livelostlaugh
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Im not exactly shy to talk to girls, i dont struggle with eye contact, and im not like overly lustfull, but ive always had this problem that just straight up prevents me from talking to much of them. Im not sure why but my mind instantly snaps to boredom every time i talk to women, i dont relate with them at all and they are just so boring. I dont know if im talking to the wrong people or anything but also, do they even maybe have the slightest interest as me? Lots of women now days have little to no goals and i love conversations about life goals and improvement but i talk to guys about that, when it comes to women i have no clue what to mention so i sit there awkwardly saying basic ass lines like “hows your day” “how you been” or “whatcha been up to” but thats really it. I really like their personality traits but their interest just bore me to death, everytime im talking to one i just sit there and think to myself “why am i even trying, this feels like a waste of time” or come out of the conversation dissapointed that i couldnt strike a normal conversation. Im not like gay or anything of that sort, but women just bore the fuck out of me, anyone have any ideas? It’s genuinely over if i cant get over the fact that they mostly are boring as fuck to be around. How do people who look ugly have no problem striking a convo but with me its always awkward as fuck?