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This is a thread directly made for online dating, looks matter way less in the real world as your other redeeming qualities will matter more, however when you are dming a girl on Instagram or TikTok the only thing that matters is what you look like.
Women on social media receive a lot of dms, no matter what they look like. A 5'2 180lbs white woman will still have a plethora of Jamaican mfs in her dms and a htb will have even more, hence the sense of inflated ego women have and why some women have really high standards. Mental cels like to complain a lot about how easy it is for a woman to attract a man and how it is joever for a man if he is not tall and gl, however the quality of men a woman attracts is also based on her appearance and their intentions are based on her appearance. for example generally a 7/10 man might dm a 5/10 or a 6/10 woman but he will only ever seek casual sex, this means that an ugly woman is only exposed to men below her or at her level. This is where looksmatch theory comes in, you need to be able to look at a woman and be able to understand the caliber of men that you are directly competing with by dming her to avoid wasting your time and getting rejected.
We look at women the same way women look at us, we look at their face and determine based on intuition whether we like it or not then the body, however woman are not an exception to the science of looksmaxxing and so by understanding female failos you can quickly have an educated guess on how many failos the guys in her dms are going to have and whether you weigh upto them or not. You do not need an hour long analysis with a ruler on every girl's face but rather you need to train your mind to look for features, pointy chin, inward gonions, almond eyes, low upper eyelid exposure albeit there is upper eyelid exposure, light blue eyes, her figure, her lips, her cupid bow, her cheekbones, her skull and her indirect halos such as skin, skin color, mannerisms (masculine women are highly undesired no matter their aesthetic) how her hair and how the media portrays women like her.
You need to weigh your failos to her, for example if I see a girl with perfect features but a square chin, I do not bother and waste my time as I have a pointed chin, wide set eyes, fat as fuck nose, and a bit of UEE. However if I see a girl that I find attractive but she does not have clear skin, she's a bit skinny (geographically skinny is either a massive halo or massive falio, I will talk about later) I will likely hit her up as I have a height halo and a body halo.
It is important to note that you can call a feature a halo even though it is not perfect in this sense because this is not an autistic rating rather just a rough estimate of whether she would find you attractive or not.
Things to look for
Race : There are huge stereotypes on certain races and a lot of men care about image, they will not dm a girl from a race that will get them backlash, also if a woman ever posts a tiktok or an instagram or even a celebrity of the same race or pheno as you, make sure you capitalize on the chance even if you are not looksmatched and she mogs you back to Gandy's ballsack,
Body : Body is a huge factor for certain men, and I have shown my friends a lot of girls with ideal bodies but subpar faces and they will always say "she's cute" even if I tell them to just rate her face. The fact she is built nice biases normies.
Age : This mainly applies to highschoolers but being a year or two older than a girl usually means you are more developed therefore more attractive than the guys who usually hit her up.
Followers : Women with a lot of followers can have an inflated ego.
Rejection can happen for any reason, perhaps she is currently not in the mood to get to know someone new, maybe she is getting serious with someone else, maybe she is depressed or maybe she does not like your pheno, womp womp.
Failos such as bodyfat can bring a man instantly to a 5 or a sub 5 however it does not imply to women because mfs will bust in anything.
Just because she looks good in make up does not mean guys will keep approaching her, they know this and it is a turn off for most high tier mfs that will mog you to death.
Just know that brutally you will never have a one night stand with a woman more beautiful than you and if you even have a one night stand with a looksmatched girl consider yourself a genius. And instead you should use this guide to know whether you have a chance at one night stand, dating or being friends with a girl.
I am not rereading this shit, so if there are typos lmk.
Women on social media receive a lot of dms, no matter what they look like. A 5'2 180lbs white woman will still have a plethora of Jamaican mfs in her dms and a htb will have even more, hence the sense of inflated ego women have and why some women have really high standards. Mental cels like to complain a lot about how easy it is for a woman to attract a man and how it is joever for a man if he is not tall and gl, however the quality of men a woman attracts is also based on her appearance and their intentions are based on her appearance. for example generally a 7/10 man might dm a 5/10 or a 6/10 woman but he will only ever seek casual sex, this means that an ugly woman is only exposed to men below her or at her level. This is where looksmatch theory comes in, you need to be able to look at a woman and be able to understand the caliber of men that you are directly competing with by dming her to avoid wasting your time and getting rejected.
We look at women the same way women look at us, we look at their face and determine based on intuition whether we like it or not then the body, however woman are not an exception to the science of looksmaxxing and so by understanding female failos you can quickly have an educated guess on how many failos the guys in her dms are going to have and whether you weigh upto them or not. You do not need an hour long analysis with a ruler on every girl's face but rather you need to train your mind to look for features, pointy chin, inward gonions, almond eyes, low upper eyelid exposure albeit there is upper eyelid exposure, light blue eyes, her figure, her lips, her cupid bow, her cheekbones, her skull and her indirect halos such as skin, skin color, mannerisms (masculine women are highly undesired no matter their aesthetic) how her hair and how the media portrays women like her.
You need to weigh your failos to her, for example if I see a girl with perfect features but a square chin, I do not bother and waste my time as I have a pointed chin, wide set eyes, fat as fuck nose, and a bit of UEE. However if I see a girl that I find attractive but she does not have clear skin, she's a bit skinny (geographically skinny is either a massive halo or massive falio, I will talk about later) I will likely hit her up as I have a height halo and a body halo.
It is important to note that you can call a feature a halo even though it is not perfect in this sense because this is not an autistic rating rather just a rough estimate of whether she would find you attractive or not.
Things to look for
Race : There are huge stereotypes on certain races and a lot of men care about image, they will not dm a girl from a race that will get them backlash, also if a woman ever posts a tiktok or an instagram or even a celebrity of the same race or pheno as you, make sure you capitalize on the chance even if you are not looksmatched and she mogs you back to Gandy's ballsack,
Body : Body is a huge factor for certain men, and I have shown my friends a lot of girls with ideal bodies but subpar faces and they will always say "she's cute" even if I tell them to just rate her face. The fact she is built nice biases normies.
Age : This mainly applies to highschoolers but being a year or two older than a girl usually means you are more developed therefore more attractive than the guys who usually hit her up.
Followers : Women with a lot of followers can have an inflated ego.
Rejection can happen for any reason, perhaps she is currently not in the mood to get to know someone new, maybe she is getting serious with someone else, maybe she is depressed or maybe she does not like your pheno, womp womp.
Failos such as bodyfat can bring a man instantly to a 5 or a sub 5 however it does not imply to women because mfs will bust in anything.
Just because she looks good in make up does not mean guys will keep approaching her, they know this and it is a turn off for most high tier mfs that will mog you to death.
Just know that brutally you will never have a one night stand with a woman more beautiful than you and if you even have a one night stand with a looksmatched girl consider yourself a genius. And instead you should use this guide to know whether you have a chance at one night stand, dating or being friends with a girl.
I am not rereading this shit, so if there are typos lmk.
