Teen love is not a cope

[vision_n]

Everyone should experience romance and intimacy in their 20s.

Waiting until you’re older while having no experience because you were “building yourself up” is cope. Especially if you live in a first world country and have all your needs met.

Money and superficial self improvement are constructs.

You’re delaying the real thing (human connection) for a bunch of illusions. Bank accounts and gyms don’t exist in nature. Waiting until you’re 30 to build yourself up before talking to a girl doesn’t happen in nature.

Do both simultaneously. Work on yourself AND make friendships and have relationships.

“I will finally give myself permission to experience love WHEN I achieve XYZ” is nonsense.

 

[buddhistking]

Wait are you talking about teen love or young love cus dating as a minor and dating in ur 20s is also different

I personally don't believe its over if ur like 17 and still khhv, but if ur 27 it's a different story, not like completely over, but you need to hurry up

 

[Klasik616]

Everyone should experience romance and intimacy in their 20s.

Waiting until you’re older while having no experience because you were “building yourself up” is cope. Especially if you live in a first world country and have all your needs met.

Money and superficial self improvement are constructs.

You’re delaying the real thing (human connection) for a bunch of illusions. Bank accounts and gyms don’t exist in nature. Waiting until you’re 30 to build yourself up before talking to a girl doesn’t happen in nature.

Do both simultaneously. Work on yourself AND make friendships and have relationships.

“I will finally give myself permission to experience love WHEN I achieve XYZ” is nonsense.

I can't do both because I lack time

 

[superpsycho]

i grew up as a fat kid

in my teen years id always tell myself id start going for girls once i dropped this many pounds

and when i did finally lose all that weight, i was still a boneless with poor features so my efforts were futile

 

[vision_n]

but if ur 27 it's a different story, not like completely over, but you need to hurry up

kinda right kinda not

 

[jamessaphire87]

Everyone should experience romance and intimacy in their 20s.

Waiting until you’re older while having no experience because you were “building yourself up” is cope. Especially if you live in a first world country and have all your needs met.

Money and superficial self improvement are constructs.

You’re delaying the real thing (human connection) for a bunch of illusions. Bank accounts and gyms don’t exist in nature. Waiting until you’re 30 to build yourself up before talking to a girl doesn’t happen in nature.

Do both simultaneously. Work on yourself AND make friendships and have relationships.

“I will finally give myself permission to experience love WHEN I achieve XYZ” is nonsense.

Hopefuel

 

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