The best definition of the word "incel" to date

[Deleted member 23391]

incel, N.

A man who can not regularly have sex with at least average looking women wherein there is mutual sexual attraction, without resorting to extreme effort.

Example sentences:

"that incel had to take her on 5 dates before she had sex with him"
"he's incel, he only got laid with a low tier Becky"
"it's been 3 years since that incel had a one-night-stand"
"he had to resort to betabuxxing for a girl that was FWBs with chad, what an incel"

Virtually any man can get sex with prostitutes, but it doesn't matter because it's transactional - escortcels are obviously still incel. But then you have to consider betabuxxing the same principle, and being an emotional tampon the same in spirit. Basically any non-hideous man can get laid with extreme measures (prostitutes, approaching 1000 women like a PUA sperg, using tinder + tinder gold 5 hours a day to sleep with a fat girl, etc), so an extreme definition of "incel" immediately becomes reduced to meaninglessness. So what separates incels from Chads?

Genuinely reciprocated sexual attraction. If you had a couple Becky gfs you had to provide for and who drained you emotionally and demanded all your attention, and have gone long periods without sex involuntarily, you are still an incel. No reciprocated genuine sexual attraction and desire with at least average non-obese women is really what defines the incel archetype.

Incel is not synonymous with "virgin" like purity spiraling spergs would have you believe.

 

[Deleted member 14693]

And how does this definition help us?

 

[Deleted member 23391]

And how does this definition help us?

Because words have MEANING, and precise language is important @slop slinger

 

[Deleted member 18582]

incels don't exist
there are only narcy standardcels

 

[LowTrust]

good definition, but won't change people's copes

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Because words have MEANING, and precise language is important @slop slinger

The definition doesn't even include the first part of the acronym incel (involentarily) so its not a good definition.

 

[Deleted member 18582]

when incels say "girls dont want to fuck me" they've already excluded 90% of girls from the definition of girls. those 90% don't even exist to them as an entity that can be thought of or imagined, just inferred from its absence, like the psychosexual equivalent of dark matter

 

[Deleted member 23391]

when incels say "girls dont want to fuck me" they've already excluded 90% of girls from the definition of girls. those 90% don't even exist to them as an entity that can be thought of or imagined, just inferred from its absence, like the psychosexual equivalent of dark matter

and justifiably so

 

[Deleted member 18582]

and justifiably so

Of course. you should only want to be associated with hot people. But then its not an issue of celibacy, its an issue of standards. There are only instandards. no incels. Nobody is an incel. Sex in itself is embarassingly easy to get.

 

[thenewhebbe]

Including average ruin it

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Including average ruin it

Yeah. Different kind of testosterone levels have different expection for what they find attractive.

If you find fatties attractive and fuck them you aren't an incel.

 

[thenewhebbe]

Yeah. Different kind of testosterone levels have different expection for what they find attractive.

If you find fatties attractive and fuck them you aren't an incel.

By his and your definition women can be incel

 

[thenewhebbe]

By his and your definition women can be incel

Low iq

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Low iq

What?

 

[thenewhebbe]

What?

I was wrong so I attacked myself

 

[LampPostPrime]

and justifiably so

legit. most incels are healthy, totally justified that they want a girl thats also healthy. idk why people here dont talk about obesity more, it fucking eviscerates the size of the dating pool. if there was no obesity that would solve like 3/4 of the incel problem as we would actually have like 10 times more datable girls