Telling parents about surgery

[Canthus]

Going to have to do this in like 2 weeks since I wanna get it next summer. I’d be 19 and have the money but still they’re paying for my college and i’ve never mentioned any shit like this. Going to be a pain in the ass but it needs to be done. Don’t even know how to explain my reasoning my dads just going to try to make me look like a dumbass and my moms gonna cry

 

[shedontluv-U]

Remember that his goal is simply to make you look ridiculous don't try to talk to him as if he'll understand.

And keep ur cortisole low

(I don't know why I am permalock in bold)

 

[kyslord]

 

[Jgns]

parents won't be there when you're getting cucked by a better looking nigga so don't let them cap ur potential in life

 

[Canthus]

parents won't be there when you're getting cucked by a better looking nigga so don't let them cap ur potential in life

They won’t guilt trip me. Just worried they’ll find a way to make the surgery not happen. I don’t give a fuck what they think

 

[Jgns]

They won’t guilt trip me. Just worried they’ll find a way to make the surgery not happen. I don’t give a fuck what they think

mirin bro and im in the same situation with my mom idgaf what she thinks shes a woman

 

[Canthus]

mirin bro and im in the same situation with my mom idgaf what she thinks shes a woman

Ya it’s just annoying tbh but I can promise you they won’t stop me. I don’t care what it takes i’m not living more than another year with this same face. Kinda hard to stop a 19 yo from driving to a clinic and paying with his money

 

[Jgns]

Ya it’s just annoying tbh but I can promise you they won’t stop me. I don’t care what it takes i’m not living more than another year with this same face. Kinda hard to stop a 19 yo from driving to a clinic and paying with his money

mirin bro and same but im 20.5 and going to get way more stuff prolly, thing is whats gnna happen after yk, gt finda way to larp too

 

[Canthus]

mirin bro and same but im 20.5 and going to get way more stuff prolly, thing is whats gnna happen after yk, gt finda way to larp too

Yeah this will be midface/paranasal implant with cantho and fat graft would ascend me hard asf. Not even that crazy. Doubt my parents are willing to lose an 18 year old relationship over that

 

[Jgns]

Yeah this will be midface/paranasal implant with cantho and fat graft would ascend me hard asf. Not even that crazy. Doubt my parents are willing to lose an 18 year old relationship over that

yeah thats not too crazy tbh, good plan and hopefully they wont care cause ascensions objectively good

 

[kisslessvirgin]

will this affect your college timeline

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

whay're you telling them for though?

Like if you have the money and don't need it from them, why would you tell them?

 

[nathan V]

It’s inevitable

 

[Canthus]

will this affect your college timeline

More women and treatment I guess. I’ll already be near or just LHTN to start next year from fillers and all this other shit i’ve done and am doing more. Midface being fixed and eyes would just ascend me so fucking hard i’d prob be HHTN sophmore year

 

[kisslessvirgin]

More women and treatment I guess. I’ll already be near or just LHTN to start next year from fillers and all this other shit i’ve done and am doing more. Midface being fixed and eyes would just ascend me so fucking hard i’d prob be HHTN sophmore year

swell

but I was saying in terms of your progression in skool. if its not going to have a major impact on the time period, you can

use that to justify it to your parents

 

[Canthus]

swell

but I was saying in terms of your progression in skool. if its not going to have a major impact on the time period, you can

use that to justify it to your parents

Oh nah it wouldn’t. I would get it late may or early june next summer so id have the entire summer to recover before starting the next school year. That’s plenty of time to have no bruising or swelling minor scar wouldn’t even matter

 

[kisslessvirgin]

Oh nah it wouldn’t. I would get it late may or early june next summer so id have the entire summer to recover before starting the next school year. That’s plenty of time to have no bruising or swelling minor scar wouldn’t even matter

sounds good

when explaining to them, treat it as something you ARE doing and NEEDS to be done.

don't use language that makes it sound like you need their approval or something you are asking for.

 

[Matrix88]

what surgery are you getting?