork.
 
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I do test e mon morning thursday night maybe when i blast again i can try pinning everyday and see if that changes things. i would say after 300mg i start to bloat even when i up the ai.

And yes both of my doctors know im on roids but we are waiting for the mono to go away to access bloodwork.
Good luck man, hope you get better soon. Keep me updated
 
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what fitted shirts do you recc (links would be lit) for going out? thx in advance
 
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Iโ€™ve gone to them hosted them and all ends the same way super low vibrational and gay itโ€™s like a bunch of desperate monkeys in a exhibit jumping around to excitement of other peopleโ€™s company
 
what fitted shirts do you recc (links would be lit) for going out? thx in advance
I wore the Cos slim fit ribbed t shirt.
I think the cut slightly varies from color to color, but I'm very autistic with stuff like that. Dark navy I liked the most.

A friend of mine wears a slim fit T-shirt from HM, looks worse on me but great on him.

It's a trend now anyways, you'll have a lot of opinions from different brands. But you should be at least relatively lean and have some muscles (no bodybuilder build required ofc).

Depending on your overall style, vintage baby ts or slightly cropped ringer tshirts can look good as well.


Random but I think the rule of thirds is applied wrong by many and following the golden ratio looks better when deciding on top vs bottom length / proportions.
 
I wore the Cos slim fit ribbed t shirt.
I think the cut slightly varies from color to color, but I'm very autistic with stuff like that. Dark navy I liked the most.

A friend of mine wears a slim fit T-shirt from HM, looks worse on me but great on him.

It's a trend now anyways, you'll have a lot of opinions from different brands. But you should be at least relatively lean and have some muscles (no bodybuilder build required ofc).

Depending on your overall style, vintage baby ts or slightly cropped ringer tshirts can look good as well.


Random but I think the rule of thirds is applied wrong by many and following the golden ratio looks better when deciding on top vs bottom length / proportions.
thanks for the input! i actually went and bought the zara slim fit tee and the taper/fit is very good, although i do wish it was slightly longer. also, the materials aren't the greatest, but not enough for it to be noticeable especially in a nighttime environment. the cos slim fit shirt u mentioned looks pretty promising. how does it fit on you? for ref im 6'2 185
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