The biggest blackpill is that the blackpill is cope

[rambocel]

It’s not about your looks. I mean looks matter, but not nearly to the extent that all of you autists make it out to. I see so many normal looking dudes who are with girls who are cute. Why? Because personality does matter and anyone who thinks otherwise is autistic and permanently online. You don’t have to be ultra-handsome, 6’3”+, etc. If all you’re looking for is hookups on dating apps where women only want the cream of the crop, then maybe that applies, but in reality, so long as you aren’t ugly and/or irredeemably short (like sub 5’6”), social interaction with women is very meaningful and influential.

It’s easy to blame your looks (which are more than optimal in all likelihood) than your horrible and shitty worldview and bitter personality. It’s easier to look in the mirror and say you’re ugly than to look inward and accept that you’re an insufferable human with no friends and no social circle, and the truth is that that is what arguably matters most.

I hope this message reaches younger users on this site specifically. This place can rope you in and before you know it it’ll make you autistic. Don’t let that happen to you. Unironically go outside, touch grass, and while continuing to try and improve upon your looks as best you can (because that does matter still), try to make socialization your priority.

I’m 22 now, and one of my biggest regrets is having cut off all contact with people from high school and then not going to college. It’s quite literally Been social suicide. If I had done that, I wouldn’t be here. I’d probably be with my girlfriend who loves me dearly.

Don’t be me. This is a warning to all the 14-17 year old newgens here and anyone else who feels like this applies to them.

 

[Idontknow-]

Because personality does matter

 

[suicidemonkey]

It’s not about your looks. I mean looks matter, but not nearly to the extent that all of you autists make it out to. I see so many normal looking dudes who are with girls who are cute. Why? Because personality does matter and anyone who thinks otherwise is autistic and permanently online. You don’t have to be ultra-handsome, 6’3”+, etc. If all you’re looking for is hookups on dating apps where women only want the cream of the crop, then maybe that applies, but in reality, so long as you aren’t ugly and/or irredeemably short (like sub 5’6”), social interaction with women is very meaningful and influential.

It’s easy to blame your looks (which are more than optimal in all likelihood) than your horrible and shitty worldview and bitter personality. It’s easier to look in the mirror and say you’re ugly than to look inward and accept that you’re an insufferable human with no friends and no social circle, and the truth is that that is what arguably matters most.

I hope this message reaches younger users on this site specifically. This place can rope you in and before you know it it’ll make you autistic. Don’t let that happen to you. Unironically go outside, touch grass, and while continuing to try and improve upon your looks as best you can (because that does matter still), try to make socialization your priority.

I’m 22 now, and one of my biggest regrets is having cut off all contact with people from high school and then not going to college. It’s quite literally Been social suicide. If I had done that, I wouldn’t be here. I’d probably be with my girlfriend who loves me dearly.

Don’t be me. This is a warning to all the 14-17 year old newgens here and anyone else who feels like this applies to them.

lmao I remember you from back when I was 16, pretty sure I was asking you for rates on Discord

Also, I chose to start a full-time apprenticeship which I kinda regret. I feel like my life is over now that I'm gonna be wageslaving full-time for the next 40 years.

 

[fabri_1742]

This doesn’t really have anything to do with black pill that much tho

 

[rambocel]

This doesn’t really have anything to do with black pill that much tho

It does

 

[fabri_1742]

It does

How tho

 

[rambocel]

lmao I remember you from back when I was 16, pretty sure I was asking you for rates on Discord

Also, I chose to start a full-time apprenticeship which I kinda regret. I feel like my life is over now that I'm gonna be wageslaving full-time for the next 40 years.

I used to be of the opinion that college was overrated and a waste of money but when people say that they’re the best 4 years of your life, I don’t think they’re lying

A really big regret of mine. I have suffered from pretty bad mental illness for quite awhile now, so I don’t think it was completely in my control, but I still can’t help but think about what could’ve been. When I was younger, nobody thought this is where or who I’d be, myself included

 

[rambocel]

How tho

I mean it touches on the blackpill essentially being over exaggerated and thus is distracting from things that are much more important

 

[fabri_1742]

I mean it touches on the blackpill essentially being over exaggerated and thus is distracting from things that are much more important

I don’t see how

 

[rambocel]

I don’t see how

You don’t see how what? How the blackpill is extremely over-exaggerated in these autistic forums?

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

CERTIFIED TRVKE

 

[fabri_1742]

You don’t see how what? How the blackpill is extremely over-exaggerated in these autistic forums?

I don’t see the correlation between the statements you made in your thread and the black pill. You mainly just talked about how people on here exaggerate how much looks matter

 

[rambocel]

I don’t see the correlation between the statements you made in your thread and the black pill. You mainly just talked about how people on here exaggerate how much looks matter

I was implying that the blackpill was cope. Or that extreme blackpill sentiment regarding facial aesthetics and height is cope. Not really sure where the confusion is

 

[Centurion_Hunter]

It’s not about your looks. I mean looks matter, but not nearly to the extent that all of you autists make it out to. I see so many normal looking dudes who are with girls who are cute. Why? Because personality does matter and anyone who thinks otherwise is autistic and permanently online. You don’t have to be ultra-handsome, 6’3”+, etc. If all you’re looking for is hookups on dating apps where women only want the cream of the crop, then maybe that applies, but in reality, so long as you aren’t ugly and/or irredeemably short (like sub 5’6”), social interaction with women is very meaningful and influential.

It’s easy to blame your looks (which are more than optimal in all likelihood) than your horrible and shitty worldview and bitter personality. It’s easier to look in the mirror and say you’re ugly than to look inward and accept that you’re an insufferable human with no friends and no social circle, and the truth is that that is what arguably matters most.

I hope this message reaches younger users on this site specifically. This place can rope you in and before you know it it’ll make you autistic. Don’t let that happen to you. Unironically go outside, touch grass, and while continuing to try and improve upon your looks as best you can (because that does matter still), try to make socialization your priority.

I’m 22 now, and one of my biggest regrets is having cut off all contact with people from high school and then not going to college. It’s quite literally Been social suicide. If I had done that, I wouldn’t be here. I’d probably be with my girlfriend who loves me dearly.

Don’t be me. This is a warning to all the 14-17 year old newgens here and anyone else who feels like this applies to them.

Yeah bro personality matters trust me

 

[rambocel]

Yeah bro personality matters trust me

personality won’t matter if you’re a turbomanlet or look objectively ugly, but it can really elevate average people in both the looks and height department to a whole other level

 

[suicidemonkey]

How tho

He actually makes a very valuable point. A lot of these kids are being exposed to blackpill content constantly, everywhere now. The internet provides the perfect conditions for a self-reinforcing cycle where looks are placed onto a pedastal far above anything else.

Influencers pretending looks aren't genetic, algorithms that selectively reward attractiveness and constantly pump out lookism content, rating systems that are disconnected from reality, etc...

It's all kinda like Plato's cave.

 

[rambocel]

He actually makes a very valuable point. A lot of these kids are being exposed to blackpill content constantly, everywhere now. The internet provides the perfect conditions for a self-reinforcing cycle where looks are placed onto a pedastal far above anything else.

Influencers pretending looks aren't genetic, algorithms that selectively reward attractiveness and constantly pump out lookism content, rating systems that are disconnected from reality, etc...

It's all kinda like Plato's cave.

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You’re high IQ bro. Not gonna knock you for doing a trade because it’s honest and financially rewarding work, but you definitely could have gone to college if you wanted to. I know a high IQ person when I see one

 

[suicidemonkey]

I used to be of the opinion that college was overrated and a waste of money but when people say that they’re the best 4 years of your life, I don’t think they’re lying

A really big regret of mine. I have suffered from pretty bad mental illness for quite awhile now, so I don’t think it was completely in my control, but I still can’t help but think about what could’ve been. When I was younger, nobody thought this is where or who I’d be, myself included

Yeah maybe, it also does depend on the person though. I've watched a few videos where Clavicular roams college campuses and a lot of people really do seem like mindless degenerates.

I feel a lot of regret too, I actually come from a wealthy family but grew up with a few mental issues myself (I'm 20 by the way). I had an extremely low self-esteem which led me to fuck everything up from 12 to 18. I still go out regularly but it never feels like enough, it'd be impossible to say what % was my fault vs out of my control so I don't even really bother anymore.

Also, I think that not fitting in can unironically change your life. I know this sounds like hopium but without social norms, you develop an independent sense of self much faster. You become better at tolerating uncomfortable questions about yourself, you're also less likely to outsource your self-worth in return for acceptance from others. As a young person, people are gravitated towards this and pick up on it subconsciously. That's why some of the greatest minds were loners.

 

[fabri_1742]

I was implying that the blackpill was cope. Or that extreme blackpill sentiment regarding facial aesthetics and height is cope. Not really sure where the confusion is

I wouldn’t say that black pill isn’t cope but lookism has very much been taken to an extreme level. I personally think that looks are like 60-70 percent of what matters most but the black pill is very true and I think many people misinterpret what people mean when they talk about genetic determinism in the context of black pill as many people think that the black pill means that after you are born you can do nothing about who you are but the way I interpreted it, it means that you can still looksmax and change yourself very much BUT the genetics determine how much you can change and that your body isn’t locked in fate since your birth.

 

[Centurion_Hunter]

personality won’t matter if you’re a turbomanlet or look objectively ugly, but it can really elevate average people in both the looks and height department to a whole other level

Height is your personality brother
Women are animal after all

 

[Overrated]

Blackpill is for black people and whitepill is for white people

 

[whiteegyptian]

nigga most ppl u see on internet cant talk to women irl. because they never learned to do so and their looks only make it worse. obv ntmaxxed mtns will pull. but looks make it easier for u and looks do matter a ton. for some looking good is better then trying to statusmaxx or get nt

 

[wishIwasSalludon]

“the blackpill is cope so long as you meet the looks threshold for the blackpill to not apply to you”

What kind of water ass thread is this

 

[Klasik616]

I used to be of the opinion that college was overrated and a waste of money but when people say that they’re the best 4 years of your life, I don’t think they’re lying

A really big regret of mine. I have suffered from pretty bad mental illness for quite awhile now, so I don’t think it was completely in my control, but I still can’t help but think about what could’ve been. When I was younger, nobody thought this is where or who I’d be, myself included

Dude, in college I dated 0 girls because they didn't wanted me. Barely made any friends and I was basically a nobody for women.

 

[mtfmxxng]

People here be whining about their height and bone structure and how they can't get pussy, focusing on the things they can't control, instead of maximizing the stuff they can, it's infuriating.
"Gym is cope if you're not 6'2" - Whey you're too fucking lazy to go to the gym or literally just do calisthenics with your own bodyweight.
"Personality is cope" - When you're scared of women and can't bring yourself to approach someone.
"Chad doesn't have to do 'x'"

Looks do matter. But this blackpill shit is as much of a cope. Most people here, at least in Offtopic, seem to use it to justify rotting and doing nothing, because they're too lazy (and/or defeated) to maximize what they have power over right now.

 

[rambocel]

“the blackpill is cope so long as you meet the looks threshold for the blackpill to not apply to you”

What kind of water ass thread is this

That’s literally not what I said lol

 

[KT-34]

Only those that ascended can understand this

Looks really don't mean that much, you think they do but they really don't when you have them

 

[Faxed]

Yeah all the guys that are in relationships are usually average or a little above average SMV, usually the women fog them.

Social skills are law

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

just act normal, if your personality isn't a overly bad and autistic you're fine

 

[GodDeityEyeBro]

He actually makes a very valuable point. A lot of these kids are being exposed to blackpill content constantly, everywhere now. The internet provides the perfect conditions for a self-reinforcing cycle where looks are placed onto a pedastal far above anything else.

Influencers pretending looks aren't genetic, algorithms that selectively reward attractiveness and constantly pump out lookism content, rating systems that are disconnected from reality, etc...

It's all kinda like Plato's cave.

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You’re high IQ bro. Not gonna knock you for doing a trade because it’s honest and financially rewarding work, but you definitely could have gone to college if you wanted to. I know a high IQ person when I see one

it's like a self-fufilling prophecy. I think that idea is more brutal than anything else. Looks were always important but these ideas being mainstream just makes that fact even worse. Not to mention that I do see a growing number of people in my college not really know how to speak and interact socially (both men and women tbh)

 

[CorinthianLOX]

You can still go to college brah

 

[KellSS]

Dnrd

 

[CorinthianLOX]

so would you say that 5'7 is an acceptable height?

 

[sub5outsider]

Normies are smarter than us they know the deal social circle maxxing , personality and nichemaxxing is law . Looks is just cream of the crop.

 

[therealdeal877]

Yeah we do exaggerate but physical appearance is just so law there is no escape

wAter cope thread

 

[rambocel]

Only those that ascended can understand this

Looks really don't mean that much, you think they do but they really don't when you have them

I haven’t had sex or kissed a girl and that’s what makes me understand this most tbh

 

[bl0ndch4d]

It’s not about your looks. I mean looks matter, but not nearly to the extent that all of you autists make it out to. I see so many normal looking dudes who are with girls who are cute. Why? Because personality does matter and anyone who thinks otherwise is autistic and permanently online. You don’t have to be ultra-handsome, 6’3”+, etc. If all you’re looking for is hookups on dating apps where women only want the cream of the crop, then maybe that applies, but in reality, so long as you aren’t ugly and/or irredeemably short (like sub 5’6”), social interaction with women is very meaningful and influential.

It’s easy to blame your looks (which are more than optimal in all likelihood) than your horrible and shitty worldview and bitter personality. It’s easier to look in the mirror and say you’re ugly than to look inward and accept that you’re an insufferable human with no friends and no social circle, and the truth is that that is what arguably matters most.

I hope this message reaches younger users on this site specifically. This place can rope you in and before you know it it’ll make you autistic. Don’t let that happen to you. Unironically go outside, touch grass, and while continuing to try and improve upon your looks as best you can (because that does matter still), try to make socialization your priority.

I’m 22 now, and one of my biggest regrets is having cut off all contact with people from high school and then not going to college. It’s quite literally Been social suicide. If I had done that, I wouldn’t be here. I’d probably be with my girlfriend who loves me dearly.

Don’t be me. This is a warning to all the 14-17 year old newgens here and anyone else who feels like this applies to them.

Your point is very valid. Looks do matter but are NOT everything. Social relationships are one of the most important things in life and renouncing to them is harmful in every aspect of one's being (water duh). Looks can help you create more relations (friendships, business acquitances won't magically create them. If you stand in a corner life an autist hoping that someone is gonna approach you boi you are wrong.

Your looks get you ahead on dating apps because that's the most sought thing there. Try making a profile with Baljeet's pics and see how "well" you are going to do. People care because that's what you present, once they meet you it's very hard to mantain that connection with your psysical appearance alone (look at Clavicular).

Regarding college it's a waste of time if you don't get your degrees money. Sure you may have fun at parties and all but that also depends on how you relate to other people. I'm just a year older than you and went to college since learning a trade isn't so rewarding (1300€ a month JFL). I often felt like an outcast because of covid and not being NT enough. The grass isn't so green

 

[rambocel]

Normies are smarter than us they know the deal social circle maxxing , personality and nichemaxxing is law . Looks is just cream of the crop.

Yeah, this is what I’m saying

 

[rambocel]

so would you say that 5'7 is an acceptable height?

It’s definitely a bit of an uphill battle but I’ve personally seen it too many times to count irl. It’s definitely location dependent too imo

 

[rambocel]

You can still go to college brah

No point. I’m 22 now. If I were going to college I’d only want to go for the experience and social scene, and I wouldn’t have that at this age. I think I’ll be more than able to find a good job, that’s not my issue or concern tbh

 

[rambocel]

People here be whining about their height and bone structure and how they can't get pussy, focusing on the things they can't control, instead of maximizing the stuff they can, it's infuriating.
"Gym is cope if you're not 6'2" - Whey you're too fucking lazy to go to the gym or literally just do calisthenics with your own bodyweight.
"Personality is cope" - When you're scared of women and can't bring yourself to approach someone.
"Chad doesn't have to do 'x'"

Looks do matter. But this blackpill shit is as much of a cope. Most people here, at least in Offtopic, seem to use it to justify rotting and doing nothing, because they're too lazy (and/or defeated) to maximize what they have power over right now.

This tbh

 

[rambocel]

Dude, in college I dated 0 girls because they didn't wanted me. Barely made any friends and I was basically a nobody for women.

Are you extremely physically unattractive? Are you ND? Did you have no friends? All of those could be reasons tbh

 

[Deleted member 310685]

Absolute retarded thread. 2020cel and still has not learned.

It’s not about your looks. I mean looks matter, but not nearly to the extent that all of you autists make it out to.

Guess what, autism is genetic. It's well known in the blackpill community aswell. How are you a 2020cel and see the blackpill as what people portray it on tiktok (lookism worship).

Also personality is not what you think it is. Being "nice" (= having a """good""" personality) will give you an opportunity to be in a humiliation ritual / oofy doofy relationship. Women prefer violent psychopaths (dark triads).

Looks is still the nr. 1 aspect, don't get me wrong.


This guy found out about proximity and familiarity being important and thinks he deboonked the blackpill.

 

[Htncel1]

Yeah bro personality matters trust me

Exactly Im an autist with 0 charm and still slay without any less difficulty.

Charm = looks

 

[rambocel]

Absolute retarded thread. 2020cel and still has not learned.




Guess what, autism is genetic. It's well known in the blackpill community aswell. How are you a 2020cel and see the blackpill as what people portray it on tiktok (lookism worship).

Also personality is not what you think it is. Being "nice" (= having a """good""" personality) will give you an opportunity to be in a humiliation ritual / oofy doofy relationship. Women prefer violent psychopaths (dark triads).

Looks is still the nr. 1 aspect, don't get me wrong.


This guy found out about proximity and familiarity being important and thinks he deboonked the blackpill.

You’re arguing semantics bruh. You know what I was trying to say. My main argument is that looks and height aren’t nearly as deterministic as most here make them out to be and that social skills can take you a long, long way.

But yes, autism is indeed brutal. But I feel like a decent amount of people here aren’t actually autistic but are rather just permanently online and isolating themselves but they have the ability to stop that and get out into the real world

 

[rambocel]

Exactly Im an autist with 0 charm and still slay without any less difficulty.

Charm = looks

Because you’re very good-looking lol

Why would this surprise you

 

[Htncel1]

Because you’re very good-looking lol

Why would this surprise you

Im not very, Im htn.

But even then and im saying this from my experience, Im not 100% sure if im right.

 

[Deleted member 310685]

My main argument is that looks and height aren’t nearly as deterministic as most here make them out to be and that social skills can take you a long, long way.

*If you prefer dating to be a humiliation ritual and want her to break up after a few months

 

[rambocel]

Im not very, Im htn.

But even then and im saying this from my experience, Im not 100% sure if im right.

Objective htn here is extremely good-looking irl. It’s one thing if you’re rated htn in 2020, but if you’re rated htn now with how harsh ratings are, you are likely very good looking. I swear to god modern looksism has warped the minds and perceptions of so many people lol

 

[rambocel]

*If you prefer dating to be a humiliation ritual and want her to break up after a few months

I think this is cope