Foodiepill
Emperor of Greys
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This is the reason I can’t get a girlfriend, aside from being awkward ash sometimes. I’m a tall white mtn so my looks have gotten me into several different talking stages over the last couple of years. They never fucking last though because I don’t trust women at all.
The main issue with talking stages is that they are inherently a grey space between friends/strangers and an actual relationship. You can put in some effort and some time, but you won’t be rewarded for your labor because you aren’t actually defined as anything.
This “grey space” is easy for women to manipulate, because its lack of definition gives them leeway for bullshit. She can be talking to multiple guys but you can’t confront her, you can’t be irritated by it because you aren’t actually together. “Why are you so attached?” “Why do you care?” Etc. Therein lies the cuckery of talking stages. She is using you for attention and flirting with other guys.
If I was cl this wouldn’t be a problem. Jbg is law.
The main issue with talking stages is that they are inherently a grey space between friends/strangers and an actual relationship. You can put in some effort and some time, but you won’t be rewarded for your labor because you aren’t actually defined as anything.
This “grey space” is easy for women to manipulate, because its lack of definition gives them leeway for bullshit. She can be talking to multiple guys but you can’t confront her, you can’t be irritated by it because you aren’t actually together. “Why are you so attached?” “Why do you care?” Etc. Therein lies the cuckery of talking stages. She is using you for attention and flirting with other guys.
If I was cl this wouldn’t be a problem. Jbg is law.
