That one time I got laughed at by a girl for asking her out on a date

[Deleted member 15674]

I matched with this persian girl on tinder, she was pretty good looking too, and she lived 1km away from me as well as attending the same uni as me. So I shoot her a message and she actually replies and I manage to add her on snapchat.

After adding her, I shoot her a message and she replies - she also made the snapchat convo save for 24 hours (messages will basically be deleted after 24 hours). Anyways after shooting her a few messages and some back and forth, I ask her out to coffee. I tell her I'll be getting a coffee later this week and tell her to join...

JFL, she didn't bother responding for 8 hours, and within that 8 hour period she was still posting shit on her story such as her shopping. After those 8 hours she sent me this.

"Lol, no. I'm busy getting cocktails this week. Sorry"

BRUTAL. I just said "okay have fun", and left it at that and never messaged her again.

I still see her snapchat stories and they are cringe af, she is narcy af. Constantly posting selfies and pics of her at clubs drinking. Over 4 me.

I was brutally depressed for an entire day after that, girls don't want 5'5 curries. It was awful. Why did she even bother making the snapchat convo save for 24 hours too? She thinks I'll text her and hangout? No chance, I don't give women attention for free. I only give attention to incels on obscure forums

 

[Deleted member 6305]

girls don't want 5'5 curries

 

[Gonthar]

I tell her I'll be getting a coffee later this week and tell her to join...
After those 8 hours she sent me this.
"Lol, no. I'm busy getting cocktails this week. Sorry"

Why didn't you offer to get cocktails instead: "Hey, we'll met get some cocktails, whatever you want: Sex on the beach, Blow Job, Anus Burner, etc....".

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[Deleted member 14478]

Why didn't you offer to get cocktails instead: "Hey, we'll met get some cocktails, whatever you want: Sex on the beach, Blow Job, Anus Burner, etc....".

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Those are fire ngl I have tasted them on parties and on the beach
Girls drink that shit since 8 here

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Why didn't you offer to get cocktails instead: "Hey, we'll met get some cocktails, whatever you want: Sex on the beach, Blow Job, Anus Burner, etc....".

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If she was interested in me, she'd have made another date saying "oh we can try at 6pm next monday" or some shit. Plus I'd be expected to pay for cocktails if she said yes. Fuck that srs

 

[Deleted member 16989]

She probably are not even looking date. Just get compliments.

 

[Gonthar]

If she was interested in me, she'd have made another date saying "oh we can try at 6pm next monday" or some shit. Plus I'd be expected to pay for cocktails if she said yes. Fuck that srs

Hmmm....that's some red pill bullshit, in real life things are more complicated, girls are flooded with so many offers these days that it's hard for them to decide, you just have to try and try until you get lucky and succeed if your SMV is low and girls don't line up for a chance to get a date with you...

 

[Deleted member 15674]

Hmmm....that's some red pill bullshit, in real life things are more complicated, girls are flooded with so many offers these days that it's hard for them to decide, you just have to try and try until you get lucky and succeed if your SMV is low and girls don't line up for a chance to get a date with you...

Idk man, I feel weird doing that. Feels like I'm already more needy/invested than her if I do it. And you're right, I got the advice from redpill lol

 

[Gonthar]

Idk man, I feel weird doing that. Feels like I'm already more needy/invested than her if I do it. And you're right, I got the advice from redpill lol

From what I remember I think you mentioned you're Indian and 5'5 - forget the redpill bullcrap like not being needy, keeping your frame, being alpha, acting like you're the prize, etc. - that shit doesn't work in your case, only when you're very desirable and have plenty of other options...

 

[Deleted member 15674]

From what I remember I think you mentioned you're Indian and 5'5 - forget the redpill bullcrap like not being needy, keeping your frame, being alpha, acting like you're the prize, etc. - that shit doesn't work in your case, only when you're very desirable and have plenty of other options...

I would much rather not get laid then grovel at the feet of women.

 

[Gonthar]

I would much rather not get laid then grovel at the feet of women.

I'm afraid you don't have much of a choice, I've seen plenty of ugly/short/ethnic/etc. guys with girlfriends but the girls were with them because they were treated like queens - always praised, worshipped, showered with gifts, attention, etc...
As a low value male myself, I was rejected tons of times no matter how I acted, but when I actually got lucky and had a few girlfriends, I've found out that the redpill was useless in my case, I had to act submissive, be at their feet, accept their criticism, act like a loyal dog, etc.; if you aren't a Chad, you just won't have the power in a relationship and won't be able to control it on your own terms.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

I'm afraid you don't have much of a choice, I've seen plenty of ugly/short/ethnic/etc. guys with girlfriends but the girls were with them because they were treated like queens - always praised, worshipped, showered with gifts, attention, etc...
As a low value male myself, I was rejected tons of times no matter how I acted, but when I actually got lucky and had a few girlfriends, I've found out that the redpill was useless in my case, I had to act submissive, be at their feet, accept their criticism, act like a loyal dog, etc.; if you aren't a Chad, you just won't have the power in a relationship and won't be able to control it on your own terms.

I will never do this

 

[hebbewem]

Only women you can trust about their bodycount are leftist women and the more to the rights they are trust them less

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

For a girl like that don’t ask her out for coffee- say something like hey me and my mates are going to suc and such club on Friday night - come along with your friends after you’ve had cocktails. This works better if you actually have friends btw but if you don’t just fraud and meet her at the club anyway she’ll be drunk by the time she gets to there as probs won’t be able to tell in you’re there alone or not in a crowded dance floor- if she questions it just say oh my mate pulled or he’s chatting to a different girl over there and gesture to the other side of the room

 

[Delucci99]

I will never do this

good man. Felt your self respect through the screen, i too would never in my life let a girl treat me like that. Just have a radar that goes off when i feel something like that happening

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

I will never do this

Good, stand firm don’t take bullshit

 

[Deleted member 3478]

Your problems can be solved by running more volume. Some girls are just shitty trolls

 

[Gengar’s Ghost]

women are cruel

 

[DaddyLooksmax]

I matched with this persian girl on tinder, she was pretty good looking too, and she lived 1km away from me as well as attending the same uni as me. So I shoot her a message and she actually replies and I manage to add her on snapchat.

After adding her, I shoot her a message and she replies - she also made the snapchat convo save for 24 hours (messages will basically be deleted after 24 hours). Anyways after shooting her a few messages and some back and forth, I ask her out to coffee. I tell her I'll be getting a coffee later this week and tell her to join...

JFL, she didn't bother responding for 8 hours, and within that 8 hour period she was still posting shit on her story such as her shopping. After those 8 hours she sent me this.

"Lol, no. I'm busy getting cocktails this week. Sorry"

BRUTAL. I just said "okay have fun", and left it at that and never messaged her again.

I still see her snapchat stories and they are cringe af, she is narcy af. Constantly posting selfies and pics of her at clubs drinking. Over 4 me.

I was brutally depressed for an entire day after that, girls don't want 5'5 curries. It was awful. Why did she even bother making the snapchat convo save for 24 hours too? She thinks I'll text her and hangout? No chance, I don't give women attention for free. I only give attention to incels on obscure forums

Why do you even use snapchat. You are giving out too much non-sexual attention.

 

[germanlooks]

I just said "okay have fun"

Cuck

 

[MostGLSlayer]

Zoomer girls will see you as beta if you ask for a date if you’re not chad. Shoulda just told her to come over but youre 5’5...