Tell me why you want a girlfriend

[Baban]

to tell my daily happenings and share my daily ramblings
talk and get my mental health good

How does this not get boring, and how do you not run out of daily happenings

 

[Deleted member 110759]

yup. 56% of people get divorced. and from the remaining that don’t i think a lot more would if it wasn’t for kids, money, ruining family etc. honestly id put it closer to 80%. even grandparents i have considered but didnt since they didnt want to hurt family.

You hit the nail on the head with the different between grandparents and our parents. Society is more accepting of it. Well, in the past you would be seen as a black sheep. For better or worse, this has made divorce far more commonplace. Which I am torn about because on one hand a one parent household can be rough. But so can living with two parents who hate each other.

 

[appeal]

How does this not get boring, and how do you not run out of daily happenings

it does get boring, from experience.
it’s just talking for the sake of the room not being quite tbh.

 

[appeal]

You hit the nail on the head with the different between grandparents and our parents. Society is more accepting of it. Well, in the past you would be seen as a black sheep. For better or worse, this has made divorce far more commonplace. Which I am torn about because on one hand a one parent household can be rough. But so can living with two parents who hate each other.

They will have to make it a constant effort if they start together, to not let any of their problems effect their kids etc, and deal with their shit in private. if they don’t do this, the house will be toxic asf and your better off, your the children’s sake, just splitting up and living in separate house holds where the parents aren’t together.

 

[IOS]

How does this not get boring, and how do you not run out of daily happenings

then she will tell me

 

[Baban]

then she will tell me

it does get boring, from experience.
it’s just talking for the sake of the room not being quite tbh.

Jestermaxxing sucks. If I had my own place I'd just get a gf, make her stay at my place, play games to activities together to reduce the jestering. But I have to wait years for that to happen

 

[Deleted member 110759]

They will have to make it a constant effort if they start together, to not let any of their problems effect their kids etc, and deal with their shit in private. if they don’t do this, the house will be toxic asf and your better off, your the children’s sake, just splitting up and living in separate house holds where the parents aren’t together.

So the question is how do you solve it? Does it even need to be solved?

Because couples that divorce don't go into the relationship expecting to divorce. So it's kind of coin toss if it will last. Even couples who wait years before marriage can still have issues. While others marry after a few months of dating and last a lifetime. It would be interesting to see measurable rates on the amount of time dating before marriage, compared to the couple's divorce rate.

 

[Daddy's Home]

This has nothing to do with good boyfriend or not. Girls now, at least most of them don’t want to be “slaves” for men and wash their shit, and clean your house. it’s not even realistic in this day and age. that’s the way it used to be, times have changed.

These are tales from TikTok rabbit holes interviews outside clubs in the slums of UK given by LTB minions, or from controversial podcasts with OF girls being paid to respond in a certain way to promote a certain narrative that produce more shares and views

In real life, in an average city in an average country, if you walk up to a normal 18 to 23 year old girl on the street, she'll say it's no problem to put some extra clothes in the wash when she puts hers in, or to make a larger amount of food / order a larger amount of food when she makes hers, if she has a boyfriend who makes her happy and with whom she is satisfied

Obviously, the parts I describe are partial and fluctuate depending on each day and her energy. Normally, these activities will be shared by both of you, but for the most part she will do them. But the bottom line is that she will be willing to make them, to a greater or lesser extent, depending on certain things that you do for her, which are entirely up to you and your quality as her boyfriend..

 

[T50 Demon]

So the question is how do you solve it? Does it even need to be solved?

Because couples that divorce don't go into the relationship expecting to divorce. So it's kind of coin toss if it will last. Even couples who wait years before marriage can still have issues. While others marry after a few months of dating and last a lifetime. It would be interesting to see measurable rates on the amount of time dating before marriage, compared to the couple's divorce rate.

I saw a study that said couples who lived together before marrying had a way higher divorce rate

 

[Avertion]

Ask your mum instead. No love will ever be as strong as a mothers love for you. Even if your gigachad.

I think he’s talking about himself feeling love

 

[Deleted member 110759]

I saw a study that said couples who lived together before marrying had a way higher divorce rate

Surprising tbh. Any idea why that would be the case? You would think living together would allow them to adjust beforehand rather than after the fact.

 

[lestoa]

unlimited sex, you have someone who cares about you

 

[IwillRope2024]

free sex and someone to talk with

 

[我需要阴部]

Ask your mum instead. No love will ever be as strong as a mothers love for you. Even if your gigachad.

not true if you have a horrible mum never has a girlfriend ever hurt me as much as my mum

 

[T50 Demon]

Surprising tbh. Any idea why that would be the case? You would think living together would allow them to adjust beforehand rather than after the fact.

Maybe it was already unstable and they got married in a desperate attempt to save the relationship

 

[Deleted member 110759]

Maybe it was already unstable and they got married in a desperate attempt to save the relationship

Good point. I have heard something similar but with children. Which only makes the situation more complex and stressful.

 

[IwillRope2024]

not true if you have a horrible mum never has a girlfriend ever hurt me as much as my mum

my mom treats me like a piece of trash and insults me constantly.

I think it’s the reason why i get intense anxiety when talking with girls.

Not all mother are created equal.

 

[我需要阴部]

my mom treats me like a piece of trash and insults me constantly.

I think it’s the reason why i get intense anxiety when talking with girls.

Not all mother are created equal.

''not all mother are created equal''

100%

For me it's the opposite I constantly seek validation from girls especially ones older then me.

 

[The Grinch]

to tell my daily happenings and share my daily ramblings
talk and get my mental health good

So you are looking for a mother?

 

[The Grinch]

If I had my own place I'd just get a gf, make her stay at my place, play games to activities together to reduce the jestering. But I have to wait years for that to happen

You poor thing, you will definitely die alone

 

[PsychoH]

Ask your mum instead. No love will ever be as strong as a mothers love for you. Even if your gigachad.

nice ass cope but no.

 

[sub5outsider]

i dont wanna be seen as a weirdo

 

[Mako]

Sex, kisses, and validation

 

[appeal]

Sex, kisses, and validation

then only valid reasons. apart from that, completely and utterly useless individuals.

 

[redgill928]

from having one, I can attest to the fact they are completely useless apart from sex. Just pure cortisol fuel.

to have someone to talk too on any level and also to have a kid and dont forget sex

 

[laaltin]

To get female validation on demand so I can focus my energy on productive things

 

[Deleted member 2998]

Because we humans are fundamentally social creatures. There are very, very few people who are genuinely satisfied being all on their own, all the time.

Even those who consider themselves loners are either not loners by choice, or still seek out social connection online through niche forums like these.

With the opposite sex especially there's just a primal urge for intimacy, I'd say. It's beyond sex. We men just value female validation intrinsically. A compliment from a woman (especially an attractive one), will mean more than a hundred compliments from guys.

Even those nerds in school who are never seen interacting with women are still daydreaming about a crush for hours on end. Some manage to delude themselves they don't want or need female validation for some time (with 2D women as replacements) until they give up and start looking for a girlfriend.

 

[zemult]

Normie sexhaver telling a bunch of sexless incels "sex is overrated bro."