BrendioEEE
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Hello there i need some help
I'm a 21 female in a 6 year long relationship with a 22 male. He was my first and was i his. But from the start i never really valued this very much. I was more interested in having sex with different people, gain experience and have fun with my body while being young. My virginity was literally first come first serve. We had sex at the 3rd date and i stayed because he was and still is a awesome person and i realy love him. But i was still interested in experiencing different kinds of sex, hetero, lesbian, group and so much fetish stuff. But he just wants a monogamous relationship and the experimentation i can do with him is limited. So i can't really have both. We just had a threesome once. For some time i tried for more threesomes but it hasn't really worked. Also he doesn't want any other man to touch me. Because he really loves the thought of being the only one wo ever had something with me. I would not have a problem with monogamy if i had some experience. I at least want to know some of the stuff that's out there. My fear is that i will miss out on stuff and experiencing it in a young body Witch is still flexible and has more endurance is worth so much more in my eyes.
So back to my problem i know if im staying in this relationship as it is now. Im regretting it someday. Even if i try all of of the above mentioned and don't like it. I know I can't live with the ifs and whens, there are more our less two options staying our leaving this relationship.
He knows i am really interested in this stuff but don't know how much it bothers me really that i cant experience it. I want to talk to him about this, we never really had a deep conversation about that. Maby is there something i don't know about his perspective ? Maby there is some type of compromise ? Even tho i think this is unlikely, i at least should try. Im really scared about this talk and could need some help, ideas and other perspektivs to go about it the best way. By the way cheating is no option.
TL;DR My bf of 6 year's only wants monogamy, but my worry's that i have not enough experience to even be shure i whant what i now have for a long time is getting to me.
please help and thank you in advance
I'm a 21 female in a 6 year long relationship with a 22 male. He was my first and was i his. But from the start i never really valued this very much. I was more interested in having sex with different people, gain experience and have fun with my body while being young. My virginity was literally first come first serve. We had sex at the 3rd date and i stayed because he was and still is a awesome person and i realy love him. But i was still interested in experiencing different kinds of sex, hetero, lesbian, group and so much fetish stuff. But he just wants a monogamous relationship and the experimentation i can do with him is limited. So i can't really have both. We just had a threesome once. For some time i tried for more threesomes but it hasn't really worked. Also he doesn't want any other man to touch me. Because he really loves the thought of being the only one wo ever had something with me. I would not have a problem with monogamy if i had some experience. I at least want to know some of the stuff that's out there. My fear is that i will miss out on stuff and experiencing it in a young body Witch is still flexible and has more endurance is worth so much more in my eyes.
So back to my problem i know if im staying in this relationship as it is now. Im regretting it someday. Even if i try all of of the above mentioned and don't like it. I know I can't live with the ifs and whens, there are more our less two options staying our leaving this relationship.
He knows i am really interested in this stuff but don't know how much it bothers me really that i cant experience it. I want to talk to him about this, we never really had a deep conversation about that. Maby is there something i don't know about his perspective ? Maby there is some type of compromise ? Even tho i think this is unlikely, i at least should try. Im really scared about this talk and could need some help, ideas and other perspektivs to go about it the best way. By the way cheating is no option.
TL;DR My bf of 6 year's only wants monogamy, but my worry's that i have not enough experience to even be shure i whant what i now have for a long time is getting to me.
please help and thank you in advance
