The 3 pillars of dating success

[BruceWayneMogs]

I find the hardcore blackpill theory untrue.
Looks do contribute significantly to dating success, but it is not the most important thing to consider. Like in many fields of life, the law of diminishing returns does come into play here aswell. Above a certain point (let’s say mhtn) there is no longer need for looksmaxing. Just maxing your looks will result in less dating success than if you allocated your „attribute points” efficiently and equally.

Dating success stands on 3 pillars :
1. Looksmaxing (height, face, health indicators)
2. Status (career, job, money)
3. Romance (love, compatibilty)

All the above pillars are equally as important. Embrace the equality of the black, blue, and redpill.
Also, looksmaxing should be the least of your worries. Focus on your career, focus on becoming a well-read intellectual and interesting person, stack your paper, only after that should you consider hardmaxxing.

 

[Grievous]

looksmaxxing will effect more then just ur love life so thats why u do it first
it will tie into other things later

 

[Deroga]

i was surprised to see a 2023 acc post this absolute dogshit thread

the only thing that matters is ur face, height, and neurotypicality for finding true "romance"

 

[BruceWayneMogs]

i was surprised to see a 2023 acc post this absolute dogshit thread

the only thing that matters is ur face, height, and neurotypicality for finding true "romance"

After a certain threshold, the law of diminishing returns applies, and factors like status, social intelligence, and compatibility become more important.

If your model were correct, only top-tier attractive men would consistently succeed in dating, but in reality, average-looking men with competence and status form relationships with HTBs.

I would never be able to form a long term relationship with an uneducated stacylite with ASPD. (Even if she was interested in me, which is highly unikely.)

Although I have been a frequent reader of the forum since 2022, I try not to treat the blackpill as a belief system. I refuse to get radicalized.

 

[White_Bwoi]

I refuse to get radicalized.

Like the kids say these days - 'HIGH IQ'.

After 30' it become more & more true if you wan't a romance/love/LTR with hot NT normie women, they expect you to be on "par with your looks" (NT/career) - that's the most overlooked thing in these spheres, it's not that you basically need to betabux even as chadlite, but if you have bum job you'll be labeled as 'something's wrong with him' etc.

I think the looks are still the most important by far, but you need to pass certain threshold of 'functional human being' to form anything long term with a looks match (don't apply when you mog her hard)

 

[ruikundumb]

This only applies after the age of 30. Otherwise status and compatibility have negligible effects