sadcel
oldfag that discovered BP too late
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I see so many threads here about how the blackpill ruined someone's life. Let me explain why that's not true, from the perspective of someone who discovered the blackpill too late(me).
I struggled with social life and family for about a decade (things became unbearable after COVID), and looking back, I'm convinced that most of it was due to my bad genetics.
I had to put in extra effort just to exist socially. If I stopped messaging people first, the conversations would die off quickly.
I had to try hard and go out of my way to form friendships, while others seemed to get the same results effortlessly.
I couldn’t build any meaningful connection with my cousins. I always felt like they kept me at a distance, and our interactions were minimal.
After COVID, things got even worse. I wasn't invited to my cousin's wedding. Another time, some cousins organized a meetup without me—and when I found out by accident, they canceled it
.
Around that time, I started university and managed to make some friends. But even then, I had to work hard to keep those friendships alive, while others seemed to just exist and still be included.
Keep in mind, I wasn’t blackpilled during all of this. I asked myself every single day: Why am I struggling like this? Honestly, I suspected it was because of my awful genetics. But according to the bluepilled narrative; looks don’t matter, personality is what counts most.
So I kept overthinking. I had nights when I couldn’t sleep, just lying there wondering, “What’s wrong with me?” At some point, I even started believing that people saw me as a sociopathic creep or someone you’d never want to be around.
That’s what happens when you’re constantly told that it's all about your personality and looking back I think that's very dangerous as I nearly got in depression because of overthinking.
Then I discovered the blackpill (it started with a Tinder Chadfish experiment involving a guy with a criminal past) .
From that moment, everything started to make sense. I felt at peace. I stopped overthinking, because it all finally clicked. And the blackpill also make you understand the few options you do have to improve your situation (surgeries, steroids, medication, etc.).
So, if you think the blackpill ruined your life,it probably would’ve been just as bad without it. You just wouldn’t have understood why. Trust me, the blackpill saved you hours of overthinking and emotional breakdowns.
And if discovering the blackpill ruined your self-esteem without you already having a shitty life, then honestly, you might just be retarded or an autist. You were probably still genetically wired to suffer, one way or another.
I struggled with social life and family for about a decade (things became unbearable after COVID), and looking back, I'm convinced that most of it was due to my bad genetics.
I had to put in extra effort just to exist socially. If I stopped messaging people first, the conversations would die off quickly.
I had to try hard and go out of my way to form friendships, while others seemed to get the same results effortlessly.
I couldn’t build any meaningful connection with my cousins. I always felt like they kept me at a distance, and our interactions were minimal.
After COVID, things got even worse. I wasn't invited to my cousin's wedding. Another time, some cousins organized a meetup without me—and when I found out by accident, they canceled it
.Around that time, I started university and managed to make some friends. But even then, I had to work hard to keep those friendships alive, while others seemed to just exist and still be included.
Keep in mind, I wasn’t blackpilled during all of this. I asked myself every single day: Why am I struggling like this? Honestly, I suspected it was because of my awful genetics. But according to the bluepilled narrative; looks don’t matter, personality is what counts most.
So I kept overthinking. I had nights when I couldn’t sleep, just lying there wondering, “What’s wrong with me?” At some point, I even started believing that people saw me as a sociopathic creep or someone you’d never want to be around.
That’s what happens when you’re constantly told that it's all about your personality and looking back I think that's very dangerous as I nearly got in depression because of overthinking.
Then I discovered the blackpill (it started with a Tinder Chadfish experiment involving a guy with a criminal past) .
From that moment, everything started to make sense. I felt at peace. I stopped overthinking, because it all finally clicked. And the blackpill also make you understand the few options you do have to improve your situation (surgeries, steroids, medication, etc.).
So, if you think the blackpill ruined your life,it probably would’ve been just as bad without it. You just wouldn’t have understood why. Trust me, the blackpill saved you hours of overthinking and emotional breakdowns.
And if discovering the blackpill ruined your self-esteem without you already having a shitty life, then honestly, you might just be retarded or an autist. You were probably still genetically wired to suffer, one way or another.
