Tbh i did fuck up with my old itis

[Deleted member 128803]

I wouldn't have gotten laid with her but at least i could have avoided being hurt.

See, i did everything perfectly up until the first date. I was trollish and non chalant on text because i thought it was a catfish so i didnt care and then showed up on the date dressed like a hipster hobo with a shitty beard. Meanwhile, she took it seriously and put effort in herself so by direspecting her she probably thought i had other options and she wasnt that important.

The downfall began when i didnt play the instagram game. See, if i accepeted her instagram and saw how slutty she was, i would have texted her and asked in cold blood if she was down to fuck. She would have responded: "No thanks, you are not my type" or smth and maybe blocked me. It would hurt but it would go away fast.

Instead, i vaguely asked if she wanted to see me and the bitch ofc turned into a coffee date. Now, its obvious she got dumped in between (she said she was super "busy" these days) and just wanted to humiliate a guy to boost her ego. I just happened to be that guy. It happens.

And, to all the bluepillers here, getting brutalized by a woman in person is a completely different experience than getting rejected in a text.

@Primalsplit why am i so naive???

 

[Primalsplit]

You did nothing wrong. She is the one that should be ashamed. I think you would have protected your psyche if you messed her up instead by the end.

She has a right to reject you but she doesn't have a right to humiliate you. If she does that, instantly humiliate her back. Maybe you can make fun of a flaw she has or something. When you can get a butthurt reaction and defensiveness, that's where you will push further.

I see your real problem now. You don't want love. You want to get over your defeats. You will not get rid of your patheticness until you make a woman cry or something. What you need is victory of that sort, not slaying.

 

[FutureSlayer]

who cares she was not even your first love nor a respectable girl, some of us got fucked up harsher and worse

 

[Deleted member 128803]

she was not even your first love

idk about love but i sure had feelings for her

 

[Deleted member 128803]

. She is the one that should be ashamed.

i dont blame her. not because im a cuck but because i was both naive and arrogant at the same time. naive enough to trust her yet arrogant to think i could get her "my way".

She has a right to reject you but she doesn't have a right to humiliate you.

there are no rights in these situations. besides, this was completely avoidable. all i had to do was text her on ig and ask for sex.

I see your real problem now. You don't want love. You want to get over your defeats. You will not get rid of your patheticness until you make a woman cry or something. What you need is victory of that sort, not slaying.

tbh, i dont even know what i want at this point

 

[Askeladd93270]

Bro I have a non NT fumble story so non NT that I turns another thing like a devil story it's so cringe you will cry blood

 

[Godera]

Just move on nigga

 

[Joshrc]

Move on as if nothing happened. Thinkin bout this just gives stress to which going to looksmin u even further