talking stage with an avoidant attachment hmtb foid

[iBlameMaliq]

I'm like mmtn-hmtn and we're sort of in talking stage, my class ships us and people know we're close but this girl is really hard to get and always push and pulling me so i kinda pull back too from my ego, making this holiday a lost contact (we dont like each other tiktoks anymore, we dont view eachother stories or even reply them) and i need to get back until i can slay her again.. (i have a plan on getting her to watch stranger things together because she told me to catch up) [im kinda a people pleaser any tips?]

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

FaceTime her

 

[iBlameMaliq]

FaceTime her

im kind of bad for topics because the last chat is just me asking out of convenient instead of deep connecting talk, any advice? like her feelings, her interest or mine

 

[Eskorbutin]

im kind of bad for topics because the last chat is just me asking out of convenient instead of deep connecting talk, any advice? like her feelings, her interest or mine

Just tell her and ask how she feels and say sorry if she says something Abt u don't think too much just type it and don't look at the phone

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

im kind of bad for topics because the last chat is just me asking out of convenient instead of deep connecting talk, any advice? like her feelings, her interest or mine

No you have to get her interested for deep topics otherwise she will just stay surface level. Just talk bs and after a few calls you will be comfortable saying anything

 

[Nathan Fielder]

If she really is an avoidant, don’t catch feelings for her. Stay for sex and only sex

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Just fuck her and dip

 

[SoundnVision]

Fuck her fanny

 

[iBlameMaliq]

Just fuck her and dip

getting us to a intimate situation and location would it really help?

 

[DrunkenSailor]

getting us to a intimate situation and location would it really help?

Ig? Idk what you two were up to but my point is that i wouldn’t waste my time with push pull garbage if that’s what keeps her interested. I would just fuck her asap for that post nut clarity then dip. Bonus points if you fuck her brains out she might come back for more.

 

[Whatever]

If you hang around another month or two and don’t be pushy she might set up an opportunity for sex, invite you over late at night or something. But there’s no guarantee so stay open and if other girls saw her giving you attention that’s a good thing.

 

[luuk]

I'm like mmtn-hmtn and we're sort of in talking stage, my class ships us and people know we're close but this girl is really hard to get and always push and pulling me so i kinda pull back too from my ego, making this holiday a lost contact (we dont like each other tiktoks anymore, we dont view eachother stories or even reply them) and i need to get back until i can slay her again.. (i have a plan on getting her to watch stranger things together because she told me to catch up) [im kinda a people pleaser any tips?]

>avoidant
Block, trust me

 

[iBlameMaliq]

>avoidant
Block, trust me

that foid is also hypergamous holy shit, she asked me to get to know one of my looksmaxxer influencer friend holy shit

 

[malique]

I'm like mmtn-hmtn and we're sort of in talking stage, my class ships us and people know we're close but this girl is really hard to get and always push and pulling me so i kinda pull back too from my ego, making this holiday a lost contact (we dont like each other tiktoks anymore, we dont view eachother stories or even reply them) and i need to get back until i can slay her again.. (i have a plan on getting her to watch stranger things together because she told me to catch up) [im kinda a people pleaser any tips?]

must be very exhausting